In the basic introduction to the Ziwei double star combination, we mentioned the "physical changes" of the double star, that is, the original star properties of the two main stars are faithfully presented at the same time. However, the characteristics of some binary star combinations cannot be explained by the simple basic logic of "1+1=2". We call them "chemical changes". Therefore, the same logic will be followed in the individual introduction of each double star combination. (If you want to know the main star of your natal chart, you can click here for quick calculation of Ziwei natal chart)

The physical changes of Tiantong Jumen

The characteristics of Jumen Jumen are determined by their The name can give you a glimpse of it: a huge door separates the distance between the person and others and the separation between the person and the person. No matter how colorful and lively it is outside the door, inside is the kingdom of the Giant Gate Star. No one is allowed to enter without careful inspection and invitation from the owner.

Jumenxing gives people a cold and distant feeling in interpersonal relationships, which is a concrete manifestation of this trait. "Slow maturity" (or slow warming) is actually Jumen's sharp vision, delicate observation and precise thinking, rigorous scanning and analysis of the people and things around him, so as to decide what to do next, and only observe one or two Times are not enough for Jumen.

The personality of being a family-oriented person, focusing on privacy, and taking care of oneself is actually a manifestation of this "clear boundary between person and self" characteristics. Everyone has "personal and self-boundaries", but Jumen's self-scope is wider, the boundaries are clear, and they are strictly enforced. But once it passes the strict inspection and approval of Jumen, the cold interactive relationship will be upgraded to trust, loyalty, and even die-hard loyalty.

As the best candidate for the imperial censor in ancient times, Jumen possesses the characteristics of being good at observation, meticulous, meticulous, and upright. Only with excellent insight into the dark, obscure, and negative aspects of people and things can you be competent in the task of tracking down shortcomings. Only with the characteristics of being upright, straightforward and outspoken can one not be afraid of power and be loyal and loyal to one's duties.

But when these qualities are overplayed, they become a dark personality that is often disliked by people. If you are more suspicious, have a negative, negative, and skeptical attitude towards people and things, and have a strong self-defense, you will have blocked out a lot of destined people or opportunities. The sharpness of words developed from outspokenness, and the shortcomings of people and things caused by verbal disputes, knots, and disputes have made Jumen's interpersonal relationships even worse.

It is easy to think negatively and imagine the consequences of future or upcoming events to be very bad, which often leaves Jumen in an abyss of irritability and bad mood. Furthermore, if Jumen is obsessed with the delicate mind and ability to peel off cocoons that he is proud of for a long time, his view of things will be easy to exaggerate, miss the key points, and lack overall thinking. This is actually not conducive to all aspects of life. development.

How to adjust this "door" of yours so that it can protect itself, but will not restrict or close itself off, so that the talents within the door can be seen and discovered by the outside world. This is the life issue of Jumenxing. .

Tiantong is the most gentle star among the fourteen main stars. Tiantong’s gentleness, kindness, sincerity, and considerateness make Tiantong have good popularity, even with the opposite sex; and personality The strongest seven kills form a strong contrast. Since ancient times, Tiantong has been regarded as a lucky star, which is also related to its characteristics of cherishing peace and not liking to compete with others: not liking competition and avoiding creating conflicts will naturally reduce the chance of being attacked and become a person that others are willing to get close to. "Harmony" may not necessarily bring wealth to the heavens, but it will bring good popularity and "blessings" will naturally be greater than others.

Another source of "blessing" is Tiantong's attitude towards life: he naturally likes a leisurely, comfortable and comfortable lifestyle. Never stand if you can sit (if you can lie down, that would be even better). No matter what environment you are in, Tiantong will always find the most comfortable posture to stay in. Therefore, "take things as they come" has become Tiantong's best motto. Compared with a group of powerful main stars who struggle with themselves for fame, profit, and self-pursuit, Tiantong's life attitude of being uncompetitive and content with the world has indeed created more opportunities for himself to "enjoy happiness."

Similar to Taiyin, Tiantong's characteristics include a childish heart: a fondness for fantasy and romantic feelings; no matter how old they are, most people still retain their innocence. But this "child's heart" actually also means that the mind is like a child's dependence, laziness and inactivity.

The real reason behind "not fighting against the world" is actually "too lazy to fight"; the real reason behind "taking things easy" is actually "the inability to create" and "the inability to change", so we have to accept what is given; the real reason behind "being popular" is also It may be that other people think that Tiantong is "uncompetitive" and "will not cause harm to its own interests" (anyway, Tiantong either doesn't know how to do it, or is too lazy to do it).

"Emotional problems" are often Tiantong's biggest obstacle, or a lifelong problem. Because of the deep expectations for relationships, once you meet the person you like, your original leisurely and calm mood will completely change. The traits of being lack of drive, being content with the status quo, and not liking competition lead to unrequited love, secret love, and bitter love; the traits of being soft-hearted, not seeing others suffer, and being indecisive often make one passively fall into a polyamorous relationship and find it difficult to break out of it. The childlike nature of a star often prevents him from facing and handling emotional problems with a mature and steady attitude. Originally, I wanted to have both sides, but what often happened was that I was thinking about everything, being overwhelmed, and finally fell into a dilemma.

Tiantong’s parents palace must have Wu Quxing, which also means that parents are more like cash machines to Tiantong, providing all the material needs in life (including money, of course). From another perspective, if parents do not work hard to make money, how can they raise Tiantong children who are "easy-going" and "indifferent to the world"?

The chemical changes of Tiantong Jumen

Tiantong and Jumen Tonggong are actually quite contradictory combinations: Tiantong originally valued feelings, was kind to others, and was kind to others. When you reach Jumen, where you are prone to negative thinking and have clear boundaries between people and self, you become emotionally fragile and stubborn and introverted. His personality is overly emotional, and he clearly needs comfort from others, but he often speaks sharply and hurts a lot of people, making people don't know how to get along with them.

Tiantong’s emotions are delicate and easy to get hurt, while Jumen’s mind is delicate and cautious; in order to prevent himself from getting hurt often, Tiantong’s Jumen often builds a self-protection mechanism: he is calm, analytical and proficient in situations. Calculate, and repeatedly calculate and confirm various possibilities. Often when making a decision, one hesitates, and then goes back and considers various options again. From an outsider's perspective, Tiantong Jumen has a repetitive personality, strong self-awareness, and lack of integrity.

Tiantong, who is often over-emotional, can find relief by asking for help and talking to others. However, Jumen, who value privacy and hide their inner thoughts, often become autistic and cut themselves off from seeking help from the outside. Therefore, there is too much depression in my heart but it is difficult to express it; once I open my mouth to say something, I am immediately blocked by the giant door in my heart, and all my emotions can only be vented through tears. Crying, shaking one's head, and not speaking have become Tiantong Jumen's signature scenes when they are emotional.

Passionate but too repressed, resulting in high mood swings, strong suspicion, jealousy, and possessiveness. Hidden thoughts and excessive suspicion often put Tiantong Jumen in a whirlpool of bad emotions. Lacking an appropriate channel to vent, and being unable to deal with the depression in one's heart, Tiantong Jumen often magnifies the pain, leaving it to oneself to chew over and over again, adding to the emotional distress.

§ Text: Monk Prome? Personal blog? Introduction to pro-calculation consulting,