The following movies I recommend are not among ordinary children's movies. Why? Because it is a bit unusual, it touches some difficult problems in life and has far-reaching artistic conception. What's going on here? Look at you.

Parents need to watch these movies with their children, experience the ups and downs of the story and discuss speculation. Don't worry that children don't understand the story, because you can explain it properly; When the story characters are in moral dilemma, don't rush to define right and wrong, good and evil for children. Listen to what the child thinks first. Perhaps children can better interpret the meaning and moral education in the film than we adults, and they can "paint serious things with a sense of humor"!

After each film is introduced, there will be several questions with no "standard answers" for parents and children to discuss syndrome differentiation together. Perhaps we hope to cultivate the independent thinking and free imagination of the next generation, and we will slowly ferment in such a happy parent-child cinema. ...

People out of reach

20 1 1 French film, directed by olivier nakache. Won the Best Film and Best Actor Award of Tokyo Film Festival 20 1 1 (both leading actors won awards).

Synopsis: Out of Reach is the craziest and most passionate friendship story between them, with different classes but complementary souls. The quadriplegic super-rich and street-wandering black gangsters have evolved from a rigid employment relationship to a ruthless soul mate. They broke the differences in status, status, race, culture and personality in class society, and played the most touching music in their lives together, which showed us that all prejudice and discrimination against people are shackles that block a happy life.

Tell children that trust, equality, enthusiasm and respect for others are universal values in getting along with others. This film reminds us that people are people first, then masters and servants. People are people first, poor and rich; People are human first, then white and black.

I said, who do you think was more pitiful at first? Money or no money? Will they be pitiful in the future? Why?

Separation from Nader and Simin: separation

20 1 1 Iranian film, directed by AsgharFarhadi. Won the 20 12 Oscar for Best Foreign Language Film, the Berlin Film Festival for Best Film and the Best Actor and Actress Award.

Synopsis: A Farewell is about an Iranian couple, Nader and Ximin. Ximin hopes that her daughter can emigrate to a better environment to study, while Nader has to stay in Iran to take care of her father with Alzheimer's disease, so they have to agree to separate. Nader then found a maid, Luo Zhi, to take care of his father. One day, when he came home, he found that the maid was absent and his father was tied up and fell under the bed. Nader had an argument with Luo Zhi, who had just returned, and accidentally pushed her down the stairs, which led Luo Zhi to complain to the court afterwards, saying that she had a miscarriage because of Nader's violence. The mutual control between the two sides triggered a series of moral crises.

Tell the children: the director said: "classical tragedies often focus on the war between justice and evil. We always hope that good will win and evil will fail;" But the tragedy of modern society is a war between good and good. No matter which side wins, it will be a heartbreaking result. "Each of us will lie because of selfishness or eccentricity, but more importantly, what is the value behind lying? Is it a religious taboo? Or personal greed and dignity? Is it worthwhile to lose goodwill, innocence and family happiness just for these reasons? In fact, truth and justice are sometimes quite cruel.

I said, why did Nader argue in front of his daughter and the judge that he didn't know the maid Luo Zhi was pregnant? Later, the daughter was summoned by the judge. Why did she lie? The maid admitted that she might have miscarried in the car accident the day before, but why didn't she want her husband to take money to settle it? Excuse me, are there absolutely bad people in the characters in the movie? Is there anyone who is completely honest? Try to tell an experience in which you had to lie.

Twilight samurai of Seibee at dusk

2002 Japanese film, directed by Yoji Yamada. This film is adapted from the short story of the famous novelist Fujisawa Xiuping, and has won the Japanese Oscar 12 Award, the Berlin Film Festival Competition Award and the Oscar nomination for best foreign language film.

Synopsis: At the end of the Tokugawa shogunate, the Qing Department, an inferior warrior of Gu family, always hurried home at dusk, so it was nicknamed "the Qing Department at dusk" by his colleagues. His wife has died after a long illness, and Saibi's income is tight. He has to support his mother and two young daughters and has been afraid to continue. Until one day, Peng Jiang, a divorced childhood friend, appeared at Saibi's home to help, and they had a good impression on each other, but Saibi declined the second marriage because of his poor family. At this time, the vassal regimes often fought for interests, and Sebi, who was good at fencing, was forced to be sent to assassinate the enemy. Before he left, Seibee confessed to him, but he had accepted another marriage, so he had to set off in a gloomy mood and go to a duel with uncertain fate. ...

Tell the children that few martial arts films can present the life of a middle-aged single father so completely. Not only that, but we also saw how he trained his daughter to read The Analects, telling her that reading seems useless, but she can find a way out when she encounters difficulties. Despite decadent bureaucracy and hard times, Seibee witnessed that a person can still live faithfully, kindly, bravely, with dignity and commitment, regardless of ancient and modern times.

I said: although Seibee has high martial arts, why must he live so quietly? Why didn't Seibee want to marry Peng Jiang in the first place? If you were Saibi, would you make a different choice?

Chocolate loves Mary and Max.

2009 Australian film, directed by adam elliot. Won the best film at Anxi Animation Film Festival in France.

Synopsis: This film describes two people who are far apart but equally lonely. One is Mary, an 8-year-old girl who lives in a small town near Melbourne, and the other is Max, a 44-year-old autistic person who lives in new york. Mary has no friends in the small town. One day, she tore a corner from the phone book of the post office, randomly found out the address of a stranger, and then sent a letter wrapped in chocolate to Max, which started a wonderful pen pal relationship and changed the lives of two lonely hearts.

Tell children that everyone will die, everyone is unique and imperfect. These are two great inventions of God. Even the autistic hearts and external deformities of the hero and heroine in this film are unique, and they are all imperfect works of God, just like you and me. When we think we are normal and discriminate against so-called "aliens", we are actually ignorant and lack empathy. Everyone has unknown, lonely and fragile times. Because of this, we must cherish the limited life and the diverse and imperfect life forms.

I said, have you written? Have you ever made a pen pal? What should I do to make friends? Do you have any imperfect friends? Are you perfect yourself? If you are not perfect, where is it?

Midnight in Paris.

20 1 1 American film, directed by Woody Allen. Golden Globe Award for Best Screenplay, Opening Film of Cannes Film Festival.

Synopsis: Jill, a second-rate Hollywood screenwriter, and his fiancee went to Paris, France for a holiday and visited beautiful flowers together. However, during the journey, the two talents gradually discovered their subtle differences in feelings and outlook on life. The most special thing is that Jill, who yearned for the life of a writer in Paris, actually traveled back to the 1920 and 1890' s. Jill not only kissed the writer at the mobile banquet, but also got together with impressionist painters, and finally fell in love with the beautiful women who were as addicted to the golden age as he was. But after all, there is no banquet that must come to an end. Back to reality, Jill chose to leave his estranged fiancee and stay in Paris to pursue her yearning love and writer life. ...

Tell the children that "Midnight in Paris" shows the charming and romantic style of Paris, and makes people feel the beauty of art and the city in ancient and modern times. Fictional stories that travel through time and space also make Hemingway, Picasso, Dali and Fitzgerald appear in the book, liberating children's imagination!

I said: Do you think Paris is beautiful? Where is the beauty? Do you know Hemingway, Picasso, Dali and Fitzgerald in the movies? If you know them, they are not what you think? Do you envy people who lived in ancient times? If so, when was it ancient? Why? If you really lived in ancient times, what good and bad things would happen to you?

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