Offer a birch and ask for whipping ―― Humble and sincere apology.
During the Warring States period, there were seven great powers, namely, Qi, Chu, Yan, Han, Zhao, which were called "Seven Heroes of the Warring States" in history. Of these seven countries, Qin is the most powerful. Qin often bullies Zhao On one occasion, the Prince of Zhao sent Lin Xiangru, the servant of the minister, to the State of Qin to negotiate. When Lin Xiangru met the King of Qin, with his wit and courage, he won a lot of face for Zhao. The king of Qin saw that Zhao had such talents and dared not look down upon Zhao again. The prince of Zhao sees that Lin Xiangru is so capable. First named "doctor", then named Shang Qing (equivalent to the later prime minister). The prince of Zhao highly valued Lin Xiangru, so he was furious with General Zhao Lian Po. He thought: I worked hard for Zhao and earned as much money as Lin Xiangru, didn't I? Lin Xiangru with his mouth open, what's the great skill, status is higher than me! The more he thought about it, the more unconvinced he became. He said angrily, "If I run into Lin Xiangru, I'll embarrass him face to face and see what he can do to me!" Lian Po's words reached Lin Xiangru's ears. Lin Xiangru immediately ordered his men to meet Lian Po's men in the future, so they must make way and not quarrel with them. Later, he went out by car. As soon as I hear that Lian Po is ahead, let the coachman drive into the alley and wait for Lian Po to pass. People in Lian Po were even more carried away when they saw Shangqing let his master go like this. When they saw Lin Xiangru's people, they laughed at them. Lin Xiangru's men couldn't stand this anger, so they said to Lin Xiangru, "Your position is higher than that of General Lian. When he scolds you, you avoid him and let him go, and he will no longer take you seriously! We can't stand it like this. " Statue of Lin Xiangru
Lin Xiangru asked them calmly: "Compared with the king of Qin, who is better?" Everyone said, "Of course, the king of Qin is awesome." Lin Xiangru said, "Yes! I'm not afraid of the king of Qin, so am I afraid of even the general? You know, the state of Qin now dares not fight Zhao, because the domestic civil servants and military commanders are United. We are like two tigers. If two tigers fight, one of them will be injured or even killed, which gives a good opportunity to attack Zhao. Think about it, what matters is the country or the personal face? " [2] People in Lin Xiangru are very moved by this. When they see people in Lian Po, they are very cautious and always let them go. Lin Xiangru's remarks later reached the ears of Lian Po. Lian Po was extremely ashamed. He took off his sleeves, bared his shoulders, carried a thorn, and went straight to Lin Xiangru's house. Lin Xiangru hurriedly came out to meet Lian Po. Lian Po knelt down to Lin Xiangru, holding Vitex negundo in his hands, and asked Lin Xiangru to whip himself. Lin Xiangru threw Vitex negundo on the ground, hurriedly lifted Lian Po up with both hands, dressed him, and held his hand to let him sit down. Lin Xiangru and Lian Po became good friends from then on. These two men are skilled in writing, fighting for their country, and Qin is even more afraid to bully Zhao. "offer a humble apology" has become an idiom, meaning to apologize to others and admit one's mistakes.
Second, the historical story: offer a humble apology () ()
Biography of Lin Xiangru, Lian Po returned to Zhao.
Three 500-word ancient historical stories of China.
First, submit to humiliation.
Gou Jian (about 520 BC-465 BC), the king of Yue, surnamed Zhou, also known as Yukio Hatoyama and Zhuo Zhi, was a descendant of Yu Xia, the son of Yun Chang, the king of Yue, at the end of the Spring and Autumn Period. In 496, Gou Jian, King of Yue, ascended the throne. In the same year, he defeated Wu Shi in Li. Gou Jian, the King of Yue, was defeated by Wu Jun Fu Jiao in the third year (494 BC) and forced to make peace with Wu Huan. Three years later, he was released back to Vietnam. After returning home, he reused Fan Li and Wen Zi, and gradually restored the national strength of Yue.
