You should chat more with your classmates and show your talkative side. This will give people a cheerful and easy-going impression and a sense of intimacy.

It’s not that people don’t want to talk to you, it’s just that you seem a bit cold to outsiders, and they are also afraid that they will get offended when they talk to you.

Actually, many people are very friendly, at least they are generally polite to strangers. Knowing this, you can worry less.

That’s what you think about being a fool (I also thought about whether I would be stupid...) but you are not them, so how do you know what others really think of you? Right.

I know that introversion and shyness are difficult to change in a short period of time. Let’s talk about smiling, but it is not that easy to do. After all, it is difficult to change after so many years. Very difficult.

But it’s true that you want to make more friends. It’s not that you don’t want to get in touch with them, right?

Besides, it’s not like you don’t know how to treat others at all. Look, don’t you get along pretty well with the people around you?

So, you must first believe in yourself. You are not that difficult to get along with. Believe that you can do a good job. Believe that you can also muster the courage to start from the simplest and shallowest things. It starts with chatting a few words, and ends with a group of friends who are good friends and can talk well with each other.

Raise your head up, overcome your psychological fear, don’t guess whether others are laughing at you, and don’t feel that you are not performing well. Do you think you feel more relaxed when talking to people you know well? In fact, it's the same with others. Communicate with them clearly and boldly, and say what you want to say seriously. Don't hesitate to speculate whether others will like it or not, and say what you think.

Take your time, it will get better slowly, really, come on~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~