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How college students deal with interpersonal relationships

Good interpersonal relationships are a key factor in the growth of college students and play an important role.

1. Prerequisite: Learn to be independent and develop the habit of communicating or socializing with college classmates.

We can easily find that before college, we have grown up under the care of our parents. With the care of our parents, we have enough food and clothing in many aspects and do not need to worry about ourselves. Of course, they rarely care about strangers, and don't have to worry about how to get care, so they are very uncomfortable with relationships with teachers, classmates, and relationships between men and women. Therefore, you will feel that your interpersonal relationships are very poor. Then, we should communicate with our classmates in college, because classmates are the most common people we see in college. We college students all live in collective dormitories, and it is very important to handle interpersonal relationships well.

2. Adjust your personality and make yourself enthusiastic and active.

We will find that our influence has a great impact on social interaction. When I was a freshman, it was often because of my introverted personality that I felt at a loss when it came to making friends. Because of my personality, I am unable to really make friends. I remember one time, when I was participating in an activity in the club, I met my former high school classmate, but I didn't know how to greet her, and I didn't have the courage to take the first step, so I didn't talk to her. Later, when we met by chance, she asked me if I was too aloof because I didn't even say hello to her during the last activity in the club. This is indeed the case. You need to change your personality more. Your enthusiastic personality will make others feel that you are easy to get along with and are willing to get along with you. Your lively and cheerful personality makes people think you are interesting, so they will take the initiative to get along with you.

Many college students’ interpersonal relationships are often affected due to the influence of social conditions and natural environment as well as their own factors. The changes you need to make can improve your social skills. Relatively speaking, this can make your interpersonal relationships better.