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I'm not married. Can I be a bridesmaid?
First of all, the history of bridesmaids

At the beginning of China's history, there was no such thing as a bridesmaid. The bridesmaids are from Europe. Legend has it that kids often rob brides at weddings held in continental Europe. In order to prevent the Japanese from robbing the bride, Europeans came up with a way to make several girls dress up as brides. So the little devil can't tell who the real bride is, and there is no way to steal the bride. Second, you don't have a wedding if you get a license. Some places think that you don't get married if you only get a marriage certificate. If it's not a real wedding, you can be a bridesmaid, but it's best not to be in the same month as your own wedding, depending on the customs of the couple. There are also many unconventional places that don't pay much attention to these things. Even if you have children, you can be the best man and maid of honor. In ancient China, bridesmaids had to be married women, and there were many other requirements. For example, bridesmaids must be young and beautiful, the same age as the bride, have a son and get married for the first time. So you can be a bridesmaid. Because such a woman was called "beauty" in ancient times, representing perfection. Third, we can't take it for granted. In modern times, marriage customs in many places think that certified women can't be bridesmaids, because it will wash away the luck of the bride and groom. However, there are still some areas that follow the past customs and do not pay attention to whether women have obtained certificates. With the development of social science, more and more people are no longer superstitious and don't care much about whether the witness can become a bridesmaid. 4. The criterion for choosing bridesmaids is 1. The bridesmaid should be as tall as the bride. If the difference is too big, it will attract the attention of the guests, knowing that the bride is the highlight of the wedding.

The behavior of bridesmaids also reflects the cultural quality of the bride and groom, because birds of a feather flock together. 3, bridesmaids must be outgoing and cheerful, too shy bridesmaids may not be able to stand up. 4. If you choose multiple bridesmaids, you need to pay attention to the relationship between bridesmaids. If the two people don't get along well at the wedding, there may be embarrassment. V. Duties of bridesmaids

1, when the groom goes to pick up the bride, be prepared to block the door so that it is not easy for the groom to pick up the bride, but don't go too far! 2. When the bride and groom enter the venue, the bridesmaids and groomsmen should follow the couple, protect the bride, and pay attention to forming a vacuum zone in the area where the bride and groom are located. If the bride and groom don't care whether the bridesmaid gets the certificate or not, then being a bridesmaid can help the bride complete the wedding. As the bride and groom, don't forget to give gifts to the bridesmaids after the wedding.