It is said that there is no pure heterosexual relationship in this world, which is too one-sided. In fact, there is still a simple heterosexual relationship in today's society, but it is rare. Compared with love at first sight, a lot of love originated from love for a long time, and it is not uncommon for friends to become lovers. Four kinds of impure phenomena between men and women, especially the last one, can't be concealed!

1. When they are alone, they have physical contact

Both men and women are always sensitive to physical contact. If you are in private, your friends of the opposite sex will always make some physical contact with you or do some very intimate behaviors. And you are not disgusted with this, you can only say that you are not a pure heterosexual relationship. Because simple friends can't do such behavior, and they can't accept such behavior. Even between lovers, it is not necessarily as close as you. Perhaps, your relationship has quietly deteriorated, but you haven't noticed it yet.

Second, appear at the first time when you need it

Everyone will encounter difficulties and face problems that they can't solve. This is the time when they need help most. You must be very important to the first person who comes to help you. If he always appears first when you are in trouble, not to mention how he learned about it, ordinary friends can't do it just because he cares about you. Can this still be called a pure friendship?

Third, I will take you with me wherever I go.

How can two people with ordinary relationships take each other to attend at any occasion? Because you are of the opposite sex, it is easy to arouse other people's speculation to attend together. Generally speaking, in order to avoid unnecessary trouble, no one will bring ordinary friends of the opposite sex to the event. For example, on occasions such as class reunion and wedding ceremony, you bring the default relationship. If so, how can you have a pure heterosexual relationship?

Fourth, spend the night at each other's house

It can be said that two people have a good relationship after meeting their parents, but it really doesn't make sense to spend the night at each other's house. If it is between the same sex, this is understandable, but if it is between the opposite sex, such behavior is incomprehensible unless you are a couple. Generally speaking, in order to avoid suspicion, no matter how good a friend is, he won't stay for the night. So meet this little friends, you are no longer an ordinary relationship between men and women, hurry up and make it public!

Message:

Once you have done these things, no matter how good the relationship is, your relationship is no longer pure. There is a gap between friends and lovers. Lovers can do many things, but friends can't. If you meet the above four friends of the opposite sex, you really have to think about it. Is it really just a simple friendship between you?