This morning, I quietly studied and listened to the online case consultation and supervision, the psychological problems of fetishists (the case content is abbreviated). In real life, there are also many fetishists, mainly unmarried men such as college students and people who have just graduated and are waiting for employment. The main objects of fetishism are: stockings, underwear, bras and other sexy items worn by women. Through listening and learning, fetishists have the following reasons for psychological problems:

First, the superficial behavior of fetishism is stealing women's clothes, and its root is related to sexual psychology, which is triggered by the internal drive of sexual repression, thus leading to its social obstacles. Namely: fetishism ~ sexual repression ~ social disorder. To solve fetishism, we should start with solving its social obstacles.

Second, fetishists have an inferiority complex. In the process of growing up, the inferiority complex of family background is caused by some bad factors, such as unwillingness to make friends and falling in love with girls.

Third, fetishists have perfectionism, and they don't accept or allow their own shortcomings and deficiencies. A little deficiency of their own can trigger their psychological and emotional fluctuations.

Fourth, fetishists have a strong sense of morality and think that sex is unhealthy and immoral! But you can't reasonably release your sexual instinct and sexual impulse. So as to transfer its inherent physiological needs to women's underwear items.

Fifth, fetishists have clear sexual fantasies. Deep down, I have a crush on girls and relatives, but I dare not express my inferiority and dare not pursue it. Hugging women's stockings, bras and other sexy things is their favorite lover.

Sixth, fetishists are lazy and avoid behavior. Don't try to pursue what you desire, escape from reality, and don't communicate with others.

Fetishists should make more friends, both men and women, and expand their social circle. Communicate, chat and talk with girls more, and release your internal drive! Cultivate a variety of hobbies! Release energy!