When it comes to monarchs who are more afraid of their wives in history, we can't help but talk about Emperor Wendi of Sui Dynasty. Sui Wendi 17 years old married Dugu Jialuo, the daughter of a noble family Dugu Xin, at the age of 14 years old. After marriage, the two have deep feelings, and the lonely man is resolute, wise and decisive. On some important issues, her attitude directly influenced the decision-making of Emperor Wen of Sui Dynasty. After Emperor Wendi of Sui Dynasty established the Sui Dynasty, he didn't have many beautiful women like other monarchs, and only the lonely queen spoiled the harem. Once Emperor Wendi of Sui Dynasty was very lucky to see the ladies-in-waiting Wei Chi's family in the palace. When the Queen Dugu found out, she immediately killed the Weichi family. Yang Jian escaped from the palace and was chased back by the minister, but Emperor Wendi of Sui did not blame Queen Dugu. The relationship between Emperor Wendi of Sui Dynasty and Queen Dugu is very rare in history.
Fang Lingxuan, a famous figure in the Tang Dynasty, was also famous for being afraid of his wife. Once Fang boasted that he was not afraid of his wife after drinking and gave him two concubines, but these two concubines were beaten out by Fang's wife Lu as soon as they got home. In order to destroy Lu's prestige, Li Shimin flew into a rage and let Lu choose between an altar of poisoned wine and accepting two concubines. Unexpectedly, the strong-willed Lushi took the poisoned wine and gulped it down. It turns out that this poisoned wine is just one. Is Li Shimin deliberately scare her, not only didn't scare her, but her strong-willed character let Li Shimin care about, also spread a word called "jealousy" to future generations, specifically refers to women's jealousy.
Some generals are afraid of their wives, and the most famous one is Qi Jiguang, a famous anti-Japanese soldier. Qi Jiguang frightened the enemy on the battlefield. When he got home, he was a little scared in front of his wife Wang. His wife is a tiger girl with a strong personality. Because his wife was too fierce, Qi Jiguang was too scared to go home and lived in a military camp. His subordinates advised him that it was better to take his wife to the military camp and let the soldiers be brave enough to scare her and kill her down a peg or two. I got up the courage to let my wife go to the barracks. My wife saw a group of mighty soldiers with swords in their hands, and she snapped at Qi Jiguang: "What do you want me to do!" Qi Jiguang suddenly knelt on the ground and said, "Come to the military parade!" His men looked at each other when they saw this scene, in distress situation.
Some people say that there are no men who are afraid of their wives, only men who love their wives, whether they are Emperor Wen of Sui, Fang Lingxuan or Qi Jiguang. Behind the hen-pecked wife is respect and deep feelings for her, and she would rather be patient than hurt in front of her. There are many anecdotes like these three men who are afraid of their wives, and they are still talked about by people today.