If you obviously don't like chatting with others, but you are hypocritical in the eyes of others, if this person calls you hypocritical for no reason, it's only because you don't like talking with others. Then it is very likely that you have goals and situations that this person can't achieve on his own, so he will say this about you because he is jealous of you. Another possibility is that people are always following the crowd. You do something different, and then you may be a different person in the eyes of others. So they will call you hypocritical, but only you know that you don't want to go along with them, which is very different from them.