The key to success in life lies in overcoming one's own weaknesses. Envy, blind obedience, laziness, greed, vanity ... these human weaknesses affect our moral character, determine our way of thinking and behavior, and influence our success or failure.

human weakness one * * * Chapter 13:

Chapter 1: Ignorance-the greatest ignorance in the world

Chapter 2: Jealousy-an arrow that wants to grow long will bend the arrow of others

Chapter 3: Blindness-the wind is the direction

Chapter 4: Laziness-waiting for a pie to fall from the sky

Chapter 5: Greed-boundless desire for the sea

Chapter 6: Mean- Good

chapter 8 dependence-thinking about the meaning of life

chapter 9 vanity-saving face, even if debt is high

chapter 1 hypocrisy-saying and doing are two different things

chapter 11 prejudice-thieves are all poor

chapter 12 evasion-evading punishment is an instinct

chapter 13 luck-

A wise man will lose nothing as long as he knows himself. -Nietzsche

Only when you know yourself correctly can you make yourself full of self-confidence and keep the destination of life from getting lost. Only by knowing yourself correctly can we determine the goal of life. Only when you have the right goal in life, and you are full of self-confidence and strive for it all your life, can you have no regrets in this life.

knowing your ignorance is the threshold to the temple of wisdom. -check? Spurgeon

not knowing himself also includes not being able to correctly evaluate his own ability, feeling sure, or always feeling sure that he can do something well.

it's always a wise choice to do what you can.

it's not difficult to detect other people's false aspirations, but it's difficult to detect your own false aspirations, which requires a lot of sanity. -Goethe

Don't point out the mistakes of others with the same mistakes as others.

The most important thing in this world, no matter from any angle, is to know yourself thoroughly. -Montaigne

Only by knowing yourself objectively, knowing your own strengths and weaknesses, and knowing your own abilities and abilities, can you explore your own potential and surpass yourself.

"I visit my body three times a day", reflect on what I have done, think and think, understand my own strengths and weaknesses, and constantly correct myself.

Jealousy means that you are dissatisfied with yourself and envy others. Being dissatisfied with yourself is the beginning of envy others.

A jealous person can't accomplish great things by himself, but try to underestimate the greatness of others and make them equal to himself. -Hegel

The Excellence of others does not hinder your progress, on the contrary, it may bring you unprecedented motivation. In fact, a person who is really immersed in his own career has no time to envy others.

forget about jealousy, and your mind will gradually widen.

a despicable person can't compare with other people's moral character, so he will try his best to slander that person. The jealous villain slanders others' advantages behind their backs, and when he comes to that person, he will be speechless. -Sadie

Jealousy often comes from comparing with others.

The correct way to treat others' strengths is not to let others find out that they are envious of him, because it makes them look inferior to others, so you should secretly make up your mind to catch up or even surpass them.

hatred is positive unhappiness, while jealousy is negative unhappiness. So it is not surprising that jealousy can easily turn into hatred. -Goethe

Hatred is often a manifestation of the lack of personal talent and will. Voltaire said, "Those who lack talent and will are most likely to be jealous."

We can make proper use of the positive role of jealousy to motivate ourselves to keep forging ahead, but we must not be controlled by jealousy and produce a deformed competitive mentality.

Look deep into your heart, and then find that all the miracles are in yourself. -bacon

You should live to enrich yourself, not to cater to others. Everyone should stick to his own path and not be constrained by other people's views. We can't change other people's opinions, only we can change ourselves.

if you don't have self-confidence, that's really bad! If you don't believe in yourself or doubt yourself, it's even worse. -Chekhov

Following the trend and following the crowd is a "common disease" and habit of human beings, a "patent" for lazy people, and a negative ghost that is hard to detect in our hearts. Only by making up our minds can we change it.

It is sad to follow blindly, but there is an even sadder intangible factor behind this sadness, that is, people's inner instability.

