There is a girl who is going to give a concert. The poster says that she is a student of Liszt. Liszt appeared in front of the girl the day before the performance. The girl was frightened and sobbed, claiming that she had no livelihood and asking for forgiveness. Liszt asked her to give him her bullet and give him some advice. Finally, she said brightly: "Come on stage and act boldly. You are my student now. You can announce to the theater manager that the teacher will play the last program of the party for the students. " Liszt played the last song at the concert.
2. Legend of Liuchi Lane
During the reign of Emperor Kangxi in Qing Dynasty, Zhang, a native of Tongcheng, went to Wenhua Hall as a university student and a minister of rites. The neighbor is another big family in Tongcheng, and the owner is Ye Shilang of the same dynasty. The two families had an argument over the courtyard wall. Mrs Zhang wrote a book for Zhang Ying. Zhang Ying was deeply worried after reading the letter. She replied to the old lady, "A letter thousands of miles away is just a wall, so what's the harm if it makes people three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. "So, Mrs. Zhang told the family to stand back three feet and build a wall. Ye Fu was so moved that he ordered his family to move the courtyard wall back three feet. Since then, Zhang and Ye's two governments have eliminated barriers and become family friends.
3. Peng measures magnanimity.
More than 30 people, including Peng, commander-in-chief of the Third Army of the Red Army, inspected the terrain ahead, and the messenger shouted out of the way while holding the red flag. Only one soldier sat still. Peng shouted a few words when he saw someone in the way. The soldier stood up and gave General Peng two punches. Mr. Peng told him to hurry. Later, the messenger tied up the soldiers and went to see General Peng. General Peng immediately told him to go back to war and knew that he was in trouble. Seeing that General Peng was indifferent, he was scared and moved. Later, he said to everyone, "The commander-in-chief is really generous!"
President Lincoln is famous for tolerating political opponents, and later he finally caused a member's dissatisfaction. The member said, "You should not try to make friends with those people, but destroy them." Lincoln smiled and replied, "When they became my friends, wasn't I destroying my enemies?" Yes, a more tolerant and open opponent may be our potential friend.
5. Who made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project? Pan, a famous water conservancy engineer, said in response to a question from a foreign reporter: "Those who oppose the Three Gorges Project have made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project." The existence of opponents can keep a clear and rational mind and do things more comprehensively. It can stimulate your courage to accept challenges and produce the' potential' to show your life. This is not simple tolerance, but sharpening your will and sharpening your life edge.
6. In dealing with friends, tolerance is the gold given to Guan Zhong. He can understand Guan Zhong's fear of death regardless of selfishness. He also recommended Guan Zhong to Qi Huangong as his boss.
7. Dealing with people, tolerance is the torch of Emperor Guangwu burning books to defect to the enemy. When Liu Xiu defeated Wang Lang, invaded Handan and consulted the official documents of the former dynasty, he found a large number of letters that flattered Wang Lang, insulted Liu Xiu and even planned to kill Liu Xiu. But Liu Xiu turned a blind eye to this and burned them all, regardless of the opposition of all ministers. He let bygones be bygones, turned enemies into friends, strengthened his own strength and finally became emperor. This fire
8. Zi Gong, a student of Confucius, once asked Confucius, "Teacher, is there a sentence that can be used as a principle of being a man?" Confucius said, "This is probably forgiveness." "Forgiveness", in today's words, is tolerance.
9, prime minister belly punting
Shu in the Three Kingdoms period appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the state affairs after Zhuge Liang's death. One of his subordinates is Yang, who is withdrawn and speaks slowly. When Jiang Wan talked to him, he only answered. Someone couldn't get used to it and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "It's outrageous that Yang is so rude to you!" Jiang Wan smiled indifferently and said, "Everyone has his own temperament. It's not in Yang's nature to praise me to my face. Let him criticize me in front of everyone, and he will feel ashamed of me. So he had to keep silent. In fact, this is his valuable place. " Later, some people praised Jiang Wan that "the prime minister can punt in his stomach".
10, offer a humble apology
Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing for his feat of "returning to Zhao safely", ranking above Lian Po. Lian Po defy spirit, threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru face to face. Lin Xiangru learned that, as far as possible to avoid, tolerance, not conflict with Lian Po. Lin Xiangru's minions thought he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said, "The State of Qin did not dare to invade our State of Zhao because of me and General Lian. When I tolerate and succumb to General Lian, I will put the national crisis ahead and personal grievances behind! " When Lian Po heard this, there was the story of Lian Po's "offer a humble apology".
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Dong was a native of Jiyang, Shandong Province, and was an official in Beijing during the Ming Dynasty. One day, he received a letter from home saying that his house was built to lay a foundation, and he had a quarrel with his neighbor, hoping that he could use his power to solve the matter. Dong immediately wrote a book after reading it, saying, "A thousand miles to send books is just for the wall, and I can't help laughing and breaking my heart;" You are very kind to me and close to me. Why not give up both feet? "After the family saw it, they felt that Dong made sense. When building a house, they voluntarily gave up a few feet of land. Neighbors saw Dong Jia's behavior and felt something, so they followed suit. As a result, the two houses were eight feet wide, and after the houses were built, there was an alley called Renyi Hutong.