After reading a dream of red mansions, I felt a little sad. Suddenly I felt that what Qin said to Xifeng was really reasonable: "The full moon is a loss, and the water is full." Nothing in the world can be "safe forever". Just like this dynasty, it always goes from the early stage to the peak and then to the decline. Since the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, Qin Shihuang has unified the six countries of Han, Three Kingdoms, Jin, Northern and Southern Dynasties and Sui. The same is true of the little things around us. There are always smooth and dark periods in life, so life gives people a feeling of full flavor ... Some people often feel that life is miserable, but without it, how can they feel the happiness when success comes? If a dude only knows how to have fun until he dies, he will regret it before he dies. "Life is short, and I still have nothing to do." . The decline of my family is not a bad thing. Before I die, I can at least say, "Because I have lived such a lonely life, my life has not been in vain."

Speaking of mediocrity, I'm dead in my life. You have to ask, fame and fortune. I remember the "good song" written by Yin Shi at the first time. "Everyone knows that immortals are good, and fame cannot be forgotten; Where will the past and present be? A pile of grass on the wasteland is missing. Everyone knows that immortals are good, but gold and silver can't forget them; In the end, I only hate getting together, but I close my eyes for a long time. ..... "Very serious, just like being famous. If you don't get fame, you don't have to die. You have to die in the end. In the next life, who cares if you are Qin Shihuang or Han Wudi? Not to mention that others "ask whether ancient and modern leaders can still exist?" Just an empty name and respect from future generations. "You're welcome, respect, from ancient times to the present, those famous corrupt officials and treacherous court officials, Lv Buwei, Qin Gui, Wu Sangui, Ao Bai ... are also historic masterpieces. In fact, their intelligence, courage and courage of not fearing fate also have some merits. Fate arranged for them to be cruel after all. The death brought cheers from heaven and earth, and people were scolded after death. This is their sorrow, and it is also the sorrow of that society. Is this the standard of good and evil?

In fact, the standards of justice and evil are still very vague. I can say, "everyone has their own ideas, so I can only say that they have established an unscientific outlook on life." What they did is not necessarily as shameful as we thought. Maybe they are like Chu Zhuangwang, addicted to debauchery for three years, with ulterior motives. Maybe we just let history blind us. Although the possibility is extremely small, this idea cannot be ruled out. After all, these are all things of the past, and there is no way to verify them. ...

I really appreciate their fearlessness to God and destiny. Even in today's society, who can really be dissatisfied with the arrangement of fate and challenge it? Think about the society, most people still hope that saints and immortals will appear and rescue them from the crisis, which seems to be less than these corrupt officials and treacherous officials.

So what did these corrupt officials and traitors do wrong? Where is the failure? -I think so. I haven't thought long enough. Like Lv Buwei, what if he gets the throne? Maybe I will feel more empty and eventually die. "It's ridiculous. In the end, I was making wedding dresses for other girls! "

So don't do anything, after all, you are still making wedding dresses for others.

Actually, you can't think so. In this life, many things are helpless. Personally, I think a person's life can be summed up in three words: "alive." How can you live without doing anything? Everything comes at a price. You study and find a good job. You work for the money you need to live. Money makes people live well, and you can't live without it. It suddenly occurred to me that some people think that the former is dirty or dirty. Why use it? Even if it is dirty, why do you need to live on it? I don't think money is dirty. Money is only an object, and people who use it are unbearable, so it is shameful. "Fame and fortune" is just a means of exchanging money. In life, as long as you make money, you want to live. Corruption means taking for yourself what others should pay for. There is nothing wrong with living a better life in a proper way. Even if it looks luxurious in the eyes of others, so what? This is bought at a price, earned after paying, and earned bit by bit. This is to make yourself more comfortable, and luxury is voluntary. No problem. So in order to survive, we must make money. If you always want to make wedding clothes for others, don't live at all. After all, only a few people can enjoy the life who sees through the world of mortals. Since there are many things you can't let go, don't let go and waste your time. "Saints" also need the lining of "mortals".

