I saw two interesting stories in the newspaper supplement the other day: in America, a lady kept a beautiful parrot, but it had a strange cough, and its cough was thick and smelly. The hostess thought it was suffering from respiratory diseases, so she took it to the vet. The vet examined it carefully and found that it had no disease. The only problem is the hostess. Because she often smokes, she often coughs. This parrot has just learned its master's cough perfectly. Besides, in England, a young man complained to a psychologist that his mother was always wordy and annoying. The psychologist found that his mother was really wordy, but at the same time he found that she was not like this. She became wordy because her son never did what she only told her once or twice, and always asked her to remind her again and again. Over time, she became wordy.

Who has a problem with these two stories? Who should correct the deficiencies? Is it a parrot or a hostess who smokes? Does the mother always remind her son or does the young man not take his mother's words to heart? Rabelais, a French Renaissance writer, said: "Everyone is alive, and everyone has a scorpion around his neck: the faults and scandals of others are in front of him, and he can see clearly because he is always in front of himself; Behind his own mistakes and scandals; So I never watch or pay attention. " There is also a saying in the Bible: "Why do you see the thorn in your brother's eye, but you don't see the beam in your own eye?" The hostess and young people are people who can't see their own shortcomings. If they know how to reflect on themselves, they will not easily "rightfully" blame others.

Introspection is to examine one's thoughts and behaviors, make an evaluation, and correct one's mistakes. Mencius once said: "The benevolent is like a shot; The gunman is behind him; Send but miss; Those who don't complain about winning themselves, but ask for themselves. " Being in a kind position is like archery. If you miss it, don't blame people who are better than yourself, just look for reasons from yourself. Gardner, the most influential psychologist today, emphasizes that introspective intelligence is a very important kind of intelligence among multiple intelligences. Introspective and smart people can understand themselves, realize their inner emotions, intentions, motives, and the ability of self-discipline, self-knowledge and self-esteem, know their own advantages and disadvantages, and carefully plan their own lives.

However, many people lack the ability of self-examination. Why? First of all, because of "moral ignorance", the understanding of "right and wrong, good and evil, good and bad" is unclear, and it is impossible to distinguish whether it should be done or not; That thing should not be done and should not be done. For example, sometimes we say something harmless, but it makes others unhappy and even hurts others, but we don't know why others are unhappy and hurt.

Chapter 2: I'm rethinking my weekly diary recently. Somehow, I always feel that I hate someone. I am often praised by teachers, and I am very unhappy about it. I often stare at the sky alone. I thought to myself: Why did her grades and composition advance by leaps and bounds? I never understood.

Finally one day, I got the answer.

It was a Friday. At the end of the first class in the afternoon, the teacher asked me to come to the office.

When I arrived at the office, the teacher took out my unit 3 test paper and said, "This time I have regressed." I looked at the paper and got only 88 points. Almost all the rankings were deducted, and the composition was deducted by 4 points. The teacher said my composition was too old-fashioned and not original. She will give me some exercises after school.

After school, when I was about to leave the school, the teacher came over and told me whether to do the exercises in order now or on Monday.

I want to improve my grades quickly and say decisively, "Take it now!"

"That you have to wait for me to send the team back. You call the reception office and tell grandpa to go later. " I called and stood by the flower machine waiting for the teacher to come back.

After a while, the teacher came back and I followed her upstairs. In the stairwell, she said to me, "Do you think Yi's grades and composition have improved rapidly?"

I replied, "Yes."

"Do you know why she has made such rapid progress?"

I shook my head.

The teacher said seriously, "it's not that she is smarter than you, but that she is very serious." I'll show you something later, and you'll understand why she has made such rapid progress. "

When I entered the office, the teacher showed me the analysis of the instrument's test paper. Every question in her test paper analysis is clearly written, and the teacher asked me to show it to Teacher Shi. Teacher Shi said, "Wow! What neat handwriting and careful writing. You must also work hard and believe that our learning star will get better and better! "

Why do I feel that two teachers are acting? It seems that they deliberately aroused my thinking and made me work hard. Anyway, they are also good for me.

