I like to talk to strangers. I think as an individual, people should be more lively and cheerful, and they should share the good things about themselves with the people around them, whether they are familiar people or strangers. , as long as you have the opportunity to contact, you must speak freely, and don't always suppress yourself like a thief. Basically, chatting with strangers will have the following situations.
On long-distance travel, we usually take trains or buses. Of course, there are still many train situations. Whether you take a hard seat or a sleeper, there will always be someone around you. If you meet someone of a similar age, your conversation may spark the spark of youth along with your words. Once, Xiaobai went to Beijing, and there was a girl next to him who didn’t know where he was going, so I asked Girl, are you going to college? At this time, it depends on the girl’s answer. After all, the contact between people is mutual. If she answers rigidly yes or no, Xiaobai will not continue to ask. The girl will only answer, no, I am I went out for fun during the university vacation. I made an appointment with a few friends to go to Jiangnan. By reading between the lines, you will feel that the girl is also a person who is more willing to chat, so you can naturally continue to ask, and then the two of us started from university. We talked about life, from life to relationships, from relationships to the future. We had a very good chat, and eventually we became very good friends. We would also contact each other when we have nothing to do, so sometimes we talk to strangers. It will bring us very good friends.
The second is to inquire. Sometimes, when we are not familiar with the place, we need to rely on some local people or people around you to inquire about the place. Then I will often ask questions directly without thinking, because I think communication between people needs to be sincere. Only in this way can you feel that the other party is not defensive, can you feel that the other party is very good, and can better promote communication between people.
The third is in a taxi. Often at this time, I will take the initiative to chat with the taxi driver, because the taxi driver’s profession makes them very good at chatting. Many times, when I first started In a taxi, before I could say anything, the taxi driver came up with a topic to talk to me about. At first, I was actually tired of hearing it and felt that the two of them were not familiar with each other. Why did they start chatting with each other? We chatted as if we were familiar with each other, but gradually I understood this feeling. It is actually a very happy thing to be able to directly enter the chat session with strangers. It allows us to learn a lot and understand each other. Some ideas can help you master more information.
So I like talking to strangers, which can enrich myself and learn more.