If you were asked to use an adjective to describe friendship, which one would you use?

Is it trust? Because you and your good friends trust each other, you have overcome the difficulties in business.

Do you still understand? When you grow up, he knows all your joys and sorrows. He is your best friend.

When I was young, I liked to say that I trusted my best friend and I knew my best friend. But the older you get, the more mature you become. You will find many friends, and you will no longer be friends if you don't know what.

Because there are many channels to make friends, you can meet many friends with a smile, an APP and a dinner, but how much happiness can these ineffective social activities bring you?

When people reach middle age, all three kinds of parties can be avoided.

People in China always miss something when they eat. Some dinners miss youth, while others miss lost love.

It seems that you don't deserve to eat at this table if you don't think about your old classmates and don't want to recall the past days.

Can a reunion dinner be regarded as friendship? Wang Meng once said that friendship does not need clinking glasses, friendship does not need gifts, and friendship is just something we will never forget.

I remember one time, my father went to a party of their junior high school classmates. When I came back, I was as drunk as a fiddler. After that, he said that he would never attend any party similar to the class reunion again.

At the dinner table, we didn't talk about anything, but always let everyone drink under the banner of nostalgia.

This kind of nostalgic party has a characteristic, which is affectionate and boring, not affectionate and sipping.

Alcohol consumption has become a measure of friendship, and whoever drinks a lot will have a good relationship with him.

True friendship does not need to be expressed with these additional conditions.

Those people are under the guise of reunion, or they want to see how people they don't like are doing by looking at their old classmates. If they are not good, they will step on them and pretend to pity you on the surface.

If I have a good life, I will curry favor with you for convenience in the future. Friendship under the influence of alcohol is like wine mixed with water, half true and half false.

If the first one is called Miss Youth Dinner, the second one is Love Dinner. Nothing good will happen when a group of nosy people get together.

We have a small team and are very good friends. One day in the group, a good friend of mine told me about the embarrassing dinner he had just experienced.

He is in his thirties and has never been married. My good friend's mother was very anxious, so in the name of dinner, she actually pulled a bridge to introduce the blind date.

At the dinner table, all my friends' experiences were asked cleanly, accompanied by many irrelevant comments. In this kind of dinner, it doesn't matter how you eat, what matters is how you speak.

After the chat, these idle people will gossip about your follow-up activities every day. If what you say is not good, they will still blame you. You are ungrateful and heartless.

People who attend this kind of dinner party have a problem, that is, they like to ask about other people's affairs.

To put it mildly, I care about you, and to put it bluntly, I brush my sense of existence here.

Never go to dinner in the name of blind date. Unless you have real social needs now and want to find someone to try and start the rest of your life.

If you want to be a volunteer. If not, if you find something wrong, you should leave immediately. Otherwise, the dinner will immediately become a large-scale social death scene.

The last kind of dinner, which is also the most ineffective social interaction, is the fake friend bureau. We meet too many people every day, but our life circle is not that big.

As you get older, your social circle will become narrower and narrower. After a long time, there are often only a few friends left.

Those who have only met once are often just acquaintances, not friends. On the other hand, some people like to organize such games. Of course, you can also participate in this kind of socialization when you want to relax.

Because the advantage of this kind of game is that it can expand your social circle and let you know many people.

But the disadvantage is also obvious, that is, others entering your friends may not make you feel comfortable.

Everyone has his own way of making friends. Just like people who make friends, friendship often exists only in that meal.

If you continue to make deep friends, you will find that you may not match in many places.

Conclusion:

Friendship, like all feelings, is a precious gift. People can get along with each other simply or responsibly.

Eating is a way to make friends. The three kinds of dinners mentioned above are not necessarily occasions for making friends by mistake.

However, I hope that when you make friends, you can think about whether you need it. You can eat less if you don't need it. After all, everyone is losing weight.

Many dinner parties are just for fun. If you want to pay true feelings, you still need time to get used to it.

But eating is also a gap to make friends. You can make friends by eating. But it is important that you learn to choose the right friends from them.

Go make friends. You don't clink glasses or give gifts, but you are bosom friends, and friendship will always be remembered.

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