Zheng Bo defeated Duan in Yan.
During the Spring and Autumn Period, the monarch of Zheng was Wu Jiang, and his wife was Wu Jiang. Wujiang has two sons. The birth of her eldest son, Zhuang Gong, frightened her, so she hated Zhuang Gong very much. Later, the youngest son, Uncle Duan, was born smoothly and was loved by his mother.
Wujiang has repeatedly asked uncle Zheng Wugong to be a prince, but all of them were rejected. Later, Zheng Wugong died and Zhuang Gong succeeded to the throne. Soon, Wu Jiang designed a piece of fief that Zhuang Gong gave to Gong Shu. Ministers have written to Zhuang Gong, saying that Jingyi is too important to be given to an uncle. Zhuang Gong said that his mother begged him, and he couldn't help it.
Later, under the love of mother, uncle Duan became more and more lawless, and the land around Jingyi was under his own jurisdiction. His power is growing, and his territory occupies almost half of Zheng. Finally, he and his mother Wujiang cooperated with each other and decided to rebel.
In fact, all this is in Zhuang Gong's plan, as Yuan Hua said. Before a person is destroyed, he must be inflated. ? It is this routine that Zhuang Gong uses, and he is always ready for the day when his brother revolts.
Zhuanggong immediately sent troops to attack Jingyi, and Jingyi people betrayed Gongshu section in succession, so they fled to Yancheng, where they were defeated by Zhuanggong's army. Finally, he had to go into exile and die in other countries.
Wujiang is the originator of eccentricity. Her callousness killed her youngest son. What's wrong with her? After Gong Shuduan fled after the defeat, Zheng Zhuanggong swore to her mother. It's better to be buried and not meet. ?
The history book also said that after more than a year, Zheng Zhuanggong regretted it and began to miss his mother. At the suggestion of officials, he dug a tunnel to see his mother and restore normal mother-child relationship.
But some people say that she died of depression shortly after losing her youngest son. In a word, no matter what the result is, it is already a punishment for her, and she will never see her youngest son again.
Dou Taihou is partial to Liu Wu.
There are many mothers like Wujiang. During the Western Han Dynasty, Dou, the empress of Emperor China, preferred her youngest son. When Liu Heng was alive, he repeatedly suggested that Liu Wu should become a prince, but he didn't get the consent.
And after Emperor Liu Qi succeeded to the throne, Dou Taihou repeatedly asked Liu Qi to pass on the throne to his younger brother. You know, Liu Qi had many sons at that time, and there was no shortage of heirs. Dou Taihou also made such unreasonable demands, which embarrassed Liu Qi.
What is Liu Qi's life like at this time? As the king of a country, on the one hand, he often listens to his mother's unreasonable troubles, on the other hand, he is afraid of his brother's rebellion. Even if his brother wanted to go to Beijing, he was afraid, so he didn't understand why his mother tortured his son so much.
After the ministers headed by Yuan Ang knew this, they all wrote to dissuade them. Liu Wu held a grudge against Yuan Ang and others and sent someone to assassinate them.
Liu Qi was very angry when he found out. This little brother has done everything for himself! Later, although he did not cure his brother's sin, he began to alienate and resent him.
Finally, Liu Wu failed to succeed to the throne and died of illness. Liu Qi's treatment of his mother Dou Taihou is not as good as before. Of course Liu Qi doesn't understand: Why don't you love me when I'm so good? ?
Jindian alliance
So is Song Taizu Zhao Kuangyin's mother. Zhao Kuangyin fought in the north and made many achievements. The general trend is that he is made emperor. Originally, it went well. I didn't expect his mother to let him pass the throne to his younger brother Zhao Guangyi before she died. To reassure her, he had to agree and do it? Golden Chamber Alliance? .
Then one night, he told his brother Zhao Guangyi to drink and stay in the palace. The next morning, Zhao Kuangyin died suddenly and strangely, and Zhao Guangyi succeeded to the throne. There are many theories about the cause of Zhao Kuangyin's death, but the biggest beneficiary of this incident is Zhao Guangyi, who is probably the murderer.
Probably because of Zhao's mother's persistence, the two brothers ate each other.
De Fei insisted that Yongzheng usurped the throne.
So did Wu Yashi, the concubine of Emperor Kangxi of the Qing Dynasty. Her son Yin Zhen, the fourth brother, was brought up by Empress Xiao Yiren at an early age, so Wu Yashi only likes her other son, the fourteenth brother Yin Chan, and looks forward to his succession.
Finally, Yongzheng succeeded to the throne, and Wu Yashi insisted on usurping the throne. He refused to acknowledge the identity of the queen mother, and obviously didn't want to be Yongzheng's mother. She died not long after, and then Yin Gui was banned by Yongzheng.
Not only in China, but also abroad.
The battle of generals in edo period
During the Edo period in Japan, Asai, the wife of the second generation general Tokugawa Hideyoshi, was also such a mother. After she gave birth to her eldest son, she was forced to be raised by a wet nurse, so she hated her eldest son from love.
After giving birth to his second son, Zhong Chang insisted on keeping him with him, and later hoped that Zhong Chang would become a general. Fortunately, Tokugawa Ieyasu tried his best to stabilize Guang Jia's position, which dashed Zhong Chang's hope of becoming a general.
When the second son Zhong grew up, his career was not smooth, which made Ajiang full of distress and melancholy in his later years. Because of the battle for the position of general and the unfair treatment of mother, the two brothers have been in hot water.
After his mother's death, Zhong Chang did not know how to converge and repeatedly made absurd things. Finally, Guang Jia was fed up. First, he ordered Zhong Chang to be imprisoned, and then he was exiled many times. Finally, Zhong Chang was driven crazy, and Guang Jia could only order him to commit suicide by caesarean section.
Weird families don't win. These mothers prefer their young sons, and the young sons who grew up in doting have a bleak ending. Will Zhao Guangyi still be emperor? Candle shadow axe sound? Will accompany him for life and make him unstable.
These mothers ignore their eldest son's feelings, and some even resent his eldest son, wishing that his eldest son had not come into this world. This has a terrible impact on children and will affect their lives.
What can children do wrong? Such resentment can only make children feel at a loss, doubt their existence and develop a gloomy character.
Zheng Zhuanggong, Liu Qi, Yongzheng, and Tokugawa Guang Jia were all cold and resolute, fickle and ungrateful, and they were deeply shrewd and swayed by considerations of gain and loss. Behind the formation of their complex and extreme personalities, they are inseparable from family education. They didn't get the warmth of their mother since childhood, so it is easy for them to feel inferior and withdrawn.
The author has never understood why it is his own child. Weird? To this extent. Mothers can be kind to their sons, and brothers and friends can respect their brothers. If these mothers can have a bowl of water, the fate of themselves and their sons will be different.