To deal with others, one has to deal with others. Some of the people around us are good people, and some are traitors. We must distinguish right from wrong and know what kind of people we should associate with and what kind of people we should not associate with. .

There are three types of people you should not associate with. If you do associate with them, you will feel uncomfortable and inexplicably annoyed with them. You may even be betrayed by them and suffer losses to your reputation and property. This kind of person is called a "bad friend".

So what are the three types of bad friends?

First, they are jealous of people who are better than you.

Such people are narrow-minded. If you make friends with them, they will compare with you everywhere. They are complacent, but feel resentful when they lose. There are many such people in life. They look friendly and talk to you in a pleasant manner, but they are different inside.

They will not reveal their true thoughts too much. What they say is completely different from what they think in their hearts. If they have resentment towards you but are warm and friendly to you on the surface, do you think they are They like you in their hearts, but in fact, they resent you in their hearts. Why? Because you compared him with you in a certain aspect, he felt uncomfortable, but he didn't dare to show it. He just smiled and looked for opportunities to compare with you.

Such people are narrow-minded. You will never know their true inner thoughts, and you will never understand where you have offended them. In fact, if you get results, honors, and benefits, they will feel very uncomfortable. They will think, why are you better than them and they can't get these? Jealousy is the fundamental reason why they can't see your good things. .

Second, people whose words and deeds are inconsistent are hypocritical and unreliable

There are also people who say and do completely different things. On the surface, they may sound good, but in practice they But it's another thing. This kind of person is inconsistent and the most unreliable. If you want to ask someone for something, never ask such a person, because they will pat their chests and promise you that it will be taken care of by me, but the result will be only thunder and no raindrops, and there will be no news from them. If you go to them, they will They will also say that they have been busy and forgot about it during this period. They always have a reason to shirk it, but the result is that your things are delayed again and again.

Being a person who is consistent in his words and deeds is a scarce resource. There are too few such people nowadays. Many people can only talk about it but cannot do it in action. Don’t associate with such people. It will be a waste of your time and energy, and you are doomed to fail if you place your hopes on them.

Third, stay away from those who are treacherous

There is a kind of people who behave very loyal and fearful in difficult times. When you help them and they gain power, It's a completely different face. They repay kindness with hatred. People who were kind to them in the past are now regarded as enemies by them, for fear of asking them to repay you. This is simply ridiculous. When this kind of people were in trouble, who would have thought about it? In order for them to repay him in the future, he was a kind person. When he saw him in such a difficult situation, he felt pity and compassion, so he helped him.

This kind of people will think that now that they are in power, they cannot let others snatch away the benefits they have finally obtained, so they are always on guard for fear that others will snatch what they have and ask them to repay them. Therefore, when something happens, they will betray their trust and treat their benefactors as enemies. We should stay away from such people, otherwise disaster will befall us.

The complexity of life is beyond people’s imagination. If we want to live a good and worry-free life, we must learn to protect ourselves, do not associate with these three types of people, and develop a sharp eye. Just see who the other person is. Life is not easy. If we lose the benefits we have gained with difficulty because of wrong friends, it is a loss outweighing the gain. Therefore, smart people stay away from these three types of people.