I have a lot of dissatisfaction with the ending of A Dream of Red Mansions, but someone said to me, "Since you are dissatisfied, Lin Daiyu finally died with regret and Jia Baoyu became a monk, what do you think is the perfect ending?" Indeed, I am very dissatisfied with each other's death. The other party is also a rebellious character, who just wants to show his talents all day, which violates the old saying that "a daughter without talent is a virtue". There is no doubt about each other's talents in the article. I really admire her and her rebellion. But why can't she rebel to the end? Grandmother Jia has always loved her, especially Baoyu. They want to get married, but Jia Mu doesn't necessarily object. Instead of fighting for it, she looked for trouble and was so angry. Come to think of it, she is always suspicious, and even if she marries Baoyu, she will inevitably get angry. It's not like Feng can drown his sorrows in wine. How can she have such a mouth with Jia Mu? Her strength is so meager that she is not as popular as Baochai in Jia's family after all. Baochai is a smooth and likable person. Finally, she couldn't get rid of her parents' instructions and married Baoyu. In the end, she lived alone, which made people feel a little sorry. "Jin Chai was buried in the snow." Except Baoyu, he finally saw through the world of mortals and became a monk. Is becoming a monk really the best ending? If so, the world will become a monk. My idea is too extreme. "If you die, I will become a monk." It indicates all this, as if everything is fixed and cannot be changed. What I am dissatisfied with is that Bao and Dai still can't escape the bondage of fate. The man said to me again, "Baoyu, you didn't become a monk for Daiyu. What can Baoyu do without becoming a monk? Go after fame and gain? " Yes, in terms of fineness, this is the best ending for Baoyu. He has lost his fame and fortune, which means nothing to him. Seek fame and gain, let history repeat itself, and watch your descendants perform this Dream of Red Mansions again? He doesn't seem to be free from the bondage of fate, but fate can no longer bind him. He became a monk not for each other, but for himself. Different from the world, he is carefree and sees through the world of mortals. The man also said to me: "There are two kinds of monks, one is to escape and the other is to face." What I want to escape is "seeing the world of mortals wrong", but what I face is really "seeing through the world of mortals".

Now I find that the biggest feeling after reading a dream of red mansions is not emptiness or loss, but unprecedented peace and peace of mind. I deeply realized the feeling of "inner peace".

Respondent: 1 17.90.78. * 2009-7-27 17: 32.

A Dream of Red Mansions is a tragedy with a smile. A Dream of Red Mansions not only describes the life of three generations of a feudal aristocratic family from glory to decline, but also boldly accuses the feudal aristocratic class of its shamelessness and depravity, pointing out their hypocrisy, fraud, greed, decay and sin. It not only points out the inevitable collapse and death of this family, but also implies the inevitable collapse and death of the class and society to which this family belongs. The heroes created and loved by Cao Xueqin's brushwork are two ministers and traitors who dare to judge the dying feudal aristocracy; Those who sympathize and mourn are the victims under the feudal system; What is criticized and denied is the hypocritical morality and unreasonable social system in feudal society. On the one hand, it was the former wood and stone alliance, on the other hand, it was a golden wedding. On the one hand, it is the aura of fame and fortune that feudal society must pursue, on the other hand, it is a fascinating free body. A Dream of Red Mansions written by Cao Xueqin shows us this silent contest. The tragic love story of Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu condensed all the smoke in this contest. "One is Xianpa in Yuen Long, and the other is flawless jade." The pursuit of quality is clean and neat. "In the face of all kinds of persecution and indifference under feudal ethics, even at the cost of life, the pursuit of quality and purity has never given up. While lamenting the love tragedy between Jia and Lin, we can see an important factor that caused the tragedy: Lin Daiyu's lofty personality was incompatible with the secular world at that time and could not be "integrated" with society. Her inferiority complex is the embodiment of her self-esteem and the beginning of her tragedy.

In A Dream of Red Mansions, she buries flowers, which is the focus of her personality. Her inferiority, self-esteem and self-pity are fully revealed in her "mourning poems": "Flowers wither, flowers fly all over the sky, and the fragrance dies. Who has pity for the fragrance?" "Three hundred and sixty days a year, wind knives and frost swords are pressed against each other, bright and bright, and it is hard to find a wandering. Flowers bloom easily, but they fall hard to find. I am worried about burying people in front of the steps, stealing flowers and crying alone, and spilling blood on the branches. " "May Nong have wings this day and fly to the end of the day with flowers. The day is over! Where is Xiangshan? Without a trick, I hid my love with a pure land. It's better to be clean than trapped in a ditch. I am going to die and be buried, but I don't know when Nong will die. The man who buried the flowers is laughing today, but who did he know when he buried them? Let's see the residual flowers of spring gradually falling, which is the time when beauty dies of old age. If you don't mourn for me, I don't know that flowers will fall and people will die. "

A secular person can't understand her thoughts. "I am dead and buried, but when will I die?" The man who buried the flowers is laughing today. Who did he know when he buried them? "In the face of falling flowers, she thought of the scene after her death, and she couldn't let go and shed tears. In front of feudal ethics, her inferiority aroused her self-esteem. When Baoyu was beaten, it was difficult for a clever woman to send Dan medicine to Xue Baochai, who had no rice to cook, and she also advised Baoyu to change his ways with admonition. As a supporter of Baoyu, a rebel of feudal ethics, Lin Daiyu, who is kind and aloof, just cried blindly, tears like peaches. Her crying is not weak. She sincerely supported Baoyu with her unique emotional experience of crying, and silently opposed feudal ethics. Therefore, it is only recently that I have a heart and a favorite.

"It's true when it's fake, it's really fake, and there's no way." The fake is true, which makes people wonder everything in A Dream of Red Mansions. As a soul figure, Lin Daiyu is different from ordinary people. She is her, a bunch of lofty, aloof and narcissistic empty valleys. Lin Daiyu's inferiority complex was given by fate, and she also wrote about her fate.