Liang Qichao has nine children. Under his education and guidance, they all became experts in a certain field, and even produced the story of "one academician and three academicians". The three academicians are architect Liang Sicheng, archaeologist Liang Siyong and rocket control system expert Liang. Besides, the fourth son Liang Sida is an economist, the second daughter Liang Sizhuang is a librarian, and the third daughter Liang Siyi is a social activist.
Liang Qichao's love for his children is all-round, not only in study, in dealing with people, but also in financial management, current affairs and many other aspects, with a peaceful and equal attitude. After reading Liang Qichao's letters, you will understand that Liang Qichao's performance in educating children in A Letter to Children is exemplary.
Liang Qichao made no secret of his love when writing letters. In a letter of June 1927, he wrote: "You know, your father is the most emotional person, and his love for you is extremely enthusiastic. No matter how busy your homework is, you must write at least once every few months, and just a few words will tell you that you are safe. "
In studying, Liang Qichao didn't value diplomas at all, but emphasized laying a good foundation and mastering the "temperature". He said to Liang Sizhuang, "It doesn't matter if you don't get into college. A diploma is not a diploma. The thicker the wall, the better. " And teach children how to ask questions and learn-"there must always be two working cycles of' strong stew' and' slow stew' alternately."
At the same time, Liang Qichao emphasized the importance of responsibility. 1923, he wrote to his eldest daughter, Liang, saying, "No matter how big or small the cause in the world is, as long as you do your best within your responsibility, you are the first." Of course, Liang Rengong did not forget to praise his son-in-law and daughter-in-law while writing and teaching his children.
Sima Guang taught his son well.
Sima Guang, whose real name is Shi Jun, is called Mr. Sushui. Northern Song Dynasty statesman, historian, official to prime minister.
Although Sima Guang is in a high position, he is strict with his godson and attaches great importance to cultivating children's awareness of self-discipline and self-improvement. He wrote an article that has been handed down to this day, "frugality to show health." He summed up the lesson that many sons of high officials and dignitaries were decadent because they could not stand on their own feet in the shadow of their ancestors, and warned his sons: "Virtue comes from thrift." "frugality is famous, extravagance is defeated."
Because of well-educated children, Sima Guang's sons are humble and polite, and have a successful life without relying on their father's power or family wealth. As a result, people all over the world know Rong Zhi, but they all know Sima's son.
Ji Hongchang didn't forget his father's instructions.
Ji Hongchang was born in Fugou, Henan. One of the leaders of the Chasui Anti-Japanese Coalition. He was a soldier in Feng Yuxiang's army in his early years. He was promoted to battalion commander and division commander because of his bravery and good fighting skills, and later served as commander of xx and chairman of xx in Ningxia.
1920, 25-year-old Ji Hongchang was a battalion commander at that time, and his father Ji Junting was seriously ill. He said to Ji Hongchang, who came to visit, "Being an official should be innocent and modest, and think more of the poor in the world. Being an official is not allowed to get rich. Otherwise, I can't sleep in the grave. " Ji Hongchang promised tearfully.
After Ji Hongchang's father died of illness, he wrote the words "Official is not allowed to get rich" on the porcelain bowl, and asked the ceramic factory to follow the example of batch firing and distribute the porcelain bowl to all officers and men. At the meeting to distribute porcelain bowls, he said, "Although I am Ji Hongchang, I will never oppress the people and plunder their wealth. I must bear in mind my father's teaching that being an official is not to make a fortune, but to do good for the poor in the world. Please supervise me. "
Ji Hongchang's words and deeds were consistent, and he was innocent and upright all his life, serving the people everywhere. When Japanese imperialism invaded China and the people were in dire straits, he opposed Jiang xx's surrender policy and rose up against Japan. At the age of 39, he was killed by xx reactionaries.