1, matchmaking, no matter what form two people in love are together, they all need a matchmaker to be a "lobbyist", and now it has gradually evolved into a ceremony, just going through the motions.

2, send, after the success of matchmaking, the woman's parents will ask the man for conditions, but I am not referring to the dowry here, but preparing pigs, chickens, fish, wine and so on. For that woman. In rural areas, this step is even more complicated, requiring rice, noodles, noodles, beans and so on. Only then can you write down the engagement, which will be completed by both parents, and both men and women will hold one copy, which is the so-called "parents' orders, the words of the matchmaker."

3. Give a bride price when reporting the date. Reporting the date means informing the woman that the man needs to send the bride price to her parents in advance when picking up the bride.

4, dowry, in the traditional marriage customs, a daughter's dowry is essential, which can make her daughter more decent when she gets married.

5. Welcome the bride. When the man picks up the bride at the woman's house, the woman's house will hold a banquet to welcome the groom. In the past, it was riding a horse. Nowadays, wedding cars are usually booked in advance. When the bride is ready to go back to the man's house, her parents will go out and fire.