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1. Poems about the Lost Lover

Poems about the Lost Lover 1. What are the poems about mourning for the dead lover

Pan Yue in the Western Jin Dynasty first wrote "Three Mourning Poems", which wrote a long-lasting memory of his wife after her death, and started a way of mourning poems.

Shen Yue, a poet in the Qi and Liang Dynasties, and Xue Deyin, a poet in the Sui Dynasty, all have the same poem entitled "Mourning for the Dead", and they all mourn for their dead wives. Liang Jiangyan has ten "Mourning Room Man", which is also a work of mourning.

after the Tang dynasty, most poems mourning the death of his wife did not take "mourning" as the topic. On the whole, there are far fewer mourning poems than mourning poems, because mourning poems are, after all, improvisational lyrical works of poets (ci), and there are very few things in which a wife dies before the poet (ci).

In addition, the love between husband and wife is the most precious and secret feeling in the world, and ancient Chinese poets still lack the habit and courage to declare this feeling in poetry. Among the poets, Yuan Zhen of Tang Dynasty and Li Shangyin are the most famous ones, especially Yuan Zhen, who has three seven laws, five poems from Li Si, eight poems from Six Years' Spring, and sixteen mourning poems.

Among the poets, Su Shi of Song Dynasty and Nalan Xingde of Qing Dynasty are the most famous, especially Nalan Xingde. There are five or six words clearly marked with words such as "Mourning for the Dead", "Dreaming of the Dead Woman", "Death Day of the Dead Woman" and "Birth Day of the Dead Woman" in the inscription, and there are far more words that may involve mourning in other untitled words. Mourning poetry lies in the sincerity of feelings, not in the literal unforgettable. Su Shi's "Ten years of life and death are boundless, and I will never forget it without thinking about it" is therefore recited.

Because the mourning poems mourn the wife who has lived in the same room with the poet for a long time, instead of the generation of scholars with lofty aspirations, they write more intimate words, extract many trivial things of his wife's life while she was alive, and express their feelings by comparing them with the things that died after her death. Yuan Zhen's mourning poems are much discussed, which is related to the fact that Yuan Zhen's wife Wei Cong not only loved her husband before her death, but also was willing to be poor and noble in character. Therefore, Yuan Zhen's comparative and controversial sentences such as "this is a sorrow that all mankind must know and but not as those know it who have been poor together" (Part II of Mourning) and "Once the sea was difficult for water, forever amber" (Part IV of Leaving Thoughts) have also become immortal.

Jiang Chengzi Su Shi has lived and died for ten years, and he will never forget it without thinking about it. Thousands of miles away in a lonely grave, there is nowhere to talk about desolation.

even if we meet, we should not know, our faces are covered with dust and our temples are frosty. At night, I dream of returning home suddenly, and Xiao Xuan window is dressing up.

caring for each other is silent, only a thousand lines of tears. It is expected that the heartbroken place every year, the moonlit night, short matsuoka.

This word was written by Su Shi in memory of his late wife Wang Fu. ————————————————————— jade bone, Su Shi of Xijiang Moon, is so sad and foggy that the ice muscle has its own fairy wind.

In the sea, the fragrant bushes are sent to hang upside down. Plain noodles are often too pink, and the red lips do not fade when washing makeup.

high emotions chase away the clouds, and they don't dream with pear flowers. This is a mourning speech, mourning for the love concubine Chaoyun who followed Su Shi for twenty-three years.

—————————————————————————— Half-dead Tong Zhetian He Zhu is more important than Chang Men. What's the same? What's different?

after the phoenix tree was half dead and the frost was removed, the white mandarin duck lost her companion. The grass is on the original, and the dew is at the beginning.

the old place and the new place are in harmony. Lying in an empty bed listening to the rain from the south window, who will mend clothes at night.

three mourning poems (one of them) ———————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————— Pan Yue's long years in winter and spring, and the cold and hot days suddenly changed. The son of a son returns to a poor spring, and the heavy soil is separated forever.

stay for a long time is no good to anyone who is willing to obey in private. I'm ready to serve, and I'll return to my original service.

look at Lu and think about him, and think about the past when you enter the room. There is nothing on the screen, but there are traces of calligraphy.

