Like what you said to girls.
Girls will think: Say what's uncomfortable, and you just want to chat with her to ease your mood.
Boys will think: you tell him this because you want him to help you solve it. Although he won't say it, if he can do it, he will help you solve it.
I suggest you read some books on how to make friends with boys. I recommend several books to you, all of which are "Love, so it turns out" by Wang Ganren. "Women 25 live the best of themselves" Zheng Jiexin; "Love Commandments" Zheng Jiexin. Men and women are all the same. If you are a girl, there will be girls around you that you don't like, and so will boys. Some things you feel good about, and some things you hate very much, right? Don't generalize and mislead your life journey. Good luck! !