Read more books, make more friends and travel more.
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Throughout the ages, ancient and modern China and foreign countries have vast territory and vast history. It seems easy to know more about the world, but it is actually difficult. With the development of science and technology, a person can broaden his horizons by his own experience, but this experience is always limited and he can only read more books.
Zeng Guofan said that human temperament comes from nature and is difficult to change. Only reading can change slowly.
There is not much difference between people who love reading and those who don't, but when they grow up, their behavior will be very different. Being edified by books for a long time will eventually make a world of difference.
When many people talk about reading, a similar scene will happen: when they grow up, they forget the title and author of the book they have read, and the plot is not clear, but they are deeply moved and shocked by a certain detail and description. That kind of shock lasted for decades and affected their lives.
This is the meaning of reading, just like we have eaten a lot of things all our lives, and no one can remember what we have eaten since childhood. However, our bones and bodies are nourished by food from the past.
All carefully read books will melt into the soul, precipitate into wisdom, stay quietly in the depths of the soul, and as long as they are touched, generate will come out.
Some people will say that it is not uncommon to read thousands of books and know a lot of truth, but still have a hard time. Yes, reading may not bring us real material benefits, lead a clean and refreshing life and change our lives. But if you don't study, your life will become a blur.
Born as a man, as long as you have dreams, pursuits and struggles, and want to live more possibilities in life, you must study.
People who love reading are warm-hearted and willing to perceive the world; People who love reading have fun in life and will not give up thinking because of trivial reality.
Make more friends.
Unfortunately, there is no friend to talk to by candlelight. In addition to one or two confidants, life needs friends who can often share small fortunes. People who love to make friends are often grateful and feel that everyone comes for me and everything is born for me.
This is not the illusion of people who love to make friends. Under the circumstance of karma, we will meet all kinds of people, whether they are nobles who support us, people who often criticize and point out our shortcomings, or even small people who make us stumble in secret. They come into our lives and are destined to be people.
Be grateful to everyone you meet in your life, your relatives and friends who live together day and night; Classmates and colleagues who meet daily; Strangers passing by leave even a smile. It also includes those "enemies" who bring us troubles, troubles and even pain.
It is they who really influence our lives with the truth, goodness, beauty, falsehood, evil and ugliness in the world; They let us see more and richer human nature; It is they who help us grow in all directions and urge us to mature.
Facing those who come to us with love, we should repay them; In front of the person you want to love, you have to pay; Be grateful to those who support you; Forgive those who slander you.
Praise the people you admire and learn to accept other people's suggestions and criticisms; Understand people you don't understand, and try to communicate with people who don't understand you.
Making more friends doesn't mean inviting everyone you know into your life. Life is precious. Leave your time and energy to those you appreciate and care about, and to those who know you. Don't lose yourself in people who don't like you, and don't worry about things that are not worth it.
03 multi-person travel
Read thousands of books, take Wan Li Road, and travel is another kind of reading. The difference is that reading goes between the lines and traveling goes between the real world.
If possible, travel more. The road measured with your feet and the grass and trees touched with your fingers are the most valuable; Don't envy other people's opportunities, stop and go, and don't forget to enjoy your own scenery.
Only by looking more can we know more. During the journey, we will meet unexpected people and things, get to know ourselves and others better, gradually become open-minded, a better attitude comes quietly, and a larger life pattern is slowly unfolding.
Yes, life is not just the present, but also poetry and distance. The meaning of life is not only rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, but also poetry, painting, wine and tea. The Zen of life is everywhere, in books, on the road, in daily pecking and drinking, in every trouble.
You are not the only lucky person born with a golden key. Read more books, make more friends, travel more, keep learning and understanding, and improve your vision and pattern. Luck will come, and everyone will be fine.
About the author: Quiet and peaceful, warm eyes and warm words. Paper media author, multi-platform writer, whose works can be found in study times, Speech and Eloquence, Companion, etc. , as well as learning ability, People's Daily, Minsheng Weekly and other platforms.