After Mr. Shi left, the teacher gave me a book "Optimal Design of Primary School Teaching Plans" and said, "This book has many exercises. You should do it in order, first with a pencil, think about it, and then write it with a ballpoint pen. "

Today, this scene gave me a lot of inspiration, and at the same time, I also knew the teacher's concern and easy seriousness. However, even if the teacher doesn't say anything, I will work hard, because how can I be willing to watch my position as a learning star be taken away for nothing? I will use my strength to get it back! I want to make progress slowly, which will be better. If I make such rapid progress at once, I may give up halfway, so I'd better take my time. Trust me, it will be better than the instrument!

Chapter 3: Reflect on your weekly diary, lift the dark clouds of the times and look into the depths of history. How many people fell in the "stormy waves of Wan Li", and how many people went down in history because of their courage to reflect on themselves. There is a famous temple in Delphi, Greece, with the inscription "Know yourself".

For example, Gou Jian, adhering to the concept of "endless life and introspection", worked hard to write a chapter that "more than 3,000 armor can swallow Wu"; Rousseau learned from a bitter experience and blamed his mistakes with repentance, which won people's respect. Edison, the great inventor, experienced more than 1000 failures before he succeeded in dispersing the darkness of the world with dazzling incandescent lamps. These great men, who are at the forefront of the times, tell us with their actions: In the face of adversity, only by having the courage to reflect on themselves can we turn over a new chapter in life of "One day, I will ride the wind and waves to make and set my cloudy sail straight and bridge the deep, deep sea".

I can't forget the figure who kept talking with Kan Kan, the dark figure with shining wisdom and light, and the sincere, diligent and meticulous figure-Obama. The first black president in American history, who would have thought that he used to be a marijuana smoker! Who would have thought that Obama, who was re-elected as the president of the United States for two times, was once a ruffian rogue! Obama's success stems from his courage to reflect on himself, repent, regain confidence and work hard. With his sincerity, diligence and meticulous enterprising spirit, he gradually became the first black president in American history. Obama's successful experience tells us that a person's success does not depend entirely on fate and talent. The key is whether he can reflect on himself when he encounters setbacks. Only by being brave in self-reflection can we change our destiny, realize our "dreams" and win glory.

Life tends to be perfect because of the courage to reflect on yourself. Of course, self-reflection is not the so-called moaning without illness. Because of gratitude, we reflect on ourselves; Because of responsibility, we reflect on ourselves; Because of dreams, we reflect on ourselves. Introspection is a mirror, which can clearly reflect our mistakes and shortcomings and give us a chance to correct them. However, some people in history refused to reflect on their mistakes because of stubbornness and pride, and paid a painful price. Li, the king of the Tang Dynasty, was arrogant and extravagant, and refused to reflect on his mistakes. In the end, he became a traitor and died. Just imagine, if he can reflect on himself bravely and continue the legend of "rejecting Qidan in the north and breaking Zhao Yan in the south", why should ZTE worry about hopeless plans?

Students, we are young poplars and the pillars of the future of the Chinese nation. We should have the courage to reflect on ourselves, so that we can truly realize our own shortcomings and plan our lives carefully. In introspection, we can learn the lessons of failure and try our best to correct them; Strive to create a great cause in introspection, so that each of us can become a "giant pillar" on the land of China and jointly support the Chinese dream of the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation.

Chapter IV: Self-examination and self-help: "I visit the body three times a day, and when I meet a good person, I think strangely. I will travel far away, but I will gradually meet a wise man who thinks strangely, and I will reflect without seeing him." If there is, I should change it without adding police. " In life, we will always encounter some complicated and controversial things, and we will always push our mistakes to each other. Even though I know I'm wrong, I don't want to admit it. We have formed this wrong habit. But think about it carefully, if everyone can reflect on themselves first and admit their mistakes, maybe there won't be so many disputes, right?