Truth is often in the hands of a few people, and everyone thinks that what is right may not be right. Before following the trend, make a rational judgment to ensure that your life will not be damaged.

believe in yourself first, and then others will believe you. -turgenev

if you want to achieve something in life and career, you must get rid of the bad habit of blindly following others, be good at thinking with your own mind and make the right choice in life.

laziness is a very expensive luxury, and once it is paid off, it can't be repaid. Laziness moves so slowly that poverty soon catches up with it.

once talent is dominated by laziness, it can do nothing. -krylov

Laziness is a bad habit of human beings. In order to achieve something, we must fight against it and go beyond this bad habit. This kind of resistance and transcendence is always forced by some external forces at the beginning, and then gradually internalized into a constant spirit and behavior habits.

a person who enters a state of hard work will not be lazy for a long time. Therefore, the most direct and effective way to overcome laziness is to make yourself busy.

laziness is punished not only for its own failure, but also for the success of others. -Mill? Renard

Inertia is often the personality factor of many people who waste their time and do nothing. Inertia is concentrated in procrastination, that is to say, what can be done is not finished immediately, and today is put off tomorrow, and tomorrow is put off the day after tomorrow. As a result, not much has been done, but the good years have passed away in this endless procrastination.

if a person wants to control laziness, diligence is the only way.

The reason for inertia is to try to avoid difficult things, to be comfortable, to be afraid of hardship, and to be habitual. Once people avoid hard work for a long time, they will form habits, and habits will develop into bad personality tendencies.

Lazy people can't achieve great things, because lazy people are always eager for comfort, and they are terrified at the slightest risk. In addition, these people lack the spirit of hard work and always have luck.

laziness is the enemy of study, work and life.

Genius is the endless ability to work hard. -Carlyle

It is also "no time". Do you have no time to work hard for your dreams or do things other than your dreams?

a day's hard work can get a good night's sleep; If you work hard all your life, you can sleep happily. -up to? Finch

The external factors such as talent, environment, opportunity and knowledge are important for a person's development and growth, but what is more important is his own diligence and hard work. Success depends not only on ability and wisdom, but also on everyone's tireless and diligent work.

In the face of desire, it is not advisable to indulge excessively, but it is also wrong to completely deny one's desire. Maybe what we really want is not to get away from desire, but to get rid of the worry, anxiety and pain caused by greed.

Greed is a hell that will bring infinite pain to people. It exhausts the energy of people trying to meet their needs, but it does not bring satisfaction to people. -fromm

Material is the foundation of life, and the pursuit of material is taken for granted. However, once a person falls into the trap of greed, it is like falling into an abyss.

once a person becomes a slave to desire, he will never be free. -check? Gogidi's

desire, insatiable desire, on the one hand, is the motive force of people's unremitting pursuit, which has achieved the motto that man struggles upwards and water flows downwards; On the other hand, it also explains the human weakness of "if you have thousands of fields, you want to be immortal when you become an emperor" and "if you don't have enough people, you will swallow the elephant".

In fact, desire is not the root of all evil, it can not only make people degenerate, but also be the ladder of human progress. The most important thing is to achieve a balance between desire and hope.

what people love in the end is their own desires, not what they want! -Nietzsche

In life, we must lighten our desires and know how to give up. Only in this way can we get rid of greed and gain inner peace.

don't try to argue with temptation, avoid it and stay away. It is not important to be unmoved in the face of temptation. What is important is to shake your conscience for the sake of temptation. -Montesquieu

All stingy people are selfish and greedy.

If you regard money as God, it will torment you like the devil. -Fielding

Wealth causes more greedy people than greed causes more rich people. -British proverb

If you lose money, you lose very little; If you lose a friend, you lose a lot; If you lose courage, lose everything. -Goethe

Being stingy is like hell. The more you swallow, the more you want to swallow. -Augustine

It is difficult for a person with low self-esteem to feel happy and happy. The sense of inferiority is very painful, and it is the greatest inhibition of excitement, optimism and cheerfulness.

The greatest pride and the greatest inferiority both indicate the weakest of the mind. -Spinoza

If a person feels inferior, he will not only dare to have lofty goals, but he will never excel.

