People will more or less substitute their lives for several love stories in the play.
Feel your life in other people's stories.
The most enviable thing about "Parents' Love" is the love between Anjie and Jiang Defu-they live very much alike;
The most desirable thing is the love between An Xin and Ouyang Yi-like-minded;
The most mixed feelings are the love between Mrding and Dehua (the compromise of life after Mrding's love is shattered);
The most stable is the love between Jiang Yafei and Wang Haiyang (childhood friends).
Some people say that the love between Mrding and Dehua is also happy, although it is not as good as the other three couples.
Let's talk about whether Dehua (Hua Shi) and I are happy in this marriage.
0 1, An Jie is Lao Ding's ideal love object, but he doesn't have the courage of Jiang Defu to sacrifice everything for love.
Jiang Defu was thought to have cheated his brother after joining the army, and finally Jiang Defu found out that their marriage was over.
Jiang Defu was fascinated by Angie's beauty at first sight, but Angie didn't have a crush on Jiang Defu from the heart.
However, Jiang Defu's status as a naval leader occupies an important position in Anjie's mind. The love between Angie and Jiang Defu,
In fact, it started with the stereotype that the woman weighed the pros and cons and the man was moved by beauty.
However, the love between them was tacky at first, the process was warm and the ending was romantic.
Mrding's country wife and Mrding live a happy life in the city, but in her heart,
Educated Mrding looked down on his wife, Wang Xiue. Although Wang Xiue is kind and simple by nature,
But at the same time, she also has many problems, likes to make irresponsible remarks and has old ideas.
Some living habits brought by the countryside are also disdained by Mrding.
What people fear most is to compare with others, but everyone can't escape this inferiority complex.
Jiang Defu is Mrding's best comrade in arms. Seeing that Jiang Defu married a beautiful and knowledgeable daughter-in-law, Anjie,
Mrding, how can there be no sense of gap in my heart? He also likes the elegant and emotional Angie, but this time,
Can only be kept in my heart. Mrding is a married man, both in terms of military discipline and morality.
He can only appreciate Anjie from a distance, keep his friendship with Jiang Defu, and live a dull and peaceful life.
In fact, we all want to live like Jiang Defu and Anjie, but after comparison, we find that we are more like Mrding.
Many marriages are compromises to life.
02, many people miss their loved ones, and finally compromise to life, enter marriage, and put an end to their ideal love with marriage.
Mrding's marriage with Wang Xiue before joining the army was an old-fashioned arranged marriage, far from love.
So did Jiang Defu's first marriage. The main idea at that time was to carry on the family line.
After Wang Xiue's death, Dehua began to take care of Mrding instead of her eldest sister-in-law, and gradually fell in love with Mrding.
Mrding knew, but Mrding was unmoved. After the islanders started talking about it, Mrding changed the lock.
Mrding doesn't consider Dehua's feelings at all. From this incident, we can also see the gap between Mrding and Jiang Defu in the mode of doing things.
Mrding has no feelings for Dehua's love, and when Dehua's feelings for him have been clearly put there,
Mrding was kissed twice, once with Mr. Ge, and he flinched because of Mr. Ge's composition.
Once, I was with Wu Yizhou, but I failed, because this woman had other intentions and strength.
Jiang Defu loves her sister's unrequited love, and her sister has really paid too much for her family.
He wanted to find a good home for Dehua, so he proposed to Mrding and asked Mrding to consider Dehua.
After talking about a lot of advantages of Dehua, he is not young. Mr. Ge and Dr. Wu have no deal.
There are not many suitable objects, and Dehua will at least be dead set on him.
It's just that the culture is a little poor, but compared with Wang Xiue, Dehua is more knowledgeable than her.
After all, Dehua and Anjie have been together for more than ten years, and they still have a subtle influence.
Mrding chose Dehua as the second best, but his love for Dehua was not as good as Dehua's.
There are many differences in temperament between Mrding and Jiang Defu. His ability to handle things is far behind that of Jiang Defu.
Jiang Defu's seemingly chaotic lifestyle, high emotional intelligence and Jiang Defu's mind are not available in Mrding.
Angie can love Jiang Defu the clown all her life because Jiang Defu not only reads less,
The depth of other levels is what Anjie admires.
But Mrding is more cautious and passive. He is far less brave than Jiang Defu.
His pursuit of love is not pure enough, otherwise he and Mr. Ge can't break up.
His troubles are much more than those in Jiang Defu, with a bunch of children and his parents. ..............
Sometimes, people can't escape fate.
Because of this, he finally accepted Dehua. Although Dehua's shaved hair is a little hot,
But for Mrding, there is really no better choice than Dehua.
This is Mrding's life and Dehua's life. They have been quarrelling for thirty years.
Mrding didn't consider Dehua and his feelings when he died, otherwise he wouldn't have to consider who he was buried with after his death.
But in the end, this problem became the reason for the contradiction between Wang Xiue's children and Dehua.
If it weren't for Jiang Yafei, Dehua would have become a ghost after his death. If Mrding was virtuous, he wouldn't have to think about it.
When people are old, these are all issues that should be considered in advance. Although Mrding had a cerebral hemorrhage, these things should be done well in advance.
Or discuss it with the children.
The marriage between them is actually more common in real life than that between Jiang Defu and Anjie.
Many people miss people who love each other, and finally compromise with life and enter marriage, using marriage to draw a stop for ideal love.
In real life, Anjie, who yearns for petty bourgeoisie life, often exists, but he is honest, generous, has status, loves his wife and is emotional.
A Jiang Defu is really hard to find.
Families with daughters have money to support their daughters, hoping to cultivate their sense of quality, from personal ability to material conditions.
In order to cultivate their outlook on life and values, they are not moved by men's simple rhetoric.
But even so, it is hard to meet a husband who can tolerate himself for a lifetime like Anjie.
From Anjie's point of view, few women with excellent personal conditions know how to cherish after marrying a loving husband.
An Jie's greatest advantage is that she knows good or bad and knows how to be grateful. She knows how heavy she is, never being partial or arrogant, and knows how to advance and retreat.
When she asked Jiang Defu to be close to herself, she also walked to Jiang Defu.
When she gets old, she will call her a donkey and start wearing a suit and hat. ...............
They have become what they want, which is the wisdom of Jiang Defu's love management and the result of Anjie's continuous growth.
Mrding's two marriages in his life were the product of the times with Wang Xiue and the compromise of disillusionment with Jiang Dehua.
For Jiang Dehua, Mrding is the only man she has ever loved in her life. She has lived with him for thirty years, which is a kind of happiness.
But life in Jiang Dehua, compared with Anjie, is really hard.
In life, there is not so much pure love without fireworks.
Even the enviable Jiang Defu and Anjie started out as tacky or even snobbish.