Now the community is the place where we usually use kung fu the most. Usually, we like to mix groups and increase our own powder, which is also the fastest and easiest way: talking about dry goods and setting a "tick" can immediately attract others to join! Friends around me basically try to make friends in the group every day. But why don't some friends mix well? I summed up your problems and told you some tips for your reference. 1, learn to introduce yourself and show yourself in the group. Pay attention to the time and way of self-introduction. Many people are busy introducing themselves after joining the group. No matter whether anyone speaks in the group, they say hello in the group and then briefly introduce themselves. First of all, we should make it clear that the purpose of introducing ourselves after joining the group is to let everyone know and remember us. So pay attention to the timing when introducing yourself. When there are many people, the attention of the group is high and more people can remember you. Today, I will share with you a novel self-introduction method-introducing myself with red envelopes. The red envelopes mentioned here are skillful. Don't just send one, you'd better not send it. Didn't we leave a message when we gave out red envelopes? You can send 5, 6 or even more messages in a row. When you leave a message, you must introduce yourself and express your information. For example, the first one is that many people will say, why do I send so many red envelopes? The purpose of giving red envelopes is just to let everyone know you, let everyone participate and interact with you. Giving a red envelope is not a question of how much it costs. It is not money but passion that grabs the red envelope. Be sure to introduce yourself in detail. 2. Newcomers should welcome their own community when they join the group. Sometimes when new members come in, it will be embarrassing if no one welcomes them. At this time, if you start to take the lead in welcoming, others will follow suit. This approach not only makes the newcomers feel the atmosphere of the community, but also helps the group owners share some details of their daily work, which is of course pleasing to the eye. Remember, it is convenient for the community to do anything as long as the group owners settle in. 3. If you want others to add your friends, you should leave some hooks to add people to the WeChat group. Be sure not to be violent, but to use skill. Those violent software plus people's gameplay has long been outdated and will be disgusted by users and group owners. Here, I want to share two tips for stringing ginger, one is "halfway through" and the other is "leaving a message on the hook". First, what is "semi-talk"? You can sort out some of your own dry goods, and then find a time to eat something to share with everyone, but don't share it all. It's best to open the most wonderful place and tell you to eat first and share it with you in the afternoon. In this way, as long as your content is dry enough, someone will remember you, and then you can stop it for the time being in the afternoon. Some people can't wait, they will send you private messages to communicate directly. Then, a little later, you can go on and add, "I was delayed, and many students trusted me privately." Sorry, continue to share it with you. " B. what is a data retention hook? For example, someone in the community has shared it for a long time, and you can help make a summary PDF. Usually, this kind of PDF has pictures and words, and its volume will be relatively large. Direct sharing in the community will be unsuccessful, and it will be more convenient to obtain private messages. Or, you can say that I shared an interesting content in my circle of friends yesterday, which was praised by many people and was a good interactive material. So many people will be interested, add your friends and see the circle of friends. 4. Help others answer questions. Always remember that helping others is exposing yourself. Every time you help, you can show your professionalism and character. Even, you can use the AB number to answer your own questions, which is also a good drainage opportunity. 5. Keeping a good relationship with the group owner or administrator is a detail that many people will ignore when they are in a mixed group. In fact, this is the most important part: they are the ones who decide whether you can get along in this group or not. To put it bluntly, whether they kick you out or not is just a matter of their actions. So "worship the mountain". Before preparing for drainage, talk to the group owner privately and explain your purpose (not that you want to drain, but that you want to do something in the group), and then bring a small red envelope. If the group owner receives a red envelope, it is basically the default. When you drain in the group again, even if the purpose is obvious, the group owner probably won't kick you out of the group (provided you don't go too far). After all, there is an old saying in China: Be soft on others, and you receive all the red envelopes. How dare you kick me? Finally, to sum up: to attract people in the group, we must talk about topics or problems that everyone is interested in. This starting point is very important. Because the problems that everyone is concerned about can attract everyone's attention at once. For example, when everyone can't find a result in the discussion of a certain issue, you can solve everyone's doubts in a few words, and then give the benefits that have already been prepared, and the effect of drainage will definitely be shaken. But this time is a test of eyesight and luck, and you can't stare at those groups all day. But if you have, don't hesitate to show yourself immediately.