It's hard to wait for the bus when you go to work every morning. I know when it will come and when it won't, so I look for it according to this rule every day, but slowly I find that many things are not what I see. The speed at which the bus arrives at the station determines the situation on the road, so I can't see it. For example, people who take buses, such as the number of vehicles, violate the law that they think they have discovered. Because I really don't know when it will come.
When waiting for the bus, you know that the bus will come, but you still can't help fidgeting, complaining, wondering if one has just passed and hasn't arrived yet, and wondering how long it will take. For people waiting for the bus, the most helpless thing is that when they arrive at the platform immediately, they find that they have just passed a trip and then have to wait for a longer time. Anyway, the bus that didn't even catch up with the run is still a bit bitter. So many times, just when we are near the platform, we will walk faster, because we don't want to lose an opportunity because we are one minute late.
I am a person who often waits for the bus and often misses the bus in front. Although I learned later that I couldn't get to the right place every time, I always felt a little sorry after I missed it. But looking at one waiting person after another, I know that there are people in Dachuan who are as anxious as you. Everyone wants to get on the bus to a distant place or home as soon as possible, but some people will miss it and wait for a while.
Sometimes I will meet you just right, but after all, I will feel lucky because I have too little time, but I will never think that I will do this every time. While waiting for the bus, I knew it would come, but I was still impatient. The same is true when waiting for someone. I know she will appear in front of you at some moment, but I still feel like I am on a pilgrimage, and every second becomes heavy and painful. Waiting for someone is the same as waiting for a bus, and it's different. There is generally no big emotional change when waiting for the bus, but when waiting for someone, I feel that waiting is a kind of sweetness because I think of her smile. Sometimes I even feel that it is a happy thing to wait for someone and be waited for by someone. You may even laugh at the thought of some experiences with her, just to make her appear in front of you faster.
Sometimes I wonder how to live every second to the fullest, so that my heart can be enriched and I won't feel that I didn't cherish it when I look back. I really want to make every second meaningful and feel real and empty. I also told Ting that I didn't think I valued her enough. Although I often stay with her, I always feel that some time seems to be empty. I think every second with you is full and precious, even if I do. If I want to remove a second from it, I feel reluctant to remove it!
I know it is not easy or impossible to live like this, because we will inadvertently produce some other emotions, doubt some things, break the peace of life and bring anxiety.
Because our life is short, and we seem to be cold and indifferent people, every second can only be eternal if we cherish it.
Life Wisdom Essay 2 Like a friend is as light as water.
Between ignorance, I have fallen into the digital age. From ignorance to superficiality to familiarity, I am nearly half a year old, and I like this network platform that can talk, communicate and show freely. Unconsciously, there are all kinds of email, blog, Weibo, qq, WeChat and WeChat official accounts, and there is more than one email, blog, Weibo and WeChat official account, and more websites are registered by themselves. It is the Internet, which allows people who are strangers and thousands of miles apart to communicate on an equal footing. I send a message, and you like it. Many fans are heroes! Exquisite articles, exquisite pictures and exquisite videos can be seen by more people with no effort, and it can be regarded as "giving away roses". News information, interesting things around you and even personal troubles can also be said. Is this the ordinary life of ordinary people?
WeChat group and qq group, the vast majority of group friends don't know each other, but they have the same hobbies and similar views, so they come together. From text communication to voice dialogue, to video chat, to show their articles, pictures and videos, say hello in the morning and greet holiday wishes at night. But they don't ask about personal privacy, have no utilitarian needs, and have no conflicts of interest when their colleagues are promoted to professional titles. Trust arises spontaneously. There is no need to reciprocate, no need to push a cup for a change, just exchange information and help each other. Relaxed, natural and light as water, it is a rare spiritual realm. It is my weakness to say high-sounding courtesies to people I hate, so I prefer the internet to secular life.
The biggest feeling when I communicate with group friends is that the afterlife is awesome. Friends born after 80, 90 and 00, with standard Mandarin, rigorous logical thinking, familiarity with computer operation and high English level, make me ashamed of this post-70 s. I really envy and hate myself for being lazy and incompetent and being born too early. Communicate with them as friends, and you can't tolerate carelessness, coping and perfunctory. We should prepare lessons in advance and charge carefully. ...
With the arrival of smart phones, "insight into the world and guidance" has become a reality. Since the media era, everyone is a news party, everyone is a news producer and everyone is an audience. I know that the network is not a virtual society, but a real social platform, where all kinds of people and things will happen. If you are in it, you should know how to protect yourself, such as observing the "seven rules" and not forwarding information indiscriminately. It is better to believe in books than to have no books, and it is better to believe in the net than to have no net. There are red envelopes and positive energy on the Internet, but there are also liars, rumors and traps. Although it is not a big coffee, it is not an online celebrity. Sending a message like Trump is not enough to attract the world's attention, but irresponsible rash waves may lead to serious consequences ... A friend who tutored me in Zhouyi said that surfing the Internet is the same as reading a book, cleaning the room, taking a shower and changing clothes, sitting still and being calm. ...
I also learned to send red envelopes, learn to pay by WeChat, and enjoy the convenience brought by information technology to life. I'm Yun. She allows me to browse all the goods in the world without leaving home. After comparison, you can wait for the purchased goods to be delivered to your door with your fingers. Some people say that he let fakes flood. In fact, before Taobao appeared, there were more fakes. In reality, there are many fakes in physical stores, and you may not be able to return them there, but you can return them on Taobao for no reason.
My heart is selfless and broad. I am willing to show myself when I make friends online. I like these familiar and strange friends, and I like online friends. I cherish this feeling and hope that we can communicate heart to heart forever.
Essays on Life Wisdom III. People who spend money will never be stingy with those who cherish them.
A friend of mine, Amin, has had a lot of trouble at work recently. He is very shy, but even so, he often invites me to have tea and dinner together. I know it's not easy for him, but whether I ask for a treat or secretly pay the bill, he will refuse and insist on splitting the bill equally. His wife likes baking at home, so he often brings some snacks to my family to taste. Another friend moved, and he would rather ask for leave and deduct his salary than help. Amin is short of money, but she is not stingy with the expenses of socializing with friends. She is willing to stay up late to buy a birthday present for her wife and do private work. On the other hand, there are some well-dressed people with good taste around him. Everyone bought a list next to him, but he sat firmly as if he were an outsider. Spending money is a treasure for those who cherish it, no matter how much. Which is more important in his mind, money or true feelings, will be known when he spends money.
Amin's life is very stressful, but who isn't? There are only a few things in your life that are really worth fighting for. The person who has been with you for a long time is the one who deserves everything. The irresistible temptation of money is that it can add luster to these things we cherish. When one day we find ourselves surrounded by these beautiful things, who will compare the spending figures?