Part 0 1

First of all, the risk is quite high.

It is very likely that there will be problems on both sides. The delay and anonymity of social software messages make it impossible for both parties to know each other's expressions and reactions when they see the messages in time.

If the other person is love rat or Neptune, he may talk to many people at the same time quickly, but you think he is serious and only talks to you, but he still takes his procrastination as a knot.

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Besides, when you are careful with him, try to please ta and make the other person happy, but how can you ensure that he is not perfunctory, negligent or contemptuous of you?

When chatting online, attitude can also be disguised, as can tone and pause. It is hard to say that we are looking for a kind of psychological comfort to soothe each other's loneliness by focusing on the object of online dating.

I have to admit, there are always many slackers, because all kinds of disappointments in reality, whether in appearance or personal ability, will lead them to break into cyberspace and open up another world of making friends.

It can be said that "in real life, Nuo Nuo is unique, but in the online world, he has hit hard." Secondly, it is difficult for you to fully understand, whether it is appearance or personality.

At the beginning of mutual understanding, because of the lack of limited information, it is easy for you to fall into the whirlpool of halo effect: the advantages displayed by the other party in front of you are deliberately created, which may make you biased in cognition and think that he is a perfect person, thus generating excessive expectations and likes.

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"Halo effect", also known as "halo effect" or "halo effect", refers to the blind amplification of a person's view of a significant local feature and becomes a view of the whole person. (Wikipedia explains) In terms of appearance,

It's not that you can't find true love in the online world, but it's like a warm reminder to prevent telecom fraud in a community: before online dating, ask yourself, why do you still need online dating, my sweet little sister, my gentle and handsome little brother with money?

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And are you sure you won't encounter the following situations?

For example, when playing the glory of the king and other big games, a person suddenly opens the wheat. You (male perspective) heard a lovely girl's voice, and then you drew people with red and blue buff, and then you added "her" happily after playing the game.

But the result may be that "she" will not pass your Friend Request, or your fantasy will be shattered in the mature voice of the other party. Because the so-called "she" you hear may just be a cute voice packet accumulated by others.

In the same way, when chatting by voice, the people you know are not necessarily the opposite sex.

What's more, you are likely to encounter a new type of telecom fraud, and it is not bad to have both money and people.

Or, you have a good chat with ta voice, but you are worried that you two will "see the light and die."

So when you took the initiative to ask ta for photos, ta readily agreed and sent photos soon.

But unfortunately, it's hard for you to say, how similar am I to the photo?

In this era of endless beauty cameras, the degree of beauty is actually unknown, some may be seven or eight points, and some may be two or three points. In all fairness, if it is the latter, the high probability expectation becomes a heavy disappointment.

Then some people may say that there will always be no problem with video chat.

Then you are wrong. In the context of the increasingly strong demand for users to take pictures, many mobile phone developers, such as vivo and OPPO, etc. Even the front camera is made more exquisite than the rear camera, with its own beauty.

Make-up can change the skin condition, and beauty can change the fat and thin face. As long as you have the heart and find an angle, the ta that may be displayed is completely different from the reality.