First of all, different circles do not mean that there are no similarities. The formation of "circle" is related to your work, personality and environment. It is possible that your circles are very different, but you agree on many things. In fact, it is more important for two people to be together, and it is more important to have similar views. Plus one or two * * * interests, staying together will not be speechless.

Second, you don't necessarily need the same circle to be together. Someone once said that falling in love is not looking in the mirror. Why do you have to find someone like yourself? The same is true of making friends. When we come into contact with more people in the circle, we can understand a problem, understand it from many angles and solve it in many ways, so as to get different gains and feelings, which is also an improvement for ourselves.

Third, fit is more important than sameness. For example, Boya and Hippo chefs, one is good at playing the piano, the other is good at listening to the piano, and eventually become "bosom friends". If they can complement each other, then together is like a combination of tenon and mortise, which is absolutely stable.

Finally, put aside the concept of circle, what you need is to see if this person is suitable for being together.