The freedom of our citizens' personal living space is increasing and the social environment is more tolerant. However, marriage and family are social cells protected by social laws and ethical norms. Only a small part of the happiness after marriage is based on the choice before marriage, and most of it depends on the mutual adaptation after marriage. We advise you not to be emotional, to treat the marital affairs rationally, and to leave calmly when you decide to leave. In short, we should seriously consider before marriage, think twice before you act, and cherish our love after marriage.

Of course, the unfortunate dissolution of marriage is also a good thing, but we are responsible for each other and the marriage. Statistics released by the Ministry of Civil Affairs some time ago show that 834 1 10,000 couples were registered nationwide last year, an increase of 227,000 couples over the previous year. Divorce registration1610.3 million pairs, an increase of 282,000 pairs over the previous year, an increase of 210.2%.

The reason for the rising divorce rate is that modern people's expectations for the quality of marriage have increased. Once the reality after marriage and the expectation before marriage are contradictory and irreconcilable, divorce is an inevitable choice. Divorce here is just a last resort. It is not a retrogression of civilization, on the contrary, it is a manifestation of the progress of our civilization. Looking back more than 20 years ago, China people's marriage was indeed in an unusually stable state, but this stability was at the expense of low quality. At that time, most people in China were still stuck in the concept of "being loyal to one's life" and "marrying a chicken with a dog", and the main purpose of marriage was to "carry on the family line". Divorce was the most difficult choice for China people more than 20 years ago. Unless you have to, you will always try your best to maintain it. Qian Qian is not the only family that suffers. People who are forced to divorce are also considered to have personality or physical defects and are discriminated against. Nowadays, China society is more and more tolerant and understanding of divorcees. Divorce is the beginning of dissolving the painful marriage and improving the quality of marriage. More and more divorcees who have got rid of painful marriages stand out and move towards a new life.