The son of a father cooking in Guigang, Guangxi, took the initiative to distribute cigarettes to customers and successfully retained them. If you want to cultivate a child with high emotional intelligence, you must tell your child to be polite. When someone comes to your house, you must take the initiative to say hello. Most children nowadays are only children. If parents spoil their children too much, they will develop an arrogant character. He likes to go his own way, doesn't care about other people's feelings and has a rude attitude.

If you don't want your child to become like this, don't spoil it too much. Tell him that respecting others is also respecting yourself. When children are young, parents must guide them correctly. When a child is unhappy, parents should encourage him to get out of his sad mood and make him full of confidence in life. Let him face life with a positive and optimistic attitude and appreciate the beautiful scenery in nature, so that the child's mood will become beautiful and there will be love.

Also tell children to be grateful and remember this friendship when others help them. When you grow up, if others encounter difficulties, then you should take the initiative to help yourself. Tell children to be generous, make friends with classmates and leave their family affairs alone. Even if his family is poor, as long as he has a good character, they can become good friends. Tell children to form the habit of being honest with others and not telling lies, so as to win the respect of others.

Children should also be honest and trustworthy, and keep their words. Only in this way can children's emotional intelligence be continuously improved, and when they encounter difficulties, they can also solve them by their own ideas. This son is really excellent. He has guests at home. At that time, his father was cooking in the kitchen and had no time to entertain guests. But he took the initiative to pick up a cigarette and handed it to the guest. It shows that this child has a high emotional intelligence and is usually good at observing, so he can master these details so well.