Graduating from college is the beginning of the end of your ivory tower life, and life has to face reality, and reality is so ruthless.

If you want to make a true friend after graduating from college, the probability is very low. First of all, as an intern, you start to enter social work, and your entry may have some impact on the personnel changes in the company. You are likely to replace their current positions, so how can you let your colleagues Heart to heart with you. You are on opposite sides. If there is no competition now, it does not mean that there will be no possibility of competing for the same position in the future. Therefore, everyone will have reservations and no one will be at ease with each other.

And speaking of it, when you were in school, you had a fixed number of years to attend that school, and there was no big conflict of interest. But it will be different after you work. People in the company come and go, changing constantly. No one knows when you will leave, and no one knows when you will leave. Face uncertainty with you. After how long have we been colleagues, how many of them are really willing to talk to each other?

We all come from all over the world, and no one knows everything. You don’t know what he has experienced, and he doesn’t know what you are going through. You are not in the same place, and you don’t even speak with a Mandarin accent. It's different. You just have to stay in the same place because you have to make ends meet. Maybe you will be separated in the near future and there will never be a chance to meet again. Maybe this time you separate, you will be your opponent next time you meet.

How can someone still treat you sincerely? If you are too close to you, you will become your opponent in the future. That means you will be deeply hurt. If you are too close to you, it will be impossible to see each other again after separation. How to maintain this relationship? friendship.