Sean,? -Qian 186) ovary, Han nationality, one of three outstanding heroes of early han dynasty. It is said that Sean was the father of the city in the early Han Dynasty ("Notes to the Later Han Dynasty" said: "Sean came from the father of the city", which is now the southeast of Bozhou City, Anhui Province). The previous generation was a Korean aristocrat. After Qin destroyed Korea, he tried to restore South Korea and make friends with assassins. He tried to attack Qin Shihuang in Bolangsha (southeast of Yuanyang, Henan) and fled to Xiapi (now Suining North, Jiangsu). In the peasant uprising at the end of Qin Dynasty, he led his troops to Liu Bang, and soon lobbied Liang's nobles to become Han Wang and Han Situ. Later, Wang Cheng of South Korea was killed by Xiang Yu and returned to Liu Bang to become his important counselor. During the Chu-Han War, he put forward some strategies, such as not establishing descendants of six countries, uniting with Ying Bu and Peng Yue, and reusing Han Xin. He also advocated killing Xiang Yu and destroying the Chu army. After Liu Bangxi entered Wuguan, he broke the enemy with one move. Help Liu bang escape from danger at the Hongmen banquet; "Please call Hanzhong Hanwang"; In the Chu-Han War, Liu Bang adopted "long-term policy to level the world". Houhou was founded in the Han Dynasty. Seeing that Liu Bang sealed the old friendship, he punished the old personal grudges and persuaded Liu Bang to seal the hatred against Yongchi and dispel doubts. Liu Bang once praised him for "strategizing, winning a thousand miles and winning the ovary". See Historical Records, Hou Shi Family and Zhang Han Liangchuan History.
Sean was the founding father of the Han Dynasty. He was not a magnificent hero. He lived in troubled times. He devoted himself to his hectic military career and made indelible contributions to Liu Bang's defeat of Xiang Yu and the establishment of the Han Dynasty. The official resigned and retired after worshiping Fu, which was the only one in three outstanding heroes of early han dynasty who died well.
Sean walked into the shoes:
According to legend, one day, Sean was walking on the bridge and met an old man. I saw the old man deliberately throw his shoes down from the bottom of the bridge and slowly said to Sean, "Young man, go down and pick up my shoes!" "Sean feel too suddenly, want to come forward to teach the old man a lesson, but because of old age, don't have the heart to start, so we have to get off the bridge to get shoes. After taking the shoes, the old man asked Sean to put them on again. Sean knelt in front of the old man and carefully helped him put on his shoes. After the end, the old man did not thank him, but left with a smile. After a while, the old man came back and said to Sean, "You can teach me. I'll see you at dawn in five days. "The second meeting was interrupted because Sean was late. On his third midnight date, Sean left before the old man. The old man gave Sean a book and said to him, "If you read this book, you will become the king's teacher. 10 years later, the world was in chaos. You will meet me in 13. Huangshi at the foot of the old city of Jibei (now southwest of Pingyin, Shandong Province) is me. "After that, I will leave soon. Sean is very strange. When he read a book the next morning, he realized that the title of the book was The Art of War (Squire, Jiang Taigong, Zhou Wuwang's strategist). Sean read this book day and night, and finally became a "think tank" with profound understanding, resourcefulness and both civil and military skills. 10 years later, the Chen Sheng uprising broke out. 13 years later, Sean arrived in Gucheng, and there was a statue of Huangshi at the foot of the mountain. The old man's prophecy miraculously came true. Although this story was invented by later generations, he praised Sean's cleverness. Su Shi once commented on Sean's self-restraint in Hou Lun, saying: "Death is not surprising, anger is not without reason. "
The story tells that at the end of Qin Dynasty, Sean failed to assassinate Qin Shihuang in Bolangsha and fled to Xiapi for seclusion. One day, he met an old man with white hair, long beard, crutches and brown clothes on the stone bridge in the town east. The old man's shoes fell under the bridge. Please ask Sean to help him pick them up. Sean was surprised and thought, Who are you? Dare I help you pick up your shoes? Sean even wanted to punch each other, but seeing that he was old and frail, but young and strong, he restrained his anger and went to the bridge to help him pick up his shoes.
Who knows that instead of thanking him, the old man laughed and put out his foot and said, "Put on my shoes!" " "Sean was furious: Hey, this bad old man, I kindly helped you pick up your shoes, but you still push your luck. Let me help you put on too much!
Zhang was about to blurt out abuse, but on second thought, anyway, the shoes were picked up, so be a good person and do it to the end. So I silently put on my shoes for the old man. Sean's respect won the old man's consent, and he could "teach". After several tests, the old man finally gave Sean the Art of War, which he annotated all his life. Sean got this wonderful book, read it day and night, and later became the famous founding minister of the Han Dynasty, who was full of strategy and wisdom.
Feel and reveal the truth:
There is an old saying in China that "full strokes hurt people and moderate gains". Sean suppressed his unhappiness and picked up his shoes to put on the old man. It seems timid, but it is by no means a sign of weakness. It is in constant comity that Sean honed his will and increased his wisdom. Later, he became a famous founding minister of the Han Dynasty, full of strategy and wisdom.
Smart people are often modest and low-key, and are good at hiding their abilities. Young managers often make such mistakes. When they first arrive in a company, they are often eager to show their abilities. Burning three fires without knowing the company, the result is either burning at the wrong time or burning in the wrong place, which is not only thankless, but also ridiculed by others as "ignorance" and "lack of stamina" And a mature manager often masters a kind of management and handling skills, so that others' attacks can not play a role because they have no focus. On the contrary, they can easily hit their competitors hard. This is the real master.
Modesty is not only to keep a low profile, learn from others, but also to accept criticism. Many business leaders are self-centered in their work, don't listen to other people's suggestions, and can't tolerate others disagreeing with their own opinions. This will not only get the respect of subordinates, but also develop a "shoeshine culture" over time, which is very dangerous for enterprises; As an employee, you should be able to accept the criticism of the leader, because the criticism of the leader is entirely out of a public interest or hope that you can make progress. If you are wrong, you can't take it seriously, or try your best to find some "reasons" for yourself, which is bound to leave an arrogant or irresponsible impression on the leaders and thus lose many opportunities. It is not terrible for a person to make mistakes. The terrible thing is that he doesn't have the courage to accept criticism and correct.