People who are good at sociability are always expanding their scope of communication.

Regular events provide ample networking opportunities for its members, so don't give up on any group that interests you.

? People who are good at sociability are always expanding their scope of communication. Meeting a new friend is equivalent to entering his social circle, thereby getting to know a group of people, which continuously generates multiples. effect. I often encourage my students to do this and give them some corresponding suggestions:

1. Participate in various group activities extensively.

? Participating in sororities, training camps, seminars, summer camps, winter camps and other activities for people with similar interests are group activities where many people come together. Even if you are not very interested, it is better to actively participate. .

? Because such activities create a lot of communication opportunities. For example, some people who don't drink drink a little bit, and then they pour out all their inner thoughts, and they become good friends from then on. If you always say "what's the point in all the fuss" and other rejections, no one will invite you again in the future.

? Various social organizations and academic groups gather all kinds of talents. Everyone has similar interests and hobbies, and speaks the same language. They can learn from each other's skills and study knowledge. A variety of regularly held events provide ample networking opportunities for its members, so don't give up on any group that interests you.

2. Take advantage of opportunities to work with others.

? The process of cooperating with others is also the process of making friends, which provides a good opportunity to expand the scope of communication, because having the same career is a prerequisite for finding close friends.

? Don’t miss projects to cooperate with others, and you must actively look for projects to complete together so that you can make friends.

3. Cultivate your own curiosity.

? People with a wide range of hobbies and interests are easy to make friends with all kinds of people. If a person can play bridge, dance, swim, skate, ball, chess, etc., and has many hobbies, he will have more opportunities to "have fun" with others and make friends.

Even if you are not good at a certain aspect, if you show strong interest, win the favor of the other person, and affirm his characteristics, you can also trigger a buzz.

Be curious and participate in group activities no matter who is invited. Go where you are interested and go if you are not interested. Both men and women should be active in their activities. Only in this way can people feel your charm and feel the happy atmosphere. Don’t forget this when everyone comes together.

In addition, be concerned about various issues. Always care about things that everyone cares about, especially things that interest the people you make friends with.

4. Don’t let personality differences become obstacles.

? As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together. People who share similar interests are easy to get close to, but those who don't are easy to distance themselves from. But remember, being social and choosing your friends are not exactly the same thing. In the social circle, more people are not friends, or just ordinary friends.

Therefore, in the process of social interaction, do not use the conditions for choosing friends or even close friends as criteria. All people with different interests and personalities should be rejected.

The new friends you meet in your social circle should be people who are quite different from you. There are differences in knowledge structure, interests and hobbies, life experiences, temperament and personality between good friends, which will help both parties. Broadly understand all aspects of social life. It is a blessing to have new friends whose opinions are very different from your own. They can supplement and enrich your thinking.

5. Actively participate in group activities.

Some people don’t like to participate in group activities. These people always complain that they have no friends. In fact, they lack enthusiasm.

No matter what you do and how much time it takes, you just know to do what you like and never do it with others. You decide everything by yourself and only do what you can understand. It is difficult for people with strong personalities like this to make friends.