the fragrance has not stopped, but the legacy is still on the wall. Disappointment seems to exist, and it is hard to rush back.

like a bird in Hanlin, you can live once. If you swim like a fish in Sichuan, you can see the middle of the road.

the spring breeze comes suddenly, and the eaves drop in the morning. When you forget your sleep, your worries accumulate day by day.

when you are weak, you can still strike. ——————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————

Take a lazy look back at the flowers, and you are half-qualified to cultivate and half-qualified. ——————————————————— Nalan Xingde is the poet who wrote the most mourning words in the history of ancient ci. * * * has more than 2 tears but is silent, only destroying fickle feelings in the past.

relying on Dan Qing to save knowledge, ying ying. You can't draw a picture if you are sad.

don't be too specific. Wake up early at midnight.

Qing word wakes up early and dreams, which is even more important. Cry endlessly, rain bell at night on the eaves of the wind.

-"Nanxiangzi" is full of dust and loose curtains, which really makes the darkness miserable. A few times, I secretly wiped my shirt tears, and suddenly I saw Cui Qiao next to the rhinoceros.

only hate turns to boredom, and the fifth watch is still out of fashion. The withered poplar leaves are exhausted, and the cold rain and the west wind hit the bridge.

-"Yu Zhong Hao" Who reads that the west wind is cool alone, and the rustling yellow leaves close the window. Meditate on the past and set the sun setting.

being drunk makes you sleep hard, and gambling makes you splash tea. At that time, only Tao was ordinary.

the golden melody-when did I feel this hatred when my dead wife died? Drop empty steps, cold and rainy breaks, and bury flowers.

I have been dreaming for three years, which means I should wake up after a long dream. The material is also felt, and the world is tasteless.

it's not as quiet and gloomy as the dusty night terrace. The hairpin made a promise and abandoned it.

if there are Pisces in Chongquan. It is good to know him, who he has been suffering and who he is leaning against.

I turned from the middle of the night to the side, forbearing to listen to Xiang Xian's criticism. When it's over, he'll know himself.

I'm also afraid that both of them will be unlucky, and they will be in the wind again. Clear tears, paper dust.

"Picking Mulberry Seeds" is now wrong and sad. Red tears steal down, full of spring breeze.

knowing perfectly well that there is nothing to do from now on, I insist on a happy period. Don't be like this, all the pears are falling and the moon is west.

"Spring in the Garden" is fleeting, so unlucky, how can you forget it when you are low? Remember to embroider the couch when you are free, and blow the rain; Carve a hole and bend it, leaning against the setting sun.

dreams are hard to stay, but poems can't last, so you can win a deeper cry. The remains are there, but the spirit is soaring, and I have not allowed to look at them.

find the blue sky again. Short hair is expected, and there will be frost in the future.

it's easy to live in heaven, but the fate of dust is not broken; Spring flowers and autumn leaves still hurt. If you want to save for a rainy day, you will be shocked and lose all the fragrance of Xun Yi yesterday.

it's really helpless. the sound of a thousand words is adjacent to the flute, and the ileum is recorded. "Young Beauty" Chun Qing only noticed that pear blossoms were thin, and pieces of them were scattered.

what is the sunset near dusk? There are still souls in the world. Silver notes don't dream of the words at that time, and they are close to each other.

To be a dreamer for Yi, draw pictures in a long direction and call for truth in the clear night. Wet in the Blue-Mourning the recent infinite sadness, who is more important? All obedient to the fate of the arrangements, early spring, the window of green shadow whirling, the return of wild geese, orioles singing and dancing, tears streaming down their cheeks.

I enjoyed it then, but now I'm ruined, and I'm always sentimental. Suddenly a gust of wind blowing, the light wind shaking, I thought is your soul back, just, I can only love dishuxing wait.

2. What are the poems about remembering the lost lover?

1. Try to love Chunhua, and don't forget the happy time.

when you are born, you will come back, and when you die, you will be Sauvignon Blanc. Said by: Han Su Wu, "Leaving a Wife".

I cherish every moment of happiness now, and I will never forget falling in love with you, such a happy and joyful time. If I am lucky enough to live, I will definitely come back to you.

if I die unfortunately, I will miss you forever. 2, once the sea is difficult to water, forever amber.