In the 15th year of Gou Jian, the King of Yue (482 BC), Fu Cha, the King of Wu, mobilized his troops to attend the Huangchi Conference and appeared as an elite teacher to show his strength. Gou Jian, the King of Yue, seized the opportunity and led his troops to defeat Wu Shi. Fu Cha hastily formed an alliance with the State of Jin, and was defeated in Lien Chan with Gou Jian, so he had to make peace with Yue.
In the 19th year of Gou Jian, the King of Yue (478 BC), Gou Jian led an army to attack the State of Wu again, and defeated the main force of Wu Jun in the battle. In the 24th year of Gou Jian, the King of Yue (473 BC), the capital of Wu was breached, forcing Fu Cha to commit suicide, destroying the hegemony of Wu, crossing the Huai River with troops, gathering the princes of Qi, Song, Jin and Lu in Xuzhou (now south of Tengzhou, Shandong) and moving the capital to Langya, becoming the last overlord in the Spring and Autumn Period.
Second, refer to a deer as a horse.
It is said that Zhao Gao tried to seek power and usurp the throne. In order to test which ministers in the imperial court obeyed his wishes, he specially gave Qin Ershi a deer and said it was a horse. Qin Ershi didn't believe it, so Zhao Gao made excuses to ministers. The minister who dared not oppose Zhao Gaoyi said it was a horse, and the minister who dared to oppose Zhao Gaoyi said it was a deer.
Later, he said that he was a deer minister and was killed by Zhao Gao by various means. The story of calling a deer a horse has spread to this day, and people use this idiom to describe a person who confuses right and wrong and reverses black and white.
Third, besiege Wei to save Zhao.
In 354 BC, the Wei army surrounded Handan, the capital of Zhao. The two sides fought for more than a year, and Zhao was weak and Wei was tired. At this time, Qi responded to Zhao's call for help, and sent Tian Ji as the general and Sun Bin as the strategist, leading 80,000 troops to save Zhao. Where is the attack direction? At first, Tian Ji prepared to go straight to Handan. Sun Bin believes that to untie the tangled silk thread, you can't pull hard with your hands, and you can't directly participate in fighting with others. To send troops to clear up, we should avoid reality and get to the point.
He suggested to Tian Ji: "At this time, Wei's elite troops are concentrated in Handan, and the interior is empty. If you lead troops to storm Wei Jingliang, occupy its traffic arteries, attack its empty places, and drive straight into Wei Jingliang, you will definitely pacify Zhao to save yourself. " The Qi army took advantage of their fatigue and met them on their way home in the pre-selected combat area of Guiling. Wei Jun was defeated and the siege of Handan was solved.
Sun Bin's method of besieging Wei to save Zhao is a famous example in the history of China, which was listed as an important one of the 36 strategies by later military strategists. The method of encircling Wei to save Zhao, avoiding reality and avoiding emptiness, has been appreciated by military strategists in past dynasties and still has vitality today.
Fourth, the last battle
Han Xin was a military genius in the Chu-Han War. In October of the third year of Emperor Gaozu (204 BC), Han Xin led tens of thousands of newly recruited Han troops to cross Taihang Mountain and attack Zhao to the east. Into, concentrate 200000 troops, occupy the eastern foot of Taihang Mountain throat Jingxing mouth, ready to fight.
To the west of Jingxingkou, there is a narrow path about a hundred miles long, with mountains on both sides and narrow roads, which is the only place for Han Xin. Li Zuoche, Zhao Jun's counselor, made a plan: fight a frontal defense, send troops around the back to cut off Han Xin's grain transportation route, and trap Han Xin on the narrow road in Jingxing. Chen Yu didn't listen and said, "There are only a few thousand people in Han Xin, thousands of miles away. If we don't fight, won't the princes see the joke? "
After learning the news, Han Xin quickly led the Han army into the narrow road in Jingxing, and camped 30 miles away from the mouth of Jingxing. In the middle of the night, Han Xin sent two thousand Qingqi, each holding a flag of the Han army, to ambush the rear of Zhao's camp from a path. Han Xin warned: "When we are fighting, Zhao will be anxious to catch up with our army. You rushed into the camp of Zhao Jun, pulled out the flag of Zhao Jun, and erected the red flag of Han Jun. "
After eating some simple dry food, the rest of the Han army immediately headed for Jingxingkou. At Jingxingkou, the brigade crossed the water and lined up behind it. When Zhao Jun saw it from afar, they all laughed at Han Xin.
