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Why are many Japanese girls unwilling to marry China men?
Why are many Japanese girls unwilling to marry China men?

Japanese girls don't like China boys who lack a sense of humor. A friend of mine who is studying in Japan once told me why all the boys in China lack a sense of humor and keep a calm face every day. I smiled and said nothing. In fact, the pressure faced by boys in China may be beyond her comprehension. They have to face not only rising housing prices, but also pressures such as marriage, pension and work. How can they laugh in the face of a mountain of pressure and burden? What about a sense of humor? In Japan, because of the high economic level and good social welfare, they have less pressure in all aspects. Although there are some workaholics, the number is small after all. Most Japanese young people, especially Japanese men, are relatively optimistic and humorous, so it is easier to win the favor of beautiful women.

Personal feelings have a greater influence on the choice of young Japanese girls. Due to the different social environment and educational methods, most Japanese girls are gentle and considerate, and like to live a stable and plain life. China, thousands of miles away, is relatively far away from them, so they are more keen to form a family with their own people and seldom get married in China. In addition, because Japanese girls don't know enough about China, they are afraid of marrying China far away, which also affects their choices to some extent.

China people also exposed some problems in Japan, which affected Japanese girls' cognition of China. Because most Japanese in China mainly export labor services, their academic qualifications and comprehensive quality are relatively weak. In addition, with the increasing number of tourists visiting China in recent years, various uncivilized behaviors have been exposed one after another, which has weakened the impression of Japanese girls on Japanese boys to some extent, resulting in fewer and fewer Japanese girls marrying in China.

Finally, Bian Xiao suggested that Japanese girls are beautiful, but China girls are not bad. Don't you think so?

Japan is in a social state where men are superior to women. Once married, women basically don't go out to work, and they are tutoring their children. Men work hard outside and basically don't do housework after returning home. It can be said that Japanese women are very virtuous after marriage. But why don't most Japanese girls want to marry China men?

According to the survey data of a Japanese media, among China men in Japan, 73% want to be Japanese women, China 16%, stateless people 1 1%, and China, 35% want to be Japanese men when they get married in China (276 people voted effectively). But in fact, there are not many Japanese girls who marry China men, only a few hundred pairs.

What are the reasons why Japanese girls don't want to marry China men? The following factors make Japanese girls less willing to marry China men:

1) China men are not very good at dressing up.

How does the face look? It is hard to change! But not paying attention to the image and not knowing how to dress up is a very serious problem! Indeed, in China's major cities, men's hair styles are similar, and there are few personal characteristics. Compared with Japanese boys, the gap is too big!

2) China men are not humorous enough.

I can't help it. Western-style humor is based on western culture, but China people lack it in thousands of years of history and culture. At present, China people have many things to consider, such as making money, managing money, working, family, house and so on. And it's hard to make each other happy under pressure!

3) China men lack grace and temperament.

It's a pity, because it does make sense. There are too many bad habits, such as spitting, jumping in line, swearing, being loud and so on. Not to mention that Japanese women can't accept it, and they also dislike China women, but men just can't change it!

I have a Japanese girlfriend who married a Shanghainese. . Feelings know no boundaries.

According to my personal understanding, most of Japan is a typical male master and female master. Women don't have to worry about things outside, but men have to work to support their families. But in China, men in China want to marry Japanese women because they care about their families and like being housewives. Japanese women may not want to get married in China, because in Japan, they just want to take care of their families, but in China, they have to go to work, and they are very tired.

Japanese women simply look down on China men. In the eyes of Japanese women, China men are inferior to them. Just as we women in China look down on men in North Korea or Vietnam. Essentially, we look down on them. They can't marry in the past, unless the man is a local tyrant, especially rich, and he will barely marry for money, and so will Japanese women.

Ironically, many domestic film and television works now always like to get a Japanese woman to fall in love with a China man, and they are so dead set that they can even give up their lives. It can be seen that those YY women fantasize about how serious the psychology of Japanese women is, just like the ancient fairy crying and saying that she wants to marry a scholar. Serious YY psychology, in fact, think carefully about why others want to get married.

In fact, Japanese women have such a YY mentality, which is related to the past history. After all, the Japanese invaded China in the eight-year anti-Japanese war. Although Japan was finally defeated and driven out of China, China did not enjoy what the winner should enjoy and did not take advantage of the Japanese. But fed up with the humiliation of Japanese aggression at that time. For the sake of psychological balance, everyone is obsessed with Japanese women, trying to find the sense of superiority lost in Japanese women and compensate for the humiliation of being hanged by the other side. In particular, Japanese women are more obedient at home and easy to satisfy men's self-esteem.

Another important point is that Japan is a developed country, while China is a developing country. Japanese people have more money and a richer life than China people. And everyone has bad habits, and poor men dream of playing with rich women.

Personal views, mistakes, I hope you will correct me.