respect others (don't be too absolute in judging people, be multi-faceted, don't be ugly and rich, and don't bully the poor), cherish family ties (parents' love is always selfless, and other feelings need to be exchanged, so think about it yourself), make friends carefully (don't make bad friends, don't look at this with compromise, it's true that it's better to be short than to be rich), and ignore material needs such as money (money can meet people's material needs).