Many people disagree, but it's true. After all, money can't be said to be everything, but without money, you can't do anything.
At one time, many feelings began with heart-to-heart, but they all lost to money in the end.
Talking about money can best see the essence of a person.
Talking about the sentence that money hurts feelings can really see the essence of a person.
1, borrow money to see people's hearts
There is a good saying: when you have money, you are surrounded by a group of people; When you are in trouble, there is no one around. ?
This is human nature. When you are in trouble and want to ask someone for money, you can see a person for who he really is.
There are really few people who are willing to take the initiative to help you, even if your popularity is good, it will be in vain.
There are too few people who really make friends, especially when it comes to money, and no one wants to borrow it, which will further disintegrate your feelings.
People who like to kiss your ass on weekdays don't know where to hide when you really need them.
Therefore, when you are really in trouble, the person who can help you is never an apple polisher.
It is true that people can best see the people around them when they are down and out.
On the surface, he regards you as a true friend, but when it comes to interests, he will suddenly change his face. He will only be willing to get along with you if it is beneficial to him. When you are useless, he will stay away from you.
Only in the most difficult times can people see clearly how hypocritical people around them are and how much they are sincere.
When people are in trouble, sometimes they can see a person thoroughly, and they only need to borrow money once to know.
When you are in trouble, those who are willing to lend you a helping hand and lend you money are your true friends.
2. Pay back the money to see the character
Money is like a bottle of poison, which can trap a person at any time.
I believe that most people can't stand the temptation of money. Only under the temptation of money can we see who is sincere and who is hypocritical.
My roommate borrowed some money from me because she needed it badly, but after a long time, she didn't think about it.
My classmates also knew that their family was poor, so I didn't deliberately chase her back for money. But one day, when I was shopping, I saw her buying new clothes. I asked her and she said she had no money.
I was so angry that I left with the money she bought clothes for the clerk, but I was scolded by everyone. Said I had no compassion and bullied others.
Isn't my money money? Isn't my money hard earned? And this is the money I lent her, and she should have paid me back, but I became a sinner.
This really should be the sentence, pay back the money according to the character, so a person with poor character will not get a good word for lending her money, and such a person should not go back and forth.
Paying off debts is a matter of course, and it is a person's basic integrity to pay me back. If you can't even do this, it shows that you are not only poor in character, but also poor in cultivation.
The money is borrowed and paid back, and you can't be honest. Why should I save face for you?
Paying back money can not only show a person's integrity, but also show a person's character. People who know how to be grateful are worthy of communication.
No matter how good the relationship is, we should also talk about money.
Money is a mirror of feelings and a touchstone of character.
There was once a story:
An elderly mother raised six children. When they grew up, they all left home. When my mother was ill in hospital, no one was willing to take the initiative to bear the expenses.
To this end, they also filed a lawsuit, saying who would be responsible for the mother's support and who would pay the money. And my mother didn't say anything, only that you just gave me nine months' alimony.
When the mother finished this sentence, the children all bowed their heads in shame. From then on, children will take time to accompany and take care of their mothers, and there will be no more complaints.
Relatives also talk about money, even if the relationship is good, it will hurt feelings.
Why is the relationship between relatives getting weaker and weaker? In fact, they can't do without one thing, and that is money.
Brothers have to settle accounts, let alone others.
Don't lose your loved ones because of money. When you really lose them, it's too late to regret.
Read such a sentence:
There are not many friends, and the most important thing is to share weal and woe.
Water, I don't know how deep it is without tasting it; So is the human heart. If you don't make this friend, you will never know whether he is good or bad.
Money is a good thing, which can test a person's heart best.