Take a lazy look back at the flowers, and you are half-qualified to cultivate and half-qualified. From: Tang Yuan Zhen's Five Poems of Leaving Thoughts (IV).

translation: once you have been to the sea, the water in other places is not enough. If it is not Wushan, the clouds in other places are not called clouds. Walking through the flowers in a hurry, I am too lazy to look back. This reason is partly because of the monk's lack of desire and partly because of you.

3. Tears are swallowed silently, only regretting the past. Want to come back to your party with your pictures, your tears can't break your heart. you can't draw your face.

from: Nanxiangzi Inscription for the Dead Woman by Qing Nalanxingde. Tears flow twice, but I cry silently, just regretting that I didn't cherish your devotion before.

I want to get together with you again with Dan Qing. My eyes are blurred and my heart is broken, so I can't paint your face. 4. It's all right to go over the gate.

what comes together is different. After the phoenix tree was half dead and the frost was removed, the white mandarin duck lost her companion.

from: Song Hezhu's Half-dead Tong, Re-crossing Changmen, All Things Are Wrong. When I came to Suzhou again, I just felt that nothing was right.

why can't my wife who came with me come with me? I seem to be a phoenix tree beaten by frost, half dead, and like a mandarin duck with a bald head and no partner, lonely and tired. 5. I enjoyed it at that time, but now I am ruined, and I am always sentimental.

suddenly, I suspect that you have arrived, and the lacquer lamp is so windy that I am crazy about counting the spring stars. From: Qing Nalan Xingde's "Blue Wet Mourning".

Translation: I enjoyed the beautiful scenery with you in the past, but now I have lost it and failed to live up to my old affection. Suddenly a gust of wind blew, and the bright lamp shook with the wind. I thought it was your soul coming back, but I could only wait for it by counting the stars.

3. Poems about the lost love

Once the sea was difficult for water, forever amber.

red crisp hands, Huangteng wine. Willow on the palace wall in spring in the city.

dongfeng evil, with a thin heart. A sad mood, a few years away from the cable.

wrong, wrong, wrong! Spring is as old as ever, and people are empty and thin. Tears are red and full of tears.

Untitled leaves fall in the wind and are silent. Who is Bai Mei in the cold winter? Lonely Hong's only shadow mourns, and he can't sleep at night until the rain stops. I was born before you were born, but you were born when I was old.

hate is not born, and you are good every day. Untitled leaves fall in the wind and are silent. Who is Bai Mei in the cold winter? Lonely Hong's only shadow mourns, and he can't sleep at night until the rain stops.

Xie's family courtyard is more upright, and Yan Su carves beams. The silver wall of the month does not distinguish the fragrance from the flowers.

this feeling has been recalled by itself, and it is scattered. It's cool after a rain break, but I had a dream eleven years ago.

"Picking Mulberry Seeds" Nalan Xingde (Qing Dynasty) The wind flocks have gone to the ground, and the mud lotus is just beautiful and the lotus roots are lingering. Take care not to burn a petal of incense, remember the past life.

people feel sentimental and thin, but now they really regret it. Looking back at heartbroken again, tears steal zero.

"Breaking the Huanxisha" is Nalan Xingde.

4. Poems that express the inner pain and the loss of lovers ~ The

falling flowers in the literary point intentionally follow the flowing water, and

the flowing water buries the falling flowers mercilessly.

It hurts the most to be sad by feelings,

It always hurts feelings mercilessly.

God makes people rip their hearts out,

Why does bad luck always accompany them?

at this time, the scene is haggard, and

it is unbearable to look back on the past.

What is love and sorrow?

What is love and emptiness.

There are so many heroes in the world,

You have to leave your soul for the sake of emotion.

Love can move and hurt,

Abandoners are fearless and persistent.

lingering lust is soft around the fingers,

only bones are left to bury the green hills.

I dare not call myself a hero.

I'm obsessed with my body.

Love binds people to be infatuated,

One day they will fly separately.

when a thunder strikes in a sunny day,

there are thousands of thoughts in the heart to go to the weak water.

I was lucky to have a bosom friend in my life, but

I was lonely and slept alone.

