Friendship is like energy. If it burns too fast, the enthusiasm will be extinguished. The next time you meet a friend, you suddenly realize: Huh? What is wrong with me? It seems less exciting than expected.

This is the result of burning too fast. But sometimes there is an external force that keeps pushing you forward "Hey - hey -" "give me all you have, come on", and then hurriedly shows your charm to the other person. So, friendship requires the patience of simmering slowly. Time and caring for each other are absolutely two criteria.

Solar energy needs to be collected, coal energy will be used up, and natural gas will be used up. So what about friendship? This kind of energy makes me suspect that it is not something on the earth, that is, it is difficult to measure it with ordinary standards. Careful and purposeful friendship can only bloom black flowers.

In my experience, friendship, even if you keep collecting it, will eventually be lost. Every time you use full housepower to make new friends, the average person's brain is in a state of fantasy. You don't know how he or she is actually like in real life. Based on this, it gives the brain room to think. A normally boring person may become extremely talkative and humorous in front of a stranger, even if they have only known each other for two minutes. I think this is why I like to make friends - in fact, we are not really who we are in ordinary times. Everyone has a genius side, but it has been obliterated, or rather covered up, by the usual life. Everyone wants to express themselves, but unfortunately the stage volume is not big enough. But the strange thing is, why are my friends separated forever in a pattern that gradually fades away over time? Is this a ritual curse? Or is it just because of my impatience, extreme selfishness, etc.? Thinking about it, I'm not too hateful. I would rather hate myself than express my anger at others.

The friendship between women is more charming than that between men - women hold hands, go shopping and sleep together, whisper together, take a bath together and watch the sunset. If by any chance you see a man doing this, 100 %=gay, but to lady, that's normal. Not fair, aha? Women will not abandon friendship when they have love, but men will inevitably ignore friendship for love. Isn’t there a classic joke that goes like this: You’ll stab your friends at your expense, and you’ll stab your friends at your girlfriend’s expense.

I once made friends in order to obtain certain benefits, but the result was no happiness at all. That person was not compatible with me at all. In order to cater to him, I couldn't sleep well for a few days, and finally gave up. That experience must have been terrifying at the time, but it was actually quite funny when I think about it. In my early years, I liked to strike up conversations (even though I was a girl). On the road, on the bus, in training classes, and at parties, the opportunity to strike up a conversation was sometimes when something really happened, when people were in "danger" (lost), or sometimes I just happened to hear this. The conversation between people seemed interesting and meaningful, or we just happened to look at each other and bump into each other slightly. Then, when it comes to smiles and conversations, I am usually the first to speak. At that time, I was relatively naive and would be very transparent and straightforward with people. Moreover, let me tell you the secret: I found that 99% of the people who talked to me would smile kindly in return and talk in a sincere and friendly manner. Therefore, I am almost sure that 99% of the people in the world are well-intentioned and enthusiastic, and their kindness in return is genuine. Here, I randomly stipulate the first rule of making friends: treat your friends honestly and kindly.

But today, I encountered an embarrassing thing, which was the original intention of my writing the article - today I was kicked out of a certain company with sarcastic remarks by the "guard". This society seems to have undergone some subtle chemical changes and is different from before. I turned my feelings of shame and anger into scribbled pieces of paper and threw them into the silent mailbox, so that the worries would be eaten or fly away. Not a bad way haha. However, my philosophy has changed because of this. That person may just be out of touch with his words for my own good, or he may be impatient because he wants to go home from get off work quickly. In a word, he may be unintentional. The second rule of friendship: Be careful before you say anything.

A frank person needs to be carved in a world where ruffians rule. A frank person is upright but may be exploited by someone with scheming intentions. When a frank person has a scheming intention, what will the other party think? Taking advantage of his scheming, and then, the former wants to use the other's scheming to use his own scheming... Such a cycle, ugh~~~~Tired! "If life is not what you want now, tomorrow it will be ruined." Unless you are like Li Bai and talk to yourself and act haphazardly, you have to use some tricks to get up and down in the world. The third rule of making friends: Be frank but reserved, and consider how the other person will react to your actions before you act.

Good teachers, helpful friends, and good advice may not necessarily come from your friends, but they may also come from the person who makes you suffer. Respect the person you are "unhappy" with, and he will give you unexpected rewards.

The three rules are for yourself, the harm you cause to others, and the harm others cause to you. No matter how the world changes, human nature will not change. Sometimes you have to experience pain to get rid of it. Ten years later, he is still a good man! Whatever.

I originally wrote it casually, but every time I gave a speech, it felt like an award ceremony~~ It also mixed in English, it was really messy (self-criticism), and I watched "Seinfeld". Dear brothers, sisters, fellow villagers, I, I, I have to take a shower, bah~

Friends who have read the whole article, thank you for your patience~ I feel tired listening to someone's rants, please give me a kiss. ! I'm happy again now ~ (I can't help it, women are fickle)