The times are indeed advancing, but China has always been a country that attaches great importance to traditional culture, and will still adopt some of the wisdom and experience left by its ancestors. There is a popular saying among the people: "A pock-marked face does not require friendship, and a dwarf has three knives in his belly." Although it is said that a person cannot be judged by his appearance, there is also a saying in ancient times that appearance comes from the heart. The meaning of this proverb is that a person with a lot of pockmarks on his face cannot socialize without a beard, and short people are also very likely to do bad things behind their backs.
Pockmarked refers to people with pockmarks on their faces. Ancient people thought that if a person had a lot of pockmarks on his face, it was probably because he had been infected with smallpox before and left some marks, even Disfigured. Wuwu mainly refers to the fact that the man has no beard, which means that the yin energy in this person is relatively strong, and he is most likely a eunuch. If a person has pockmarks on his face or is physically disabled, he has probably suffered a huge psychological blow before, so he will have a very low self-esteem when getting along with others, and will become mentally dark after a long time.
There is also a saying that dwarves have three knives in their belly. Because short people are shorter, they will definitely be bullied by people around them before. After a long time, they will think that they must When you become strong, you have to protect yourself, so you will become more competitive. This type of people are generally cruel and ruthless when doing things, and have a strong sense of revenge. Therefore, you must know your bottom line when interacting with this type of people, and you cannot make random jokes. Sometimes what you say intentionally or unintentionally, It will be written down by the other party, and then it will be retaliated against.
So this saying left by our ancestors is to warn everyone that when making friends, you should know people but not their hearts. Sometimes others will stab you in the back, and you can only blame them. I don’t make good friends. Therefore, when making friends, you still have to keep your eyes open and keep your bottom line. It does not mean that you must make friends based on their appearance, but when making friends, you must at least see clearly the person's character and the way they usually look.