Many times we encounter situations where we are traveling with others. These people may happen to be walking together, or they may be hitchhiking together, or they may be "partners" who directly carpool. A lot of time in life is spent on the road. If the ride takes a long time and you can't exchange a few words with the person you're on the road with, embarrassment will inevitably occur. So, let's analyze and solve it next. Let’s talk about how you can find the same topic as yourself and the people you are passing by, so as to alleviate this irritating embarrassment.

First of all, if the journey is not long, then there is no need to chat too much with the people you are traveling with. Just talk about today’s weather, the destination you want to go to, and just deal with a few things. Just use the sentence, if you want to play with your mobile phone, then use your mobile phone. This will not appear rude to you, because everyone is a stranger. If it is too conventional, it will appear that something is wrong with you. On the other hand, you have to work hard to find such a small distance. The topic is really not worth writing about.

However, if the journey is a little longer, for example, if you are traveling together for more than ten hours, you can put down some of your posture and chat about topics that interest both parties. For example, I was on the high-speed rail once. I saw that my neighbor was reading a book called "Those Things in the Ming Dynasty", and reading historical books is also one of my hobbies, so we started to chat happily using this book as a starting point, from Zhu Yuanzhang to Li Zicheng , from Liu Bowen to Wei Zhongxian, from the Donglin Party to the Liaodong Iron Cavalry, we talked and laughed all the way, and we even left each other WeChat IDs when we parted. This is the benefit of having the same interests. When you meet someone who likes basically the same things as you, then you will definitely have a feeling of a close friend, and our job is to be the person who brings us along. Having this feeling will make your journey less boring.

Is this the end? Of course not. Sometimes you will find that the person you are traveling with is completely different from you. What should you do when you don’t have the same hobbies or topics? Also, if you want to travel together for several days, just It would be too dry to rely on one interest to support the entire topic. So at this time, when we are looking for ideas on the topic, we must take the other person as the starting point, that is, find a point that he is interested in, and then let him mark his own ideas. At this time, you need to be an excellent listener and "pretend" "Zuo" was very interested in his topic, which made him feel like he was being a teacher. In this way, no matter who you are, they will be very willing to chat with you. When you speak, you can tell them some hilarious things that happened around you. Do not brag and stay humble, so that others will feel that you are a good person. A very cultured person who is humorous and elegant in conversation.

In short, since we are on the road, we must find ways to leave good memories for ourselves. Why would we bother chatting with others, which can relieve our embarrassment and make more friends? Not for that?