Is it difficult to make friends? Actually, making friends is a difficult problem in life. Only by figuring out the principle can we solve these problems.
What do friends rely on to maintain relationships? By profit? By money? By promise?
In fact, it depends on one word-heart. There is no other skill in making friends, just be careful.
However, many times, people tend to be smart and don't want to be sincere.
I remember when I was at school, a classmate always came to borrow my meal card and usually called me brother. I always try my best to help.
But some people, once they are used to taking, will hurt those who help themselves in turn when their demands are not met.
Then one day, I forgot to recharge my meal card because I was busy. When he came to borrow it, I casually refused. Unexpectedly, he never spoke to me again.
It's just that I didn't help you this time, so will you hold a grudge?
At that time, it was a truth that I couldn't understand. Later, I understood a truth: promote Mien, fight Miqiu.
Don't make friends with ungrateful people. Such people are selfish, and they only use it without paying.
Friends should help and appreciate each other. After all, friends can't say who owes who, because I won't stand by as long as you need it.
This gratitude doesn't need to be said all the time, but it must be kept in your heart, otherwise it will never be warm if it is cold.
As for those who don't know how to be grateful, no matter how much you pay, you won't become real friends in their hearts.
Just like in Spongebob, in the end, Patrick became an idiot again and said to Spongebob: Knowledge can't replace friendship. I would rather be an idiot than lose you.
Friends always keep each other in mind.
Do you believe that someone in this world will give it to another person selflessly?
I believe that parents will be desperate for their children, and once a couple, a friend, and a person move their true feelings.
But in this world, any emotion is mutual, rather than one person treating another as a fool.
When a person regards you as a true friend, even if you have a little disappointment and doubt, it will make the other person sad.
A person's heart can't stand the temptation, just like once, a friend called and said he wanted to borrow money in an emergency. Later, he learned that he had nothing urgent, just wanted to test me.
After knowing this, I felt inexplicably uncomfortable and always felt sick.
Trust, help and care are essential in friendship, and they must be mutual.
Just as I trust you, I hope you can trust me. If one day you don't trust me, it's your problem, not mine.
If you are careful enough, you can understand the gap. Once a person has moved his true feelings, no matter friendship or love, there is no room for flaws.
We always hate those selfish people, double-hearted people and self-righteous people because we are uncomfortable with these people.
No matter how good a friend is, we should also be careful not to do annoying things, otherwise it will harm others.
Therefore, it is often impossible for people with different views to become friends, and even if they have contacts, they will keep a certain distance.
As friends, we should know each other's bottom line and principles, understand what we can't say and do, put ourselves in each other's shoes and be tolerant of each other.
When people reach a certain age, they will form their own understanding and definition of the word "friend", and time will filter out everything.
Only the right person can go all the way to the end, and those who have gone away will only appear in memories.