First of all, I understand your situation and feelings. As a young man, I feel really troubled and tired in the face of relatives urging marriage and the pressure of my own life. However, I want to tell you, don't give up the opportunity to find love and happiness because of the difficulties and pressures now.

First of all, you are a young and promising person. Although there are some difficulties and challenges in life, they do not affect your beautiful life and future. For the matter of finding a partner, we can start from ourselves, improve our connotation and self-cultivation, cultivate a good personal image and personality, increase our self-confidence, keep learning and making progress, and open up a broader life path.

Secondly, you can try to expand your social circle through various channels and increase the chances of meeting new friends. Such as participating in social activities, interest groups, volunteer services, etc. Communicate and cooperate with like-minded people to support and help each other. You can also expand your social scope and find your favorite object through online platforms and blind date activities.

Finally, we should keep a positive attitude and not be influenced by relatives' urging marriage and external pressure. Marriage is a big event, and many factors need to be considered, so we can't act rashly. You have the right to choose your future, and you are also responsible for your life. As long as you keep firm belief and brave action, I believe you can find the right partner.