Children grow up under the excessive protection of their parents, which affects their independence. How can a child who has never faced difficulties gain a foothold in the fierce workplace? ? American psychologist Noel? Dickie pointed out that the comfort zone refers to a person's psychological state and habitual behavior pattern, in which people will feel comfortable. As the name implies, everyone will feel comfortable, relaxed, stable, controllable and safe in this area. Once out of this area, people will feel uncomfortable, uncomfortable or unaccustomed. We can take the aspects that children repeat and like to do as theirs. Comfort zone? .

Why don't children want to get out of the comfort zone? One is laziness, and the other is lack of self-confidence. As a parent, do you want your children to go out voluntarily? Comfort zone? If you dare to challenge yourself and change yourself, parents should set an example for their children. If you don't stand still and dare to challenge yourself, your children will learn from it and be well influenced. Get the baby out? Comfort zone? Appropriate external stimulation is very necessary. Only when children feel stressed will they make changes and gradually leave the greenhouse. However, this kind of stimulation must be moderate. If children are overstimulated, they may lose confidence and become more dependent? Comfort zone? To resist the outside world. Giving children proper pressure means that there is no pressure and no motivation. If parents don't give their children proper pressure, it will only encourage their stubborn character and make them lose their goals in fun. Caring for children When children don't want to escape from their comfort zone, parents should not force them to step out of the comfort zone to meet all kinds of challenges in life. Instead, we should care for and care for children, gradually help them get rid of psychological barriers, meet various challenges in life and study with children, and grow up with them. Just like Haruki Murakami's metaphor: I can't give up this comfortable warmth, just like I dare not get out of the hot bed on a cold winter morning. If the child doesn't walk out of the comfort zone, how can he see himself shine?