The stars are dim and the years are long,

The meteor flashes for a moment.

if love is long and insipid,

how sweet it is to spend a night in spring night.

spring night's limited legacy is exhausted, and

it's empty.

Unfortunately, people are heartbroken.

Arsenic is made into white sugar.

People have no desire to survive,

If they want to go to the grave, they will die.

think about your parents' feelings, and

live to repay this kindness.

Although he is not dead, his heart is dead.

He intends to return to the wild and hide in the city.

the common things in the world of mortals are not heard,

my ears are so restless.

Shuang Ye covers his eyes and calms his body and mind.

The world of mortals can't roll.

May the sun spread its wings and fly,

Wan Li's time is gone.

There is no cloud crane in the wasteland,

It licks the wound and breaks the heart alone.

the future is long,

this feeling is long to remember.

an empty heart loves beauty,

a spring dream wakes up without a trace.

what can I do!

I only hate this life! Hate! Hate!

5. Famous sayings about missing the lost lover

The dream of Jiangchengzi Yimao on the 2th day of the first month written by Su Shi, a poet in the Northern Song Dynasty, has lived and died for ten years.

a lonely grave is a thousand miles away, and there is nowhere to talk about it. Even if you don't know when you meet, your face is covered with dust and your temples are like frost.

At night, I dreamt of returning home suddenly, and I was dressing at the window of Xiao Xuan. Care for each other without words, only tears thousands of lines

It's expected that the annual heartbroken place, moonlit night, short matsuoka. Appreciation Su Dongpo married Wang Fu, who was sixteen years old, when he was nineteen years old.

Wang Fu is young and beautiful, and he is very filial to his parents. They love each other deeply. Unfortunately, fate was impermanent, and Wang Fu died at the age of 27.

This is a great blow to Dongpo, and the pain in his heart and spirit is self-evident. Su Shi said in the Epitaph of His Dead Wife Wang: "Ding Hai, the wife of Su Shi in Zhao County, died in the capital in May of the second year of Zhiping (165).

at noon in June, the funeral was held in the west of Beijing. At noon in June next year, it will be buried eight steps northwest of the tombs of the first gentleman and the first lady in Kelongli, Anzhen Township, pengshan county, northeast of Yu Mei. "

in a calm tone, it is extremely painful. In 175 (the eighth year of Xining), Dongpo came to Mizhou. On the 2th day of the first month of this year, he dreamed of his beloved wife, Wang, and wrote this song, "When the sky is full of sound, when the spring is full of tears" (in Chen Shidao), which was recited throughout the ages.

In the literary history of China, there have been "mourning poems" since the Book of Songs. From the appearance of mourning poems to Su Shi in the Northern Song Dynasty, Pan Yue in the Western Jin Dynasty and Yuan Zhen in the Middle Tang Dynasty were the most famous mourning poems.

In the late Tang Dynasty, Li Shangyin also wrote a memorial work. Their works are sad and touching.

or write that after the lover has gone, he is lonely and sad, and he is sad to see the relics; Or the writer is rich and expensive, recalling the past, lamenting that the world is good and the destiny is impermanent; Or express your deep and broad thoughts and memories with trance-like words and colors, which makes people feel sad to read. It is Su Shi's initiative to write mourning in words.

Compared with the predecessors, the performance art of Su Shi's mourning work is unique. The first word is "dreaming", and the day of dreaming is clearly written.

but although it is "remembering dreams", in fact, only the next five sentences are about remembering dreams, and the rest are all about expressing one's feelings and complaining about sadness. They are sincere, simple and touching. The year of "Yimao" in the inscription refers to the year 175 (the eighth year of Xining, Song Shenzong), when Su Dongpo was appointed as the Zhizhou of Mizhou (now Zhucheng, Shandong Province) and was forty years old.

In fact, this word "remembering dreams" is all lyrical except the next five sentences describing dreams. The first three sentences are empty, honest and touching.

"Ten years of life and death are two boundless". Life and death are separated, and the dead are at a loss about the world, while the living are at a loss about the dead, aren't they? Love couples, give up forever, time suddenly, ten years in a flash. "If you don't think about it, you will never forget it." Although people die, the past is beautiful