I often wonder, what kind of man would want his wife to take care of the family at home, do housework, earn money outside and bear the burden of supporting the family? Now I think I know the answer. There is only one answer, and that is incompetent and selfish men.

My neighbor's daughter divorced six months ago. After the divorce, she lived a comfortable life alone. It can be said that her career is thriving. Last month, I just got promoted.

When I chatted with my neighbor again, I found that her daughter had been living a miserable life until her divorce. Because her ex-husband, not only has no stable job, but also has a particularly bad temper. He likes drinking very much. When he drinks too much, he breaks things and sometimes hits people.

Every time I think about these things, she feels uncomfortable. A daughter is her own daughter. Which mother is willing to give up her daughter to suffer such injustice? Fortunately, I am divorced now, otherwise I don't know how sad I am.

They never talk about marriage in front of her now. They just want her to come out on her own. When she adjusts her mind and starts a new love, the marriage may have a result.

02.

It turned out that before the divorce, the daughter was responsible for the daily expenses at home and went home to do housework after work. In other words, she studies both inside and outside, and her ex-husband is a "cutting shopkeeper". What's the point of marrying such a man?

If a man can't bear the responsibility of a family, it is not only the woman who suffers, but also her parents. As the saying goes, "beating a child hurts a mother's heart" is such a truth.

Every daughter's life after marriage is not good, and the most distressing thing is her parents.

At that time, before their divorce, the man asked her, "Can you not resign? What will happen to our daily expenses if you resign? My mother is in poor health and takes medicine every month. You don't know. "

Hehe, she sneered disdainfully and asked him, "I am responsible for the daily expenses at home, and you?" Have you earned a penny since we got married? It's my responsibility to support my family, so why should I marry you? "

Not to be outdone, he said loudly, "I'm starting a business, aren't I?" Can't you give me some time? "

She replied: "What do you mean by starting a business is drinking every day? I get drunk every day, and then I lose my temper and throw things as soon as I get home. I'm really fed up with this day of being scared every day! "

03.

With these words, she is going to pack up and go back to her parents' house, and then go through the divorce formalities, waiting for his signature. This marriage has done her best, and it's time to give up.

When I knew this, I felt sorry for the girl. At first, they were introduced and met on a blind date. Her ex-husband looks honest, but I didn't expect to be so "mixed up" in fact. Now, after divorce, it's a relief.

This incident also reminds some unmarried girls that marriage cannot be impulsive, and sometimes what you think of as "marrying love" is actually the most unreliable. Because of the man you like, he may not be able to give you a future. You have to look at his character and personality, and whether your three views are consistent, otherwise you won't get married again.

A man's sense of responsibility and responsibility is a man's best business card. If after he gets married, he can only make money from your job to maintain his life in you, then such a man may not get married.

In the future, your husband will tell you, "Wife, can you stop giving up?" I hope you can say "OK, let's get a divorce" to him smartly.

You know, after marriage, a woman has a job, which is to assume her responsibility for this family, not to let men eat, drink and be merry at home because of this. Raising a family is a matter for two people. If a man is not responsible, stop loss in time.