Licking dogs is actually quite normal. Many boys don't know much about love, and he hasn't had much contact with girls. Moreover, his personality may not be very ostentatious, a little introverted, afraid of offending people, a little flattering and lacking in love thinking.
This kind of boys tend to devote themselves to their emotions and please girls unconditionally, which leads them to be at a disadvantage in emotional relations. Such people are thankless in their emotional relationships and can easily be considered as licking dogs in today's society.
Personally, I admire them. It's not easy to lick a dog, and only I know the pain, so I often don't spray a dog licker, because they are brave enough to put their true feelings into a person and endure this pain, at least much braver than those incompetent cowards who run away when they are cold.
However, it is extremely wrong and inefficient to worship and lick dogs.
Many people think that emotional people like us are licking girls. To tell the truth, I try to do things in a better way to achieve my goal. If it doesn't work, I'll change it to a less good method. So I think if I can catch up with girls, I can lick them or I can be car-scrapping. These are your skills, which are more realistic than letting people not lick the dog's garbage.
But what I still want to say is that we are doing the emotional industry mainly to let you pursue girls in a more efficient and accurate way. We know that it is difficult to lick a dog, which is a wrong way, so I won't teach you that licking a dog and smashing your own signboard is not the right thing. This is a logic that even fools can understand. Of course, those who have no skills and only tell people not to lick the dog's garbage should be brainless and incomprehensible.
They will tell you not to please girls, so you are licking the dog. Although I don't know where they learned the theory and thinking, in their minds, as long as you take the initiative to chat and interact with girls, you are flattering girls and licking dogs.
Many of them are children who have never been in love, underage children who don't understand the world, bachelors who hate women all the year round, men who love but can't hate them, disgusting ghosts with ulterior motives, and little is known about their feelings. All they know is not to lick dogs. They don't lick dogs for emotional comfort. They just hate all the kindness to girls because they can't lick the dog well.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with telling others not to lick dogs, but the problem is that there must be a way to solve the problem of his improper licking of dogs and get love, right? Although he licked harder, at least he was still rubbing on the edge of love. Although I can't get in, I can still have an intracranial orgasm. What can you do except tell him to give up? Besides, if someone licks it, it may really become true. Aren't you hurting people?
But I reiterate that licking dogs is wrong, but it is basically good and reasonable for girls, and you should have principles, a bottom line and be lenient.
There is a more realistic saying that if you have no money, you can't give the love you want. I don't know what I want from you. If you have no money, give love. If you don't give love and money, you just want others to rely on you, and you don't look in the mirror. Is it possible that you will chase a woman who has no figure, no appearance and no inner self? It's better not to be so double-marked.
They were even more angry when I said that they were double bidding.
Finally, talk about the principle of licking dogs. The basic logic of love is to know, contact, date, upgrade relationships and lovers. Confessions before becoming lovers may be empty, and many people just know each other for less than two days.
It's not that you can't get into Jiaotong University at these stages, but that neither you nor the other party can get into Jiaotong University. You can't even judge the other person's affection for you. Don't think that the story of Brother Flat Head is rare. In fact, the story of Brother Flat Head is very common! Don't misjudge girls' affection for you!
It doesn't matter if you are too old, but once you are too old, don't entangle yourself and give up, unless the other party comes to you actively (this situation has to be subdivided). If you keep chasing when you are free, you will become a licking dog.
Generally speaking, you become a dog licker because you have exposed your sense of need. Your sense of need for her is greater than hers, so she can control her emotions well. She thinks she has pinched you.
When you lick a dog, it's usually because your skeleton is lower than hers. For example, if you ask another company to do something, only that company can do it. Do you want to politely ask him to do it, so you will become a person who please this company. If you ask this company to do something and give it what it wants, are they more willing to do it for you?
Therefore, you need to try your best to achieve equivalent exchange in the interaction with each other. If you have what they want more, then your framework is naturally higher than theirs.
So you need to improve your value, attract each other and become a better person.