True friendship is pure and non-utilitarian.

Intimate relationships feel overcrowded, and don’t let closeness create resentment. Many friendships get worse and worse because they ask too much from the other person, which is what causes them to fall out.

The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. It is the first time to meet some people. When dealing with these unfamiliar people, no matter how good the first impression is, you still have to be cautious.

Who you hang out with really matters. It can even change your growth trajectory and determine the direction of your life. Only when people reach middle age will they understand that life can only get better and better if they stay away from people with poor character.

Because? Those who are close to vermilion are red, and those who are close to ink are black. To avoid being influenced by harmful friends in our interpersonal relationships, we must know how to keep a certain distance from others.

There is a saying: "Distance creates beauty." Proper distance and a certain sense of boundaries are the long-term solutions to maintaining a relationship. ?When people reach middle age, they have no friendship?: No matter how good the relationship is, you should keep a distance.

Do not interact with kind-hearted people.

When people reach middle age, they need to face a lot of pressure. No matter what you do, you must be careful, otherwise you may fall short of your success if you are not careful.

Especially when it comes to making friends, you need to see a person’s character clearly and not just look at superficial pleasantries.

You know people but not their hearts. Some people are kind on the surface, but in fact they are sinister at heart. Some people seem innocent, but in fact they are the most cunning.

When you reach middle age, you need to understand that many people's hearts are full of sinister feelings, especially those who are kind-hearted and ruthless people who will pursue their own interests without caring about old feelings at all. If they harm others today, they may harm yourself tomorrow.

Because this kind of person seems to be a very kind person, but in fact this kind of person is also the most terrifying person. Therefore, you must make a habit of staying away from those people, because you never know when you will become the target of his calculations.

Do not associate with narrow-minded people.

Being a human being is inseparable from interactions with others. Communication is a mirror that can test the character of others.

Some people are good at jealousy, and they are often the most selfish, narrow-minded, and do not want others to live better than themselves. If you accidentally offend him, he will hold a grudge in his heart. Although he may be generous on the surface, he will never stop plotting against you in his heart.

This kind of person has no bottom line. He dares to do anything as long as it is profitable for him. He only recognizes money and not people. We don’t have to get too close to him, because you can never predict when he will stab you in the back.

In interpersonal communication, try not to deal with narrow-minded lovers. If you have to contact them, you must be more careful to avoid getting yourself into trouble.

Those who don’t pay attention to benefits, forget their loyalty, and don’t know how to be grateful.

As a human being, don’t be ungrateful and don’t be an ungrateful villain. A person who is not grateful always only considers his own feelings and does not know how to empathize with others and think in their shoes.

Others help you out of love, not out of duty. But in real life, there are always some people who take it for granted that you help them. He will only focus on himself and will not consider others.

This kind of person approaches you only because they see your value in using them. But when you are down and out, those who are ungrateful will leave you immediately.

It is better to have a group of friends than to have a true confidant. Friends are not about quantity, but high quality. When you reach middle age, you should stay away from people who are unjust for their own benefit.

Life is like a ruler, you have to be measured. Emotions are like faces, don’t cross the line. No matter how good the relationship is, don't get too close.

Everything should be done in moderation. Don’t get too close to anyone. These three types of people are the most insidious. No matter how good the relationship is on the surface, don’t have deep friendships with them. I hope all my friends can keep this in mind, otherwise you will be the one who gets hurt!

The kind of person you hang out with is the kind of person you become. Remember, you must be measured in your interactions with anyone in real life. If you are not measured, you will be easily influenced by him.

The world is changing and people’s hearts are changing. Nothing is eternal. Eat 70% full and treat people 70% well. Just keep the feelings between people indifferent. It’s good to be intimate but respectful, sparse yet polite, and remain polite to each other.

Part of the disappointments in life are because we overestimate ourselves and expect too much from others.

Therefore, no matter who you are, don’t get too close. Not only will you easily get into trouble, but you will also suffer big losses.