Be confident, and then go all out-if you have this idea, you can succeed in everything nine times out of ten. -Wilson

People's value is not damaged by being incomplete. From the perspective of personality, all people are equal. Do not need pity, do not need sympathy, do not accept contempt, do not accept contempt, do not humble yourself, do not feel inferior.

Although failure is the opposite of pride, it is actually the closest to pride. -Spinoza

When the sense of inferiority arises in a person's heart, it often leads to some very bad negative behaviors, such as being unwilling to communicate with others and lacking team spirit; Obedience that is afraid of competition and resigned; Rude behavior that is irritable and unfriendly; Avoiding reality, feeling depressed, and so on. All these results can only be futile self-harm and torture to the "inside"; For "outside", people will feel that you are weak, incompetent and even humble.

"Admitting that you are incompetent is undoubtedly creating opportunities for failure."

self-confidence is the first step to success. -Einstein

Only those who dare to think, dare to do and dare to face the reality without being afraid of setbacks can succeed in their careers and be truly strong.

Many people fall into the fallacy that they will always benefit from the constant help of others, but they don't know that blindly relying on others will only lead to cowardice. If a person depends on others, he will never be strong and creative.

many people are not enough to rely on, and you have to rely on yourself to survive. -Napoleon

Either be independent, or you can only bury your ambition and be an ordinary person all your life.

Let others exercise for us in the gym, which will never enhance our own muscle strength; Create a superior environment for children, so that they don't have to work hard, and they can never be independent and become a real success.

people should live on their own, and they must live on their own.

Although we can grow up under the protection of our parents and relatives, rely on our brothers and friends, and get happiness by making friends, in any case, in the final analysis, people still depend on themselves. -Goethe.

when fate hands you a sour lemon, try to make it sweet lemon juice. -Hugo

In order to train the young lion to be self-reliant and self-reliant, the lioness deliberately pushed it into the deep valley, making it struggle to survive in a difficult situation.

The ups and downs of real life can only be experienced and felt by yourself, and no one can provide you with eternal shade. You should grasp the direction of progress, grasp the goal, and let the goal shine like a lighthouse in the distance; You should think independently, have your own opinions and know how to solve problems by yourself. You shouldn't believe in any savior, believe in any immortal or emperor, your character, your actions and everything you have are the products of your own actions, and you can't change them by other things.

vanity urges people to dress up completely different from their original faces in order to win the approval or recognition of others.

a little vanity, just like a lot of love, is enough to make people pretentious. -Gide

Psychologists believe that vanity is an excessive expression of self-esteem, and it is an abnormal social emotion shown in order to gain honor and attract general attention. Vanity is a common mentality, because vanity is related to self-esteem. Everyone has self-esteem. When self-esteem is damaged or excessively self-esteem, vanity may arise.

People with vanity often have deep psychological defects such as inferiority and guilty conscience. Vanity is only a kind of compensation, and they try their best to pursue glitz to cover up their psychological defects.

even if you are in a high position and enjoy all the splendor, as long as you have ostentation, you won't appreciate real happiness. -Daisaku Ikeda

Vanity is despised by wise men, admired by fools, worshipped by flatterers, and enslaved by their own vanity. -bacon

hypocrisy encourages people to cover up their sins with the appearance of virtue, thus avoiding the blame of others.

hypocrisy likes to hide in the noblest thoughts. It never tries to break away from thinking, because thinking can make it gain a noble reputation without blowing off dust. -Edmund? Burke

Aphids eat grass, rust eats iron, and hypocrisy eats soul. -Russian proverb

Hypocrisy means untruthfulness, untruthfulness and falsification. Hypocrisy is duplicity, duplicity and duplicity.

hypocrisy will make you live very tired, because you have to weave all kinds of lies for yourself every day; Hypocrisy will make you tired, because you have to smile at those unpleasant things every day; Hypocrisy will make you very confused, because you don't know whether others are also hypocritical, and you don't know what they say can be believed. Anyway,