Everyone wants to succeed. In fact, every successful person has a common habit, that is, always learn to reflect on yourself first. It was because the minister risked his life to remonstrate that Chu Zhuangwang reflected on himself in time and made a blockbuster, eventually becoming one of the five tyrants. Edison failed more than 800 times when he invented the electric light. Every time he made a mistake, he constantly reflected on what he had done badly, and finally succeeded. These vivid examples always remind us to learn to reflect. Is it really important to reflect on yourself? It's like your sheepfold is broken, but you blame the wolf for not eating your sheep. If you were a wolf, would you not go? Self-reflection is actually another way of empathy.

"Three times a day to visit the body, see a good man, that is, think strange. I went far, far away, and I gradually got to know the sage Qi. When I saw a saint, I reflected on myself. If I saw it, I changed it and didn't add the police. " When we meet a saint, we should reflect on why we are not like him. Should I respect him? When we meet a wrong person, should we reflect on whether we have the same mistakes as him? The ancients understood this truth thousands of years ago, but with the shuttle of the times and the progress of science and technology, how did culture disappear? Are we not as good as the ancients again? This is actually something we should reflect on. A philosopher once said: "Self-esteem, consciousness and self-control can lead to the lofty realm of life." Life is full of introspection: what is the meaning of life? What's the point of doing sth? Small enough for me to steal this thing, right? I quarreled with someone, right? When you think everything clearly and realize who you really are, your life will enter a lofty realm.

Back to the original thinking: Why are there so many controversial and complicated things in this world? That's because most people haven't understood Xi Juan's sentence: "Only when you have suffered deeply can you understand the suffering of others, so you seldom reflect on yourself." Yes, everyone wants to get rid of their mistakes in the quarrel and win in the quarrel. How can it hurt? How can they reflect on themselves?

Being exposed by others is a failure, but exposing yourself is a victory.

Chapter five: I reflect on my weekly learning attitude. I am often praised for my seriousness. Why my grades are not as good as those of some people who are not serious about my study?

This is a question, and I must make it clear.

"I should be the latest classmate in the class to do homework until I go to bed?" I always think so when I hear the sound of twelve o'clock when I do my homework. I come home from school from six to twelve. Why is the homework so slow? I have drawn several points through my own observation:

1, fuck. In fact, on the surface, my homework was finished from six to twelve, but what about the actual time? Eat for ten minutes, rest and play for ten minutes after dinner. In addition, sometimes I get distracted when I do my homework. After writing for less than a while, I did something else. Homework has been delayed for a long time, and it also takes up my precious rest time. The Chinese teacher once said that I can't calm down when I do reading comprehension questions. Like a big fish. Very dry. If I can't write it, I will find the answer. Just copy it down and I'll be done. I don't know much about this topic. When I encounter problems, I will be very anxious.

2, thick. When doing homework, I always don't ask for a solution, which is the psychology of completing the task in order to complete the task. Faced with knowledge points, they will not seriously consolidate and use their memories; In the face of difficulties, listen to the general. I won't consider it in detail. The English teacher once said that the biggest shortcoming of students in our class is carelessness. The teacher mentioned every question on the test paper. Even if you don't focus on it, the other knowledge you talked about is more or less involved, but the students' conscious ability is not very good.

3. Lazy. I always want to finish my homework quickly, and then I can write something else or watch TV for a while, and my mind is not very focused on my homework. Although this sloppy taste has improved the quality of my homework, my income is really small. The math teacher once said that sometimes the quality of my homework is considerable, but the results in every exam are not satisfactory. This is an important part of my thinking and efforts.

As the saying goes, "You look at other people's shortcomings, others look at yours", and my own observation is not comprehensive. To this end, I specially asked several students, which are summarized as follows:

1, arrogant. That's what the teacher said. My grades are not outstanding. But this proud heart is one of the best. When you meet a classmate's problem, you always laugh it off and then help solve it. This makes my classmates reluctant to communicate with me. It hinders the communication between friends, and few friends can really help each other.

2. annoying. When dealing with small things. I get emotional. A moment of impulse and confusion brought bad returns. This made some students gradually alienate me.

3. old. My views on some issues and the way I handle things are a bit old-fashioned. Individuals will gradually improve, and students with new ways of thinking every day are not suitable for thinking, limiting and managing.

Once the problem is solved, it is solved. China Composition Network Author: Wei Wei