Ancient women had a lot to learn. Starting from Cai Hu's Women's Education and Ban Zhao's Women's Training, women should learn their own virtues and social relations. However, as far as style is concerned, the folk customs in the Han and Tang dynasties are still relatively open and there are not so many restrictions. However, aristocratic families are not only women, but also men and women who require politeness and moderation.

However, in the Song Dynasty, Neo-Confucianism of Cheng and Zhu prevailed and gradually began to distort Neo-Confucianism. Including women without talent is virtue, not leaving the boudoir, not seeing strangers, three inches of golden lotus and so on.

Generally speaking, in ancient times, the low social status of women was due to the strength of men, so the obvious weakness of women and the low social status also made women always feel inferior in front of men, which made people feel more ladylike.