After dawn, Han Xin set up a general's flag and ceremonial, and led the people to leave Jingxing. Chen Yu led the whole army to rush out and capture Han Xin alive. Han Xin pretended to abandon the flag and fled back to the position by the river.
Zhao was ordered to attack the whole battalion, which was in line with the position of the Han army. Thanks to no way back, the Han army fought bravely for the first place. The two sides fought for a long time, but Zhao Jun couldn't win. At this time, Zhao wanted to go back to the camp, only to find that his camp was full of flags of the Han army, and the team was suddenly in chaos. Han Xin tried to fight back, Zhao was defeated and killed, and Zhao Wang was captured.
After the war, someone asked, "Sun Tzu's art of war says that fighting with the back of the mountain and fighting with the water. This time, we in last stand won. Why? " Han Xin said, "Isn't it also said in Sun Tzu's Art of War that' you will die after being trapped'? It's just that you didn't notice. "
Verb (short for verb) apologizes humbly.
After Mianchi Conference, Lin Xiangru made outstanding contributions to Zhao because of his hard work, and was named Shangqing, ranking above Lian Po.
Lian Po said, "I'm General Zhao, and I've made great contributions by attacking the city slightly, while Lin Xiangru is just eloquent and has made some contributions, but his position is above me. I'm ashamed to be a civilian, and I can't stand it under him." And threatened to "humiliate him when I see Xiang Ru."
Xiang Ru refused to see him after hearing about it. Every time I go to court, I often say that I am sick, and I don't want to compete with Lian Po for priority. Soon, Xiangru went out and saw Lian Po in the back alley of Handan City. He ordered the driver to drive into the road, leaving no room for Lin Xiangru, but Lin Xiangru turned his car around and avoided it.
So the men and women in Lin Xiangru came together and said bluntly, "We left our relatives to serve you because we admire your noble integrity. Now you are on the same side as Lian Po. You dare not avoid Mr. Lian. You are too scared. A mediocre person feels ashamed, let alone a leader!
We are worthless, please let us leave! Lin Xiangru resolutely kept them, saying, "Who do you think is stronger, General Lian or the King of Qin?" A: "Even the generals are not as good as the king of Qin." Xiang Ru said, "With the strength of the King of Qin, you dare to reprimand in court and humiliate the ministers. Although I am incompetent in Lin Xiangru, am I afraid of even the general?
But I thought that the powerful state of Qin dared not attack Handan City of Zhao, because I was here with General Lian. Now that the two tigers are competing, they cannot coexist. I am so patient, just to put the difficulties of the country ahead and personal grievances behind. "
Lin Xiangru's words reached the ears of Lian Po. Lian Po calmed down and thought about it, feeling that he had neglected the interests of the country in order to win a sigh of relief. This is very wrong. So, he took off his shirt, put on Vitex negundo, and came to the door of Lin Xiangru House to confess his sins. Lin Xiangru saw Lian Po come to offer a humble apology, and hurriedly came out to warmly welcome him. From then on, they became good friends and defended Zhao together.
Four apologies from historical stories _ _ _ _.
Lian Po and Lin Xiangru.
5. Continue to write 500 words of "Apologize with a humble apology".
General Lian Po was ashamed of what Lin Xiangru had said. Then he took off his robe, * * * to the waist, and strode to Lin Xiangru Palace on his back.
When he arrived at Lin Xiangru's door, he knelt down and Lin Xiangru hurried out to meet him.
