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Suddenly someone slapped you in the face. What should you do?
When I was a child, I read story clubs. It is said that there was an old mother in ancient times who loved her children very much. After studying hard for ten years, she finally came to be the number one scholar. Before taking office, she killed her old mother and rewarded her children with stew. As a result, the champion died early the next morning, so the comedy suddenly turned into a tragedy, leaving a painful lesson of "arsenic on the top of the head for ten years". I was speechless and couldn't eat the chicken neck at once.

When I was reading biographies of heroes in junior high school, I often wondered why Li Guang had made such a great contribution, but he couldn't seal it, so that the ancient poem "Li Guang can't seal it" has been passed down to this day. Sometimes I often burst into tears and felt that there must be grievances.

A few years ago, all kinds of chicken soup texts suddenly became popular, and all kinds of propaganda "I am the master of my life." It is nothing more than combining the most respected education at present: as long as you work hard, you can challenge the limit and constantly break through yourself. Through hard work, you will definitely change your destiny. However, more and more greasy middle-aged people will have the experience that no matter how hard they try, they can't seem to get further recognition, which leads to the argument of class solidification, which I firmly believe.

It seems that the more books you read, the more things you know, the more people can resonate with you, and you don't feel anxious, as if you have read a lot. Results On the eve of the exam, I participated in various activities, exchanged ideas and recited questions, because I firmly believed that "quantitative change leads to qualitative change."

Anyone with a little logic will know that those who advocate chicken soup and positive energy all day long will have time to get rid of gossip if they succeed. Do you have inspiration every day?

It's not that Li Guang is unlucky, but that he left too hard. Not only narrow-minded, but also resentful of subordinates, they will only go forward and be helpless when they encounter large-scale operations. Besides, the way he handled the problem was a bit extreme: Wei Qing, as a superior, sent someone to ask questions, but he committed suicide in a rage. We should analyze the reasons why we have repeatedly missed the opportunities provided by history and not worshipped Wan Huhou.

People who know a little about natural science will also sneer at the beginning of this article, "Ten years of arsenic on their heads." Because although chickens will ingest harmful heavy metals during pecking, these heavy metals are mainly stored in brain tissue. The older the chicken, the more it is stored, and the more toxic it is. If consumers eat too much or eat for a long time, it may cause accumulation poisoning. But the life span of chickens is only six to seven years. Ten-year-old chickens are equivalent to 1 15- 133-year-old humans. It is estimated that we will not eat them. Not to mention the two-month-old broilers that are fattened and bred now. Therefore, stories like "Ten Years of Arsenic Head Race" can only "stop laughing" in the story meeting.

So it's not that reading is useless, but that reading without thinking is equal to reading in vain. 2 1 century has long been an information society. No matter how much you read, how much can you store in the computer? As advanced animals, one of our advantages is that we can think, remember what we have read, think more about why, and then criticize and absorb it in an eclectic way, which becomes a tool and methodology for our own work and life, and improves our mental maturity.

I firmly believe that the arsenic in the cock's head is a prejudice caused by cherishing life; To speak for the hero is to see that the problem is not comprehensive; I take it for granted that others can do it, so can I. The reason for this result is your own long-term results, including your own behavior, habits, cognition and the way of thinking behind it.

The so-called God of Destiny will not take care of you if there is something wrong with his way of thinking.

What if life suddenly gives you a loud slap in the face?

Everyone can reason, think about problems, and slowly understand, it is too late. But not everything in life can make you fully prepared and deal with it slowly. Imagine an extreme environment. What would you do if you were walking down the street and someone suddenly slapped you in the face?

There are three kinds of reactions: one is to get a slap without hesitation, the other is to use force instantly and then cover your face in fear to avoid it, and the third is to hold your fire and think about why you were slapped: if you really deserve a slap, you should learn a lesson; If the other person is really an asshole, we should also punish him.

Of course, some people say that the greatest revenge on the enemy is to indulge what he is doing now. Some people may even say that dogs bite, can people still bite?

There are many situations and reasons for being slapped in the face all one's life, but one's attitude towards slapping in the face is highly consistent. For example, people who are used to fanning back have been fanning others all their lives, and timid people have been escaping.

Many of us are parents, and we often feel sorry for ourselves when many opportunities that happen to us are not grasped. However, they never dig the deep-seated reasons for their failure, but only ask their children to study hard, as if they had scored high marks, and all the secular standards for measuring success naturally came. These people, like those who were slapped and confessed, failed themselves, but hoped to achieve their goals through the struggle of their children.

Winning the lottery and getting rich overnight depends on the financial freedom of demolition, and there is a high probability that another human tragedy will occur, because the mental model is not mature enough to grasp this measure of wealth. So you can't blame God for not giving opportunities, but you can only blame your inability to master and control opportunities.

Well, whether you have been slapped or not in your life, I just hope you can get something for nothing. Assuming that all the books we input are the same, then we should think more deeply about how to become different from others.