1. The life pressure of young people is too great.
Nowadays, young people don't have children after marriage, mainly because young people are under great pressure. After all, I am rushing to work every day, and I have to pay off my mortgage and car loan every month. The economy is depressed. This is not a good time to have a baby. Coupled with the epidemic, the living conditions of young people are not very smooth. They have to deal with all kinds of complicated affairs at work every day, and sometimes they have to work overtime. Not only the pace of life is fast, but also the psychological pressure is great. In this atmosphere, we can only drag the baby back.
At this stage, I prefer to stay alone rather than live with a baby.
Young people are already very busy, except for working hours, the only private time left is gone, so they will yearn for a life of two people. After all, every day is a continuous rotation, and there is no time for entertainment and enjoyment. So some newly married young people will be less anxious to have children. They will feel more free without having children and can arrange their own lives at will. After having children, young people are deprived of part of their only time, and the original wanton life is gone. Then, some young people don't plan to have children after marriage. They want to live alone for a few years and then think about it slowly.
3. The identity change is very slow, and I'm not ready to be a parent.
Some young people don't have children because they are still young at their age. As far as they are concerned, they think they are not mature enough to be parents for the time being. Then under such circumstances, naturally there is no consideration for having children. After all, they feel that they are still children, and it is not appropriate to have children so early. Therefore, on the whole, young people will not have children so early, and want to leave a buffer period for identity change and make plans later.
I have some psychological fears about having children.
Some young people have been married for many years and have never had children. Maybe I'm busy at work, so I have no plans for the time being; It may also be because I don't want the other person's life to be broken because of the arrival of children, so I didn't have children first. In addition, women's fear of having children is also at work. Because if someone understands the process of giving birth to a baby, they will have fear and fear. For those who are afraid of pain, they will be more afraid of the pain caused by giving birth. After all, the tolerance for pain really varies from person to person. Coupled with the real feedback from some people who have babies around them, they are even more afraid of having babies. Then, you will find that some young people have been married for a long time and have no children.
There are many reasons why young people don't have children, probably because life at this stage is not suitable for having children; Either they have other plans at present, so they don't plan to have children in recent years; Or they think that the life of two people is more comfortable than having children, so they postpone having children.