Lian Po propped himself up on one foot, closed his eyes and clenched his fists. He said with shame, "Lord Lin, it was all my fault before." I am a clown, and you let me go again and again before, all for our own good, but also for Zhao and Zhao's people. But I didn't see it at all. I almost let Zhao Jin in. Please punish the adults. "
Hearing this, the Lin Xiangru hurriedly picked up Lian Po and smiled with relief. He said to Lian Po, "I'm glad that you can understand me. We are all from Zhao, so we should unite. I'm glad you can correct your mistake! We will be more United, help each other and understand each other in the future! We will be brothers from now on. Come and sit in the house! "
People nearby gave thumbs up and said, "We are so lucky to have such a general in the Zhao family and have such a harmonious relationship! With them, Zhao will be more and more prosperous! "
Since then, Sima Qian has written this story as General Hehe and compiled it into Historical Records. Use "the sum of generals" as a metaphor for the unity of civilian military commanders.
Six sources of historical stories: offer a humble apology
During the Warring States Period, Lian Po was a famous soldier of Zhao. He was honored as a senior official, and Lin Xiangru was awarded the title of doctor shortly after his successful return. Mianchi Qin met Zhao and safeguarded Zhao's dignity, so he was promoted to Shangqing, above Lian Po. Lian Po refused to accept this and threatened: "If I see him, I must humiliate him." When Lin Xiangru found out, he wouldn't meet Lian Po. Others think that Lin Xiangru is afraid of Lian Po, but Lian Po is proud of it. But Shang Xiangru said, "Where am I afraid of General Lian? But now the state of Qin is a little afraid of our state of Zhao, mainly because of me and General Lian. If he and I attack each other, it will only benefit Qin. The reason why I avoid General Lian is to focus on national affairs and put personal grievances aside! " When this word reached Lian Po's ears, Lian Po was very moved, so he went to Lin Xiangru's house to confess his sins, went shirtless and held a scepter. He said to Shang Xiangru in shame, "I'm such a fool. I didn't expect you to be so generous! " "Two people finally became friends who vowed to share life and death.
The story of apology comes from Biographies of Historical Records, Lian Po and Lin Xiangru, which tells the story of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru in Handan, the capital of Zhao State, also known as General Taiping. There is an alley on Cheng Chuan Street (Handan Road) in Handan City, which is a narrow lane for Lin Xiangru to avoid Lian Po. A stone tablet was also erected at the entrance of the alley to record the story of apology.
Meaning: negative: bearing; Jing: Vitex negundo. Carrying a crutch on his back, he pleaded guilty, pleaded guilty to the parties, described taking the initiative to admit his mistake and apologize, severely punished himself, and apologized to others.
From: "Historical Records Biography of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru": "Lian Po heard of it, naked, and apologized for visiting Lin Xiangru Gate." Example: I came to see my good brother today. Synonym of Shi Ming Nai 'an's The Water Margin: the antonym of blame and self-blame: the grammar of picking out the culprit: linkage; As predicate and attribute; Used to apologize. Negative: back, back. Jing is a deciduous shrub, four or five feet high, and its stem is hard, which can be used as a stick thorn. Vitex negundo is long and flexible, and can be used for weaving baskets, baskets, fences, etc. Confession: I made a mistake and asked for punishment and forgiveness. (carrying a scepter, expressing guilty plea and confessing to the parties. ) offer a humble apology: describe taking the initiative to apologize to others and severely punishing yourself.
Seven historical stories of offering a humble apology
Lin Xiangru is both ShangQing and Lian Po. I'm not happy. I want to insult you. Avoid each other. He said, "Qin is afraid of both of us and dares not send more troops to Zhao." If we fight for personal interests today, how can we live in peace? "I heard quite clearly that the meat was bare and the door was like a door to apologize. A chess piece is a friend at a loss.
The story after eight humble apologies, 500 words.
The story before and after offering a humble apology
This semester, we learned the story "A humble apology", but why is Lin Xiangru jealous of Lian Po? After class, I looked up the relevant information about this problem and finally understood the reason.
During the Warring States Period, Lin Xiangru of the State of Zhao returned to the State of Zhao intact with his wisdom and courage. He was appreciated and became a doctor.
A few years later, the king of Qin invited the king of Zhao to meet in Mianchi. Prince Zhao Can didn't notice. Go out of fear of danger. If you don't go, you look too timid again. At the suggestion of Lin Xiangru, the prince of Zhao decided to leave and let Lin Xiangru accompany him. Lin Xiangru asked General Lian Po and his troops to send them to the border to prepare for the resistance pool. The prince of Zhao went to Mianchi and met the king of Qin. Qin Wang asked Zhao Wang to play the piano. The prince of Zhao could not refuse, so he played a passage. The king of Qin immediately had it recorded that at the Mianchi meeting, the king of Zhao played the harp for the king of Qin. Seeing that the king of Qin insulted the king of Zhao, Lin Xiangru angrily walked up to the king of Qin and said, "Please slap the king of Zhao." The king of Qin refused. Lin Xiangru asked again, and the king of Qin refused. When Lin Xiangru saw this, he immediately changed his tune: "You are only five steps away from me now. If you don't agree, I will fight you! " The king of Qin was forced to knock at the door. Lin Xiangru also recorded that at Mianchi meeting, the king of Qin punched the prince of Zhao. The king of Qin knew that Lian Po was ready on the border and dared not do anything to the prince of Zhao. He didn't take advantage, so he had to let the prince of Zhao go back. This is the story of "Mianchi Meeting".
Lin Xiangru made contributions at Mianchi meeting, and the prince of Zhao named Lin Xiangru Shangqing, whose position was higher than that of Lian Po. Lian Po was very unconvinced after knowing it, and he had been having a hard time with Lin Xiangru. Later, moved by Lin Xiangru's tolerance, he took Vitex negundo to find him. So there was the story of "offering a humble apology".
Through these two stories, I can deeply feel Lin Xiangru's witty, brave and fearless personality charm and the spirit of righteously taking care of the overall situation. We should learn from Lin Xiangru, which will be useful to our motherland in the future.
Historical stories related to nine apologies.
In the thirty-sixth year of Zhou Nanwang (Renwu in 279 BC).
King Zhao and King Qin met in the rope pool. When they were very happy, the king of Qin invited the king of Zhao to play the piano, and the king of Zhao played the piano according to his words. Lin Xiangru also invited the king of Qin to dismiss from office, but the king of Qin refused. Xiang Ru said, "Within five steps, I can spill blood from my neck on you!" "The courtiers around the king of Qin wanted to kill Lin Xiangru, staring at each other with fear. The king of Qin had to beat him unhappily. Qin knows that he speaks the truth after drinking and never dares to take advantage of Zhao again. Zhao people also took precautions in advance, which made Qin dare not make a move. After Zhao Wang returned to China, Lin Xiangru was appointed as Shangqing, ranking above Lian Po.
Lian Po said discontentedly, "As the general of Zhao, I have the credit for attacking the city and pulling out the village. Lin Xiangru is just an inferior, ranking above me only because of his eloquence. I am really embarrassed and can't stand this tone! " He declared: "When I see Lin Xiangru, I must humiliate him!" When Lin Xiangru heard about it, he didn't want to see him. Every court, often goldbrick, don't argue with Lian Po. When I was away from home, I saw Lian Po's car coming from a distance, so I let my car get away. Lin Xiangru's public servants are ashamed. Lin Xiangru said to them, "Do you think that even the majesty of the general is comparable to that of the king of Qin?" The answer is "not so good." Lin Xiangru said, "Faced with the great power of the King of Qin, I dare to scold him in his court and humiliate his ministers. Although I can't, am I afraid of even the general? " ! I think: * * * The reason why Qin did not dare to invade Zhao was because I was with General Lian. If we fight for each other, we will get hurt. So I avoid it because I think about national interests first and then personal grievances! "Lian Po was very ashamed when he heard these words, so * * * came to Lin Xiangru's house to offer a humble apology, and the two became friends of life and death.