Filial piety system is an important part of feudal law, and it is a system in ancient China to show the range of relatives and the distance between relatives through the grade of mourning. It can be divided into five parts, namely, Ban Shuai (Yin Cui, three years' service), Cui Zi (one year's service), Dagong (nine months' service), Hong Xiao (five months' service) and Suima (three months' service), so it is called "five services".

In the Ming Dynasty, Hongwu was customized for seven years, and his son and parents died for three years (this so-called three years is actually 27 months). Clear and unified. Daughter-in-law is an aunt and wife is a husband, which have been ruined for three years. After the Ming Dynasty, the husband was the wife (parents were absent), the son was the mother, the mother married, and Cui Zi was the wife. In the seventh year of Hongwu in the Ming Dynasty, Di Zi and his son were given the title of concubines, and the concubines died for three years because of their biological mother in Cui Zi's crutch period (crutch period refers to a year of crutches, indicating special grief). Clear and unified. For grandparents, uncles, parents, aunts, sisters, brothers, nephews, etc. Cui Zi doesn't take a stick. It's May for great-grandparents Cui Zi. Waiting for Cui Zi's parents in March.

Translated, parents (first mothers) should be filial for three years, grandmother for one year, mother for one year, brothers and uncles for one year, and grandmother for May. Therefore, Kangxi should keep filial piety for his grandmother Xiao Zhuang for one year and for Empress Zhang Hui (the first mother) for three years. The philosophers of Kangxi should honor their great-grandmother Xiaozhuang for five months, their grandmother Empress Xiao for one year, their three wives (such as Empress Tong Jiashi) for three years and Kangxi for three years. De Fei became a queen because she was the emperor's biological mother. I wonder if she is the first mother of other princes? To be tested)

So what can't be done in mourning? In ancient China, the crime of "unfilial" was the seventh of the ten evils, and the punishment was very heavy, and "everlasting forgiveness" (advocated from the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period to the Han Dynasty) officially became a part of the criminal law. )。 Tang Law said, "Tell your grandparents and parents, as well as grandparents and parents who have different wealth in other countries, if they are not enough; If you live at your parents' funeral and marry yourself, if you are happy, you will obey Ji; I don't mourn when I hear the funerals of my grandparents and parents; Fraud grandparents parents died. "The above situation is unfilial.

The great crime of unfilial piety related to mourning mentioned here is "to live without parents, to marry and marry, and to be happy with it;" I don't mourn when I hear the funerals of my grandparents and parents; Fraud grandparents parents died. "The so-called' keeping the system' means that after the death of parents or grandparents in the old society, the son or grandson stayed at home for 27 months, during which he did not become an official, did not take exams, and did not get married.

Generally speaking, the most serious unfilial behavior during parents' funeral is marriage. The Family Marriage Law (General 179) says: "Parents and husbands have been married for three years and separated." The "Professional Law" (a total of 120) stipulates: "Before the funeral system is completed, the release will be based on good luck. If you forget the sorrows and sorrows, it will only be three years." The so-called "forgetting worries and having fun" mainly refers to marriage (weddings and funerals are what the ancients called weddings and funerals), rather than drinking at the opera in general. Of course, this is not good. "Tang Law" stipulates that "juggling for one year" is not allowed to get married during the funeral, nor can children get married during their parents' criminal imprisonment.

Extension: Filial piety: after the death of a relative, before he is fully served, he lives at home and cuts off entertainment and communication to show his grief, which is called "filial piety". Simply put, filial piety is mourning for parents.

Filial piety time: the actual filial piety time of Confucianism is 27 months, because it takes 27 months for a mother to breastfeed her child.

According to Confucius, a gentleman is sad when his parents die, and he will feel uneasy when he pursues enjoyment. Confucius had no choice but to say that if you are safe, you will do it. The implication is that Confucius will have no peace and can only hold a funeral once every three years. After three years of mourning, you should keep the mourning hall, don't post couplets, don't give new year greetings to others, and don't set off firecrackers. In the first phase, Jinshan Yinshan will be burned, in the third phase, golden barrels and silver barrels, in the fifth phase, five flowers bought by my daughter, and in the seventh phase, the ship shore tree will be burned, and the paper will be burned one hundred days in advance, and several times in the first year.