Pretend to be a girlfriend, deal with parents, attend parties, meet friends, travel as a companion, get married and hold a fake wedding (without a certificate), do not sleep with you, do not kiss, do not accompany you with drinks..." See this What do you think of this paragraph? Yes, some unmarried people are forced to get married by their parents during the Spring Festival, so they “rent” a girlfriend to go home as an emergency. Similar information about renting friends is quite active on dating websites and QQ groups. (China News Network, March 3)
It is a happy thing to have the whole family reunited during the Spring Festival. However, some young people nowadays are still afraid of this. Why? They are afraid of asking their seventh and eighth aunts when they go home. Are you dating? When will you get married? As the saying goes, "You are single in a foreign land, and you are urged to get married during the holidays." Although it is a joke, it tells the story of many "leftover men and leftover women" in order to cope with their parents, relatives and friends. Due to the urging of their friends to get married, the "being urged" have the idea of ??renting a boyfriend or girlfriend online to celebrate the New Year, thinking that this is a sign of filial piety to their parents.
It is undeniable that "the being urged". "I had no choice but to make this decision. Faced with the "indiscriminate bombardment" of my parents, relatives and friends, and considering their good intentions, "renting a girl or a boyfriend" home can not only solve their immediate needs, but also make their parents happy. Although doing so The purpose is well-intentioned, but what are the risks involved in this behavior?
Some of the "renting a girlfriend" to go home for the New Year requires a signed agreement, and some only require a verbal agreement. Needless to say, it must be true and there is no guarantee. Does it mean that signing an employment contract is foolproof? In fact, this is not the case. The employment relationship is formed when the employee provides services to the employer and the employer pays corresponding compensation. However, personal rights cannot be used as the subject of leasing. If such a leasing agreement is signed, it shall be deemed invalid according to law. If illegal facts and behaviors occur during the performance of the contract, all parties, including intermediaries, shall be liable. , will be subject to relevant penalties under civil laws, public security penalties, and criminal laws. It can be seen that the renter industry should bring it into the legal framework as soon as possible and build a platform for rules if the renter industry is allowed to do whatever it wants. , develops without restraint, and the social problems derived from it will emerge one after another.
The "pushed people" take desperate measures to make their parents happy, which is filial from an emotional point of view, but from a rational point of view. This kind of behavior is a kind of deception to parents, which harms the interests of parents. As everyone knows, the happiness of parents is temporary, but the harm is long-lasting.
Although the behavior of "renting a girlfriend" is not allowed. It is advocated, but the emotional problems of young people should attract the attention of society and families. In essence, the problem of "renting girlfriends" arises from the "forced tribes" who yearn for independence and freedom and parents with deep-rooted traditional ideas in the face of marriage. Collision. It is understandable that parents want their children to get married as soon as possible and have many people around to take care of them, but there is no need to push too hard. If you push too hard, the children will be afraid of coming back, which is not worth the loss! Children should also consider their parents more, communicate more with their elders, establish a correct view of marriage and love, and handle personal and family relationships well.
In short, "renting a girlfriend" to go home for the New Year is risky, and you need to be cautious when choosing a